hmm sounds similar to me back when i was 14-16, only thing that helped is moving to my own little house. since then i never got trouble with parents anymore and were just nice to eachother.
i dont know how old u are, and allot of mothers are different ofcource, but locking out your mom from the house and trowing buckets of water at them can be enough for them to call the cops to stop u. and make this happening 2-3x and theyll take u away and u'll be spending a half year cooling down in jail. otherwise they could put u in some forced therapy building for kids or how the hell thats called in english dunno.(OR BOTH
) just be carefull m8 =p listen to ur mom once in a while. otherwise u'll go trough all this shit ive been trough. lucky its over now though