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Civil · 01-30-2009, 08:11 PM

What do I say to him? (Lol for asking this on website)

He was supposed to die almost 60 years ago doctors said, but hes still alive. Lived through cancer a few times, many problems and gone through hell but we found out hes in the hospital in eqcruating (sp) pain and it blows because hes the only person in my whole family that actually understands me and we love the same stuff like history and rock music. I always feal bad, as I should talk to him more but he's literally the nicest guy you'll ever meet (for instance) he always e-mails and loves the internet and shit, and he sends me like 50+ emails ever day and he ecen knows I dont respond or check them, but he never stoped.

Thalamast · 01-30-2009, 08:12 PM

sounds like a nice guy

SimplyLuck · 01-30-2009, 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Civil

What do I say to him? (Lol for asking this on website)

He was supposed to die almost 60 years ago doctors said, but hes still alive. Lived through cancer a few times, many problems and gone through hell but we found out hes in the hospital in eqcruating (sp) pain and it blows because hes the only person in my whole family that actually understands me and we love the same stuff like history and rock music. I always feal bad, as I should talk to him more but he's literally the nicest guy you'll ever meet (for instance) he always e-mails and loves the internet and shit, and he sends me like 50+ emails ever day and he ecen knows I dont respond or check them, but he never stoped.

Well you could start with, I love you.

MariaMariaaa · 01-30-2009, 08:13 PM

Make him something handmade. Like a sculpture of this fav musician?

Or maybe a collection of pictures you took with him-- better yet, an album of aaaalll his pictures.

and have him tell you the history behind every single one. I'm sure he would love that.

shadowsworn · 01-30-2009, 08:14 PM

Make sure you do try to talk to him as much as possible now, whatever you say (I'm not sure what tbh), before pain medication and pain makes him too confused to even recognize you most of the time (this is what happened to my nonno when he was dying of cancer, anyway)

Civil · 01-30-2009, 08:14 PM

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Originally Posted by MariaMariaaa

Make him something handmade. Like a sculpture of this fav musician?

Or maybe a collection of pictures you took with him-- better yet, an album of aaaalll his pictures.

and have him tell you the history behind every single one. I'm sure he would love that.

I don't think he has that long. He went in after puking up and my mom got a call and its much worse then they thought. He was supposed to die in his 30's or 40's though I think hes 86.

witness · 01-30-2009, 08:15 PM

Tell him how you feel, reflect on the good ole days, tell him to fight death and thank him for everything he's done for you.

MariaMariaaa · 01-30-2009, 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Civil

I don't think he has that long. He went in after puking up and my mom got a call and its much worse then they thought. He was supposed to die in his 30's or 40's though I think hes 86.

Then tell him you love him and you'll never forget all the good times you've had.

...and get him chocolates.

Civil · 01-30-2009, 08:16 PM

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Originally Posted by witness

Tell him how you feel, reflect on the good ole days, tell him to fight death and thank him for everything he's done for you.

I don't remember much. All I know is he's probably the only one in my family I care about because we are so similar.

Gaika · 01-30-2009, 08:16 PM

That's cruel that you didn't check his emails or anything. Now, life is biting you in the ***.

Spend more time with him. Everybody leaves once in a while.

01-30-2009, 08:11 PM	#1 (permalink)
Civil Raiyne's Rock Band Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Happy Jack Posts: 2,197 Reputation: 37	Shit my Grandpas dying What do I say to him? (Lol for asking this on website) He was supposed to die almost 60 years ago doctors said, but hes still alive. Lived through cancer a few times, many problems and gone through hell but we found out hes in the hospital in eqcruating (sp) pain and it blows because hes the only person in my whole family that actually understands me and we love the same stuff like history and rock music. I always feal bad, as I should talk to him more but he's literally the nicest guy you'll ever meet (for instance) he always e-mails and loves the internet and shit, and he sends me like 50+ emails ever day and he ecen knows I dont respond or check them, but he never stoped. __________________

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MariaMariaaa Power_Gamer_6's Pick Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: a spanish harlem Posts: 2,406 Reputation: 76	Make him something handmade. Like a sculpture of this fav musician? Or maybe a collection of pictures you took with him-- better yet, an album of aaaalll his pictures. and have him tell you the history behind every single one. I'm sure he would love that. __________________

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shadowsworn Retired Staff Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 9,130 Reputation: 246	Make sure you do try to talk to him as much as possible now, whatever you say (I'm not sure what tbh), before pain medication and pain makes him too confused to even recognize you most of the time (this is what happened to my nonno when he was dying of cancer, anyway) __________________ From which of this oak shall I hang myself?

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witness SuperKenshin's Servent Join Date: May 2006 Location: Witness protection! Posts: 1,047 Reputation: 26	Tell him how you feel, reflect on the good ole days, tell him to fight death and thank him for everything he's done for you. __________________ Some things are forever, some things are not, it's the things we remember that gave the world shock.

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01-30-2009, 08:12 PM	#2 (permalink)
Thalamast Banned Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: New Jersey Posts: 2,875 Reputation: 24	sounds like a nice guy

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Gaika Banned Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 2,759 Reputation: 55	That's cruel that you didn't check his emails or anything. Now, life is biting you in the ***. Spend more time with him. Everybody leaves once in a while.