Old 02-12-2009, 01:11 PM   #1 (permalink)
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So, here's what happened today:

Today after school at the bus station there was this little fat kid.
Obviously it didn't take long till someone made fun of him. It was one of my class mates(the bully).
Anyway, after I had got on the bus I had to sit next to that same fat kid(the bus was crowded). And behind me my class mate and some little brat were sitting.
And they started bullying this fat kid again. It got worse and worse.
Eventually the kid ticked out tried punching my class mate. It didn't work out to the fat kid's desire, though. I don't know what exactly happened there(I didn't turn around) but it must have been quite something because all the pupils turned around and starred at that fat kid. He was embarrassed and started crying. This was when my class mate went overboard, IMO.
I swear I'd have taken action if it wasn't this guy(the bully).
I'm not friends with him but we get along and he's a quite good built guy.
I don't want to harm this relationship with him for that, to be honest.
Don't care much what happens to him, though. I have to help that kid somehow though because it wasn't the first time he bullied him and it won't be the last time either. This can't go on like that and before the situation escalates something has to happen. I was thinking of telling it the school principal and telling him to keep me anonymous but I don't know if that's a good idea. It might get worse then.
OnRPG, give me some advice. I feel sorry for that kid but I don't know what to do.
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Old 02-12-2009, 01:20 PM   #2 (permalink)
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if you guys get along like you say then just tell him "dude leave the fat kid alone theres no point in buggin him" and if he doesn't listen then you and the fat kid form an alliance and bully the bully.......just so you know bullys are little sissys outside of school so they want to seem tough by picking on people they know they can beat in school....either that or they get abused by their mommy...dont be afraid to speak up to him
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I was thinking of telling it the school principal and telling him to keep me anonymous but I don't know if that's a good idea.
this.

the stigma of squealing only exists so that people can carry on getting away with picking on someone half their size/weight

the only options are to bash the shit out of the bully or squeal. since the first is out of the question, go for the latter.

bullying should only exist on the internet.
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Your just as wrong as the bully if you don't do something about it. Calling him out on the bus might have solved everything. Everyone around you was prolly thinking the same thing...it just takes one person to say it usually.

Nobody thinks he is cool for picking on another person. He might have it in his head that its like that, but if you called him out I'm willing to bet someone else would have been all over it too.

Edit: But yeah, either go to him or the administration. I'd go straight to him if I were you, but thats because the administration never gave a shit about what I had to say. Or next time say "Are you so insecure with yourself that you have to put others down to feel better?". I know it sounds lame, but it almost always works.
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Bully doesn't hate you I take it, next time sht like that happens you beat his fn ***. Since he won't expect that from you surprise him and take the advantage, then he will be scared of you and wont do anything. Then you become the bully , it really does work just do it infront of a large crowd,
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if you guys get along like you say then just tell him "dude leave the fat kid alone theres no point in buggin him" and if he doesn't listen then you and the fat kid form an alliance and bully the bully.......just so you know bullys are little sissys outside of school so they want to seem tough by picking on people they know they can beat in school....either that or they get abused by their mommy...dont be afraid to speak up to him
Nah, I'm not afraid but it's no use talking to him. I know him good from parties and stuff and he's always been the kind of guy who's seeking trouble and fights. He wouldn't dare to punch me but he wouldn't stop bullying that kid or anyone else for that matter either. He'd not even take it seriously. Not the slightest bit.

I think I'll stick with squealing. Thanks Deimos. It's just that I don't know if I'll actually stay anonymous. :S
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If you don't think you should get involved face to face, buy the fat kid a treadmill and some slimquick.
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You should give the fatty fatty McFatty fatterson this piece of advice:

"Highschool is a lot like prison, just shiv the first guy you see and everyone else will think you are crazy and leave you alone."

**Sidenote, I don't think it is actually that way, I remember a kid who was in my class for one day before he ended up stabbing someone after school, then he was off to juvy (and getting free ski trips!)**
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I think I'll stick with squealing. Thanks Deimos. It's just that I don't know if I'll actually stay anonymous. :S
In the case of doubt, remember Murphy's law.

I personally wouldn't rely on anonymity, nor a plan that includes it.

Whatever you choose though depends on the guy and how big you trust in yourself to resolve the issue in a "no trouble" manner.

A good method to go through with it is to follow the method of constant escalation; Just follow through with all options present and give them a try. If they don't work take the next more severe one (once again, doesn't work with anonymity, if you choose to try for it, do it quickly and with no regrets, even if it ****s up).
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That fat guy should learn how to fight a little<having on overweighted body can help you if u are using it right>

Yea i am fat 92 kg but i am also 1,90m hight<played volleyball> so my appearance intimidates a lot of guys.I remember when i was in my first highschool year a guy was picking on me<i do have the sense of humor and i like jokes even if they are about me since i do jokes about others 2> and 1 day i lost my calm and picked up a chair and knocked that ****tard down cold<since my classmates said its his foult i didn't got expelled>

My advice is:no don't interfere in some1 else business unless he gets psihically harrased,stay cool,stay on your seat and don't give a shit about others...

If u really wanna help that guy ,tell him to...idk take some fighing classes<boxing is good for fat guys and also the basic steps of taekwondo since u will be used in using your feets better>


sry for bad english....just had few beers with popcorn<yay more fat on meh> and i am rushing not to be late on my driving school xD
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