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Noah

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Well, OnRPG, I figure since a community of geeks is as good a place to ask as any other, I'd like some opinions on a girl.

You see, there's this chick I'm interested. Very nice, very pretty, kinda has her own unique style going on. Not only that but we seem to have some common ground... We both hate my ex girlfriend, she smokes pot occasionally, and best of all, she's a gamer. Not hardcore or anything, but she owns an Xbox can beat my *** in a Halo match.

Only thing is, she is in fact, very desirable to a great number of people here. I've seen her in the company of guys a lot, but they've never really turned back up, so that's something. She says that she's available, but is pretty picky, and I'm afraid her standards might be a bit high for me.

I've already asked her to hang out with some of my friends, and she seemed cool with it, so I've been thinking of asking her out on a date that day.

Should I go for it OnRPG?

EDIT: Snide/Sarcastic comments shall be taken in compensation for real responses.

Jakuza

Yes Noah, you are a sexy man. DO IT.

But seriously, it's common for men to believe some women have very high standards in a man. It makes them iffy about asking them out, like you are, per say. It would be better if you found out her standards in men, and see if you fit and maybe exceed them. Then once that's all good, DO IT.

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Pinay

Perhaps you should wait a bit just talk to her. I may have read it wrong, but it seems like you haven't talked to her much. I wouldn't want to go on a date with a guy I don't know very well. Talk to her, don't make it so you have to be chasing her. Make it so she feels as if she has to chase you. Once you feel she's pursuing you, go ask her out.

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Norrin Radd

Don't ask her out on a date. Dates are for calendars.

The second you ask her out on a date, you are putting both of you into the mindset that it's a date, and any natural way of acting goes out the window. When people go into the Big Brother house, they become actors, because they always know they are being watched by people.

Same with a date, you know in your mind that dates come with expected events, words or actions.

Just "hang out", and keep hanging out until something either happens or it doesn't.

Don't assume her standards are higher than you can reach. Just because a woman feels that she is only worth rich and famous men, doesn't mean she is any better than someone flipping burgers at McDonald's. Sup, Paris Hilton.

Be yourself, if that's not good enough, just tell her to get in the van and you won't hurt her.

PhilosLol

Just go for it, unless you wanted to spend your entire life with gaming and virginity.

Seriously, go for it!!

What Pinay say is wrong.

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yoyoball

Do it if she really seems like a cool person. if shes the hang-out type then she'd probably be more as a friend, though. but if your really willing to be in a relationship, then go ahead!

watever floats yer boat!

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Pinay

Wth are you talking about? How is what I said wrong.

Norrin has a point also, just hang out, then the second time you hang out be flirty. If you don't ever be flirty, you'll get thrown into the "Brother" category, like a play brother and you'll have lost your chance.

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noodlepics

If you think you know her and she knows you well enough that she's comfortable around you, I'd say go for it.

If she doesn't know you that well, you might want to let her hang out with you a bit more. Just be careful that you don't act SOO nice that you solidify yourself as "a friend only" when you hang out with her. Try to make your intentions slightly clear to her without coming off as a creep so that she'll have to think of you in that light.

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Gaika

What have you got to lose?

You seem like a cool guy, I don't think you'd get rejected.
Like you said, you guys hung out, she can whip your *** in games.
But make sure you dont get stuck in the friend zone with her. So when comes the time to ask her out she blushes and says she only likes you as a friend.

Which sucks hardc0re.


and actually, most of OnRpg aren't they fat guys with greasy faces and comb overs you'd expect on a gaming forum. Pretty much everyone is down to earth and has some great qaulities to them.


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Noah

I've talked to her plenty, and we already chill as friends sometimes.

You must not be very good at dates.