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I know Onrpg isn't the best place to ask these sort of questions but I have nowhere else to ask.
Sorry if this is the wrong section

Anyway this is the story;

About 2 and a half months ago I got my junior cert results and me and my friends decided to celebrate so we went out for a meal, there was 8 of us. We went back to my mates GF's house and basically had a party, there was alcohol and everyone was pretty drunk. My mates GF invited one of her best friends, she goes to my school but I didn't know her at the time. Now at this time I was really interested in this girl I've known for a while, we hung out together ect but nothing ever came of it. Well me and the girl I didn't know hit it off at the party, she was getting real close to me, like leaning in towards me when we were sitting down together. I was abit drunk so I didn't think anything of it. After I went home my mates GF rang me and asked would it be alright if (I'm gonna call her V) V could have me number, I said yeah and she texted me a few minutes later.

We texted each other nearly everyday and everything was going great. Oh yeah we don't hang around with the same people so we only really see each other in school. Anyway I'd always try get her out but she always had some stupid excuse like ''I'm too tired after school'' even though she'd go out to get friends. I only seen her outside school twice in those 2 and a half months, once was when me, her, my mate and his GF went to his GF's house. We watched a film and we were so close it was amazing, she was touching me all over my body it felt great we ''made out'' ( is that what the Americans call it?) then she had to go home. the second time was yesterday but she was only down for 5 mins before she left, she didn't even say bye and completely ignored me.

She actually said she loved me and that I was the most amazing person she ever met and that I was perfect for her. She said she hoped I never ditched her for another girl. I felt the same way about her and still do
One day out of the blue she said we text too much and that I was being clingy and that she'd usually get rid of me but I'm a nice person
Well we stopped texting for about 2 weeks but in this time I asked her out and got rejected she said shes ''not ready for a relationship'' aka not ready for a relationship with me everything is back to normal now kind of, she says she still likes me but that she doesn't feel as strong about me as she did. She said she needs time to get those feelings back.

Oh yeah! she never talks to me in public, like in school she'd be messing with my best friend joking ect and say nothing to me she always just walks off without saying anything and shes not a shy person so I don't understand her. I'm a pretty shy person though and I feel real awkward around her for some reason even though I basically love her. Oh and she has a rep for being a slut and she has loads of male friends which kind of bothers me. I just hate the fact that when shes texts me shes all flirty and doesn't seem to realise the major problem in the fact that we don't talk or hang around with each other outside, she avoids me like the plague yet insists she still likes me.

Sorry for the huge post I didn't want to leave anything out

I need advice on what to do, I don't want to loose this girl, shes just perfect.

1) How do you think I should go about talking to her in school?

2) How do you think I could get her to hang around with me? her excuse is we hang around with different people but that shouldn't be a problem shes just making it one

TL;DR I like girl and she likes me but she never talks to me in public and won't hang around with me.

Anglo

Something tells me she only likes the idea of being with you. Not actually being with you :|.

I've had familiar experiences with Irish girls, and to me, they are all just leader-ons. I had the exact kind of relationship with a girl in school before and we went out a couple of times, dated for like 2 weeks etc then we kinda just stopped.

Main thing is dude. Don't be stalkerish :|. All girls feel pressurised when the person is always just THERE. But if the girl can't handle you being there all the time how can she expect to date you, because you will always be there! Something tells me shes a regular school b*tch talking out of her a** dude. No offence :|.

Oh. And what happened with the girl I dated? Shes now dating my best friend.

I'd lol if this was just a troll.

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Starkler

A reputation for a slut?
Why do you like this chick?

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Oisterboy

Let it be. Many many girls are unstable and this looks like a very unstable one.

Don't chase her, don't beg.

If she comes around, go for it...but don't chase after her.

Don't expect any kind of relationship from a slutty girl. Also - she said she loves you but refuses to talk to you sometimes? Ugh, what an emotional trainwreck. Cut her off now imo.

Think of it this way -if you're not even in a relationship yet and shes causing you this much stress and confusion...how much is she going to hurt you once you're dating?

Not worth the emotional trauma. Hit it on the weekend if you feel like it, but don't try to make a lady out of a child.

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sixkil

I almost had the same situation with someone, just don't beg like oister said. Try to meet at her/your home that's more personal. Talking at school and public will come later.

If she doesn't go after you, then just let her be.

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Oisterboy

Yeah, but should it? I understand not having mutual friends, but in his words she "avoids him like the plague"...thats a red flag for sure.

I'll say it again. Trainwreck.

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sixkil

If she really avoids him he should just lock her up in his basement

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Norrin Radd

If a girl is ashamed of you, be ashamed of yourself for still wanting to be with her.

You've got to get to a point in your life where you chase what you want, but if a girl doesn't want you, you've got to let it go.

sidimazz

Ive been having trouble with my girl lately to, Me and her have been a couple for 4 years. Sometimes I let my friends ride her, and go on her but she loves me most. recently shes been making a lot of noise when I... You know. I tried letting my friends another go, and he said he got the same problem, any idea
what I should do. I tried taking her somewhere to help her out with her problem. I think I should just break away from her. Or just use her when Im bored.





































Pic related its my girl.

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Xenonight2

Important question: how old are you?

She sounds like she is very immature, doesn't know what she wants, so she's stringing you along until she does. Not the type of girl you want to be in a relationship with.

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