Well its stilll not working after trying all the methods. SO i'll write out exactly step by step what i did, to see if you can find an error somewhere..
Downloaded.. installed successfully.. etc.
After that, i downloaded the downloaded_program_files, and the active X manager, and extracted the downloaded program files into my Nostale directory, and just to be safe, the nostale data directory. Now, i opened up active x, and double clicked NostaleWebLauncher.ocx and it said registered successfully, and did the samet hing with the one in the data folder. I now went to register my GameNGame account, and didn't relogin when it asked me to. I went to the ip address, and logged in successfully, yet when i clicked play it still said something like Please Install ActiveX "nostale Starter". i can't find anything worng with what i did, can you?
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i found out that you have to keep the activeX manager open. my mistake. can someone add that to the front page?
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now that i logged in, its weird, because it says that i don't have the correct graphic driver used to play, except i do. because im able to play every other game out there that has higher pc. specs than this

. weird. im about to give up for all these problems ><