I could help you with some coding and networking. I dont know much about the software your using but Ive been working on games for a few years and wouldn't mind giving you some help
First you could buy this book
http://www.amazon.com/Multiplayer-Pr..._tit_2_rsrssi0
I found it realy helpful its worth the $40
also you can email me and I can give you some more help
qwerty797@gmail.com
Hope this helps