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Hatashi · 01-31-2009, 12:32 PM

Keep your talk short like
''I love you, And i wil know u wil be with me always''

And then listen to what he has to say without interupting him.
Also tell him u remember all the cool things u 2 did toghether, And i really know how to lose someone u love that much.

Zymbaline · 01-31-2009, 02:17 PM

Enjoy the time he has left, together.

Talk, sing, listen to music, laugh, read, whatever.

Samhain · 01-31-2009, 03:11 PM

Take the time to say something to him, seriously, before it's too late.

When my grandpa was dying, the cancer and the chemo made him so weak that most of the time he was in an indistinguishable gibberish state, and I never got the chance to tell him how I felt before he went into that state and eventually passed away.

TheJESTERJ · 01-31-2009, 03:30 PM

Say what you have to say to him while you can.

Valostar · 01-31-2009, 03:38 PM

Man, spend as much time with him as you can. I lost my grandpa in october last year, I still remember the day I got called to the guidance office at school. My counsellor looked at me and told me i needed to call home. Nobody was giving me any information and i was freaking out..When she looked at me and asked "Did you have a sick grandparent?" I knew immediately. We were really close, I caught my very first fish with the guy, but at the same time i really regret not spending more time with him whenever they'd come to visit. My grand father was an amazing man, and he was loved by many people, just as i'm sure yours is. So go and talk to him, spend time with him,and let him know how much you love him.

Ronin · 01-31-2009, 04:39 PM

Don't waste time checking this thread.
Smile.
Be with him if he is conscious.

hobolord · 01-31-2009, 09:17 PM

yes just being with him can help like everyone said say what you need to say

Lick · 01-31-2009, 09:52 PM

I know what you're going through.

He gets sick, you get emotional and depressed, your friends ask what's wrong, you tell them about your grandpa, they say "aw I'm sorry" but you can tell they don't mean it because you know they're really thinking "who cares. he's your grandpa. old people die" but no one understands the relationship you two share.

Same exact thing happened with me and my grandpa, although he survived, and it was hard to deal with. I understand what it's like and if no one else does, I truly do sympathize for you. I hope he pulls through okay. If he doesn't though, you could try what I'm going to do when my grandpa finally passes:

I'm going to get all the men in my side of the family to get a matching tattoo of something in his honor in the same spot.

01-31-2009, 02:17 PM	#32 (permalink)
Zymbaline Super Duper Uber Mega Ultra Extreme Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Sweden. Posts: 910 Reputation: 34	Enjoy the time he has left, together. Talk, sing, listen to music, laugh, read, whatever. __________________

01-31-2009, 03:30 PM	#34 (permalink)
TheJESTERJ OnRPG Elite Member! Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Fort Worth, Texas Posts: 4,598 Reputation: 177	Say what you have to say to him while you can. __________________

01-31-2009, 03:38 PM	#35 (permalink)
Valostar Lives in City of Zeroes Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: ON,Canada Posts: 643 Reputation: 20	Man, spend as much time with him as you can. I lost my grandpa in october last year, I still remember the day I got called to the guidance office at school. My counsellor looked at me and told me i needed to call home. Nobody was giving me any information and i was freaking out..When she looked at me and asked "Did you have a sick grandparent?" I knew immediately. We were really close, I caught my very first fish with the guy, but at the same time i really regret not spending more time with him whenever they'd come to visit. My grand father was an amazing man, and he was loved by many people, just as i'm sure yours is. So go and talk to him, spend time with him,and let him know how much you love him. __________________ Subscribe to my youtube channel! Currently playing: Nothing

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Ronin OnRPG Elite Member! Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Hitman Victor Posts: 4,922 Reputation: 302	Don't waste time checking this thread. Smile. Be with him if he is conscious. __________________ Stay frosty.

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01-31-2009, 12:32 PM	#31 (permalink)
Hatashi Banned Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Chechnya Posts: 3,284 Reputation: 237	Keep your talk short like ''I love you, And i wil know u wil be with me always'' And then listen to what he has to say without interupting him. Also tell him u remember all the cool things u 2 did toghether, And i really know how to lose someone u love that much.

01-31-2009, 03:11 PM	#33 (permalink)
Samhain Lockhart’s are forever Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Out along the way, I got so bogged down. Posts: 388 Reputation: 9	Take the time to say something to him, seriously, before it's too late. When my grandpa was dying, the cancer and the chemo made him so weak that most of the time he was in an indistinguishable gibberish state, and I never got the chance to tell him how I felt before he went into that state and eventually passed away.

01-31-2009, 09:17 PM	#37 (permalink)
hobolord Roon's Rogue Join Date: May 2006 Location: australia Posts: 4,310 Reputation: 68	yes just being with him can help like everyone said say what you need to say

01-31-2009, 09:52 PM	#38 (permalink)
Lick Banned Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: In the forest, frolicking with the deer and bunnies. Posts: 529 Reputation: 76	I know what you're going through. He gets sick, you get emotional and depressed, your friends ask what's wrong, you tell them about your grandpa, they say "aw I'm sorry" but you can tell they don't mean it because you know they're really thinking "who cares. he's your grandpa. old people die" but no one understands the relationship you two share. Same exact thing happened with me and my grandpa, although he survived, and it was hard to deal with. I understand what it's like and if no one else does, I truly do sympathize for you. I hope he pulls through okay. If he doesn't though, you could try what I'm going to do when my grandpa finally passes: I'm going to get all the men in my side of the family to get a matching tattoo of something in his honor in the same spot.