Old 01-07-2009, 05:23 AM   #101 (permalink)
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That's the problem with society. People over complicate things. Things don't need to be complicated. A relationship is two people sharing each other, nothing more, nothing less. A friendship is two people who get along and share things with each other, nothing more, nothing less. There is no such thing as real, "maturity," it's just a state of mind. Age has NOTHING to do with a relationship, really. In fact, I would prefer seeing five-year-olds in relationships rather than seeing, "mature couples." Why? Because those kids have it all figured out. It's so simple. You just over complicate things. Put on your rose colored glasses. It's better.

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Old 01-07-2009, 05:24 AM   #102 (permalink)
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What he is saying Transient, is that people can experience love without supporting a family, or having sex, that's just being close minded to assume people have to go through these things to experience it.
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Old 01-07-2009, 05:25 AM   #103 (permalink)
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What he is saying Transient, is that people can experience love without supporting a family, or having sex, that's just being close minded to assume people have to go through these things to experience it.
People over complicate, "love." It's so simple, though.
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Old 01-07-2009, 05:27 AM   #104 (permalink)
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Well you guys have fun fighting over the internet about something that doesn't need to be fought about....wait my grammer sucks.

anyways i'm going to bed to wake up and see my girl =P,who knows maybe i'll fall in love with her? cause ya know,KIDS CAN LOVE.
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Old 01-07-2009, 05:28 AM   #105 (permalink)
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I never said children have the mental capacity of an adult, that was not the issue. You said children are incapable of understand love as an adult is, or being able to have real relationships, now that I disagree on. Learn to differentiate, it is obvious I was not referring to that in any way.

Your opinion of upholding a relationship, as you've said, it is only effectively a real relationship once they've had sex, paid each others bills, and supported a family, am I wrong?

I wasn't comparing the two, I was using it as an example to say that children can feel love, they just can't process it as well as adults, which is a given, because their minds AREN'T FULLY DEVELOPED. That however is no reason to say they don't feel real love.
I never said children can't feel love I was arguing that sometimes children will need adivce from adults becuase they are not experienced enough to make the correct decisions.

A child's affection towards another is definately not the same as an adults and sometimes kids forget that when they want to become an adult and move in within their loved one and make adult decisions.

there is no age line for when one becomes an adult. What it takes is the ability to take responsiblity for your actions and be able to weigh your needs over your wants.

Explaining things like a stable economic status and sex to a 13 year old is a hard thing to do. Yes your job and sex makes a big difference in a relationship.
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