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Lawliet1 · 05-15-2011, 08:28 PM

"You wish has come true."

Aye yo *waves arms* we're over here. JK

On a serious note,that sucks =/.

What happened?

Oisterboy · 05-15-2011, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by V-Opolis

lost all my friends somehow so I more than likely will never be back on Onrpg ever again. Have good lives.

But OnRPG are your friends <3

Ronin · 05-15-2011, 09:09 PM

That's not what I wished for.

I am kinda clueless on what to say as there is really nothing substantial to work with. Stop punishing yourself, you don't deserve that. It's not your fault and that you feel out of touch with yourself at the same time as your life changes is just a coincidence.

Some people grow up earlier and some later, some have their naivety slowly fade away when they are still in the safe harbor of being someones child. Some people aren't as lucky and loose their illusions the hard and painful way.

In the end it doesn't make you a better or worse person and even though they hardly match with those of others, everyone has problems, bigger or smaller.
It doesn't change us a whole lot and we can't share this part for real and if we try we get hurt, that's why everyone is so cautious and living in his only turtle shell.

Now if you don't know yourself no one can help you to become yourself, they can at best relate a little but mostly not even that.
Spend a moment to think of a time where you felt great about yourself; Did anyone from outside make that happen, or did your friends support you in a way to create that? Well I am taking a shot at this one and say no.

Everyone can stop being a comforter for himself and if you are not being able to make yourself comfortable alone, you won't be comfortable with other people either. Everyone can feel lonely in a crowded place and everyone can feel great on his own, without depending on people.

You are probably having a rough patch of your life under your feet right now. Who knows if it's going to get better or worse or just drag on. That's why you are not in all forms responsible. Give yourself a break from fixing yourself and start to listen to yourself again.

(Yea I know that I am a pointlessly rambling wiseass and that this might not help you and just look ridiculous to anyone who reads it, but I gave it a shot.)

Songz · 05-15-2011, 09:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ronin

That's not what I wished for.

I am kinda clueless on what to say as there is really nothing substantial to work with. Stop punishing yourself, you don't deserve that. It's not your fault and that you feel out of touch with yourself at the same time as your life changes is just a coincidence.

Some people grow up earlier and some later, some have their naivety slowly fade away when they are still in the safe harbor of being someones child. Some people aren't as lucky and loose their illusions the hard and painful way.

In the end it doesn't make you a better or worse person and even though they hardly match with those of others, everyone has problems, bigger or smaller.
It doesn't change us a whole lot and we can't share this part for real and if we try we get hurt, that's why everyone is so cautious and living in his only turtle shell.

Now if you don't know yourself no one can help you to become yourself, they can at best relate a little but mostly not even that.
Spend a moment to think of a time where you felt great about yourself; Did anyone from outside make that happen, or did your friends support you in a way to create that? Well I am taking a shot at this one and say no.

Everyone can stop being a comforter for himself and if you are not being able to make yourself comfortable alone, you won't be comfortable with other people either. Everyone can feel lonely in a crowded place and everyone can feel great on his own, without depending on people.

You are probably having a rough patch of your life under your feet right now. Who knows if it's going to get better or worse or just drag on. That's why you are not in all forms responsible. Give yourself a break from fixing yourself and start to listen to yourself again.

(Yea I know that I am a pointlessly rambling wiseass and that this might not help you and just look ridiculous to anyone who reads it, but I gave it a shot.)

Wow Ronin. That brought a tear to my eye. Very heartwarming and true.

A lot of people latch onto their partners or friends to create their own happiness. But if you're out alone, and everyone around you is sad, and you you sad. Thats just straight indication that you're not a whole man yourself.

You need others not to make you, but add onto you. You need to be a full person yourself.

I don't feel like typing anymore, thats why this whole post will seem vague and immature. But listen;
Quick facts.

Suffering, bad feelings, stress, all that is created by things you cannot control. You can only control the things in your own personal boundaries. If you don't know yourself, and your own boundaries, then you'll start to let the world around you make decisions for you. Opening up holes in yourself. Like water your confidence and well-being will leak out of those holes until you learn to mend them.

Say no to the things you don't want. Yes to the things you do. Start doing things you can do. You want to do. Realize your own identity and feel confident and alive every decision and action you take and make.

I recently myself fell into a very low place in my life. I didn't know who I was, and wanted to create a new me.

I walked into the world ready to start up this insane goal and in returned actually found myself, and who I was.
A lot of the things I did I started to notice the choices I had, and made decisions.

I spoke to people I wanted to, did the things I felt like. Realized who i am, the things I like, and how I would like to get treated.

All of sudden the friends I thought I lost. The friends I felt were trying to pull me back into drugs understood me. They felt my boundaries, and just added onto myself.

I feel more complete because I'm not Codependent. I'm not Independent.
I'm an Interdependent.

Friends will come, in the end its all up to you.

Alivada · 05-15-2011, 09:57 PM

Who are you again?

kuturu4FA · 05-15-2011, 10:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Alivada

Who are you again?

This .

Hatashi · 05-15-2011, 10:04 PM

Naa, just kidding bro, I'll be your friend.

Frostbitten · 05-15-2011, 10:24 PM

I'm pretty sure that most people on here liked you just fine.

good luck with life, though, whatever you end up doing.

Kupopo · 05-16-2011, 09:26 AM

Wow, Ronin It was really inspiring!!!!!
There is nothing to add.... but maybe one thing from me... if you feel free you you can take the liberties of doing whatever you want without any limitation... because all these things only in our mind....Nobody care of you if you won't care of yourself!!!!! Thanks for sharing your thoughts!!!

05-15-2011, 08:15 PM	#1 (permalink)
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05-15-2011, 08:28 PM	#2 (permalink)
Lawliet1 Cloud13's Clown Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 2,954 Reputation: 146	"You wish has come true." Aye yo waves arms we're over here. JK On a serious note,that sucks =/. What happened? __________________

05-15-2011, 09:09 PM	#4 (permalink)
Ronin OnRPG Elite Member! Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Hitman Victor Posts: 4,923 Reputation: 302	That's not what I wished for. I am kinda clueless on what to say as there is really nothing substantial to work with. Stop punishing yourself, you don't deserve that. It's not your fault and that you feel out of touch with yourself at the same time as your life changes is just a coincidence. Some people grow up earlier and some later, some have their naivety slowly fade away when they are still in the safe harbor of being someones child. Some people aren't as lucky and loose their illusions the hard and painful way. In the end it doesn't make you a better or worse person and even though they hardly match with those of others, everyone has problems, bigger or smaller. It doesn't change us a whole lot and we can't share this part for real and if we try we get hurt, that's why everyone is so cautious and living in his only turtle shell. Now if you don't know yourself no one can help you to become yourself, they can at best relate a little but mostly not even that. Spend a moment to think of a time where you felt great about yourself; Did anyone from outside make that happen, or did your friends support you in a way to create that? Well I am taking a shot at this one and say no. Everyone can stop being a comforter for himself and if you are not being able to make yourself comfortable alone, you won't be comfortable with other people either. Everyone can feel lonely in a crowded place and everyone can feel great on his own, without depending on people. You are probably having a rough patch of your life under your feet right now. Who knows if it's going to get better or worse or just drag on. That's why you are not in all forms responsible. Give yourself a break from fixing yourself and start to listen to yourself again. (Yea I know that I am a pointlessly rambling wiseass and that this might not help you and just look ridiculous to anyone who reads it, but I gave it a shot.) __________________ Stay frosty. Last edited by Ronin; 05-15-2011 at 09:12 PM.

05-15-2011, 10:24 PM	#9 (permalink)
Frostbitten Luigi’s Pizza Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 165 Reputation: 30	I'm pretty sure that most people on here liked you just fine. good luck with life, though, whatever you end up doing. __________________ I like noise. I like big-ass vicious noise that makes my head spin. I wanna feel it whipping through me like a fucking jolt. We're so dilapidated and crushed by our pathetic existence we need it like a fix. -Steve Albini

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05-15-2011, 09:57 PM	#6 (permalink)
Alivada OnRPG Elite Member! Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Somewhere over the rainbow Posts: 5,130 Reputation: 162	Who are you again?

05-15-2011, 10:04 PM	#8 (permalink)
Hatashi Banned Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Chechnya Posts: 3,284 Reputation: 237	Naa, just kidding bro, I'll be your friend.

05-16-2011, 09:26 AM	#10 (permalink)
Kupopo Marios's Mustache Wax Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 14 Reputation: 10	Wow, Ronin It was really inspiring!!!!! There is nothing to add.... but maybe one thing from me... if you feel free you you can take the liberties of doing whatever you want without any limitation... because all these things only in our mind....Nobody care of you if you won't care of yourself!!!!! Thanks for sharing your thoughts!!!