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BooNeZ · 07-12-2007, 02:13 PM

Here, it's GMT+8, 9:59 pm, July 12, 2007..

For 7 straight years..She has been one of my closest friend (is my grammar right?)..and for a while now, I just noticed that I like her..alot..(some of you may know what my problem is, because as far as I remember, I posted a thread about "Getting out of the Friend Zone, going to the Girlfriend/Boyfriend zone")..the time above..is the time that she told me that..

"I dont think you can take our friendship..to a higher level.."

But before that, I told and promised her, that no matter what happens, I'm here for her, and that we will still be friends..and now..it's like..I'm crying..this is the first time, I liked someone, SOOOOOO much...I told her, "Dont be afraid to tell me that I have no chance to be with you.."..this is just too much..I mean, 7 years straight, no feelings, just REALLY close friends, then there's just this one time that I went out with her because of her problem..then POOF..there goes the feeling..this is something..god damn it..biggest promise I ever made...

theultimate2004 · 07-12-2007, 02:18 PM

She's got a boyfriend? I'ma reply.

BooNeZ · 07-12-2007, 02:20 PM

She doesn't have one..but..she has some mutual understanding with someone else..

theultimate2004 · 07-12-2007, 02:23 PM

Aww.. mutual understanding huh? As in, they called up each other and meet up frequently? Pardon me, just woke up to check out this site..

And what's your age? << Important =)

soe1 · 07-12-2007, 02:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BooNeZ

She doesn't have one..but..she has some mutual understanding with someone else..

that right there tells u... u had ur chance roflll

, idk go ask dr phil,most of us are only kids

Ramstien · 07-12-2007, 02:32 PM

Pro tip: friends-to-boy/girl friends doesn't work.

Khanstruct · 07-12-2007, 02:36 PM

Sorry, that statement basically means she's not interested. However, depending on yours and her age, that statement may also mean nothing. Currently, she's not interested. However, if the two of you are young enough, that can (and most likely will) change. Teenagers are typically still in the process of learning what they want, so nothing is set in stone.

Unfortunately, if you're anything like me, you'll become much too anxious, try to rush things and ruin everything. Honestly, continue to be her friend. If she has or ever will have feelings for you, that is the ONLY way she will ever realize that. If you press this issue, no matter how charming you think you're being about it, you'll push her away.

I wish you more luck than I had.

P.S. I'll be 30 on Saturday, so I have a little life experience to back this up.

Cingal · 07-12-2007, 02:42 PM

Going from a close friend to a lover is never really a good idea, what if you two break up? You've not only lost a lover but you've also lost a good friend. It's pretty risky.

Basically, by what she said, she's not interested right now, if you're really want to go to the next step, just wait and continue the way you normally do.

soe1 · 07-12-2007, 02:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cingal

Going from a close friend to a lover is never really a good idea, what if you two break up? You've not only lost a lover but you've also lost a good friend. It's pretty risky.

Basically, by what she said, she's not interested right now, if you're really want to go to the next step, just wait and continue the way you normally do.

wtf? just cuz you broke up, doesnt mean you cant be back to being best friends..well who is this guy anyway, do you happen to know him?

Cingal · 07-12-2007, 02:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by soe1

wtf? just cuz you broke up, doesnt mean you cant be back to being best friends..well who is this guy anyway, do you happen to know him?

Well, I've only had bad break ups which normally end in me losing quite a few people, so it's based on my own personal experiences.

I have no idea who this guy is.

07-12-2007, 02:13 PM	#1 (permalink)
BooNeZ Norrin Radd's Nerd Rage Join Date: May 2006 Location: Sugarland, TX Posts: 1,655 Reputation: 15	For you MATURED people..I just want to share my story.. Here, it's GMT+8, 9:59 pm, July 12, 2007.. For 7 straight years..She has been one of my closest friend (is my grammar right?)..and for a while now, I just noticed that I like her..alot..(some of you may know what my problem is, because as far as I remember, I posted a thread about "Getting out of the Friend Zone, going to the Girlfriend/Boyfriend zone")..the time above..is the time that she told me that.. "I dont think you can take our friendship..to a higher level.." But before that, I told and promised her, that no matter what happens, I'm here for her, and that we will still be friends..and now..it's like..I'm crying..this is the first time, I liked someone, SOOOOOO much...I told her, "Dont be afraid to tell me that I have no chance to be with you.."..this is just too much..I mean, 7 years straight, no feelings, just REALLY close friends, then there's just this one time that I went out with her because of her problem..then POOF..there goes the feeling..this is something..god damn it..biggest promise I ever made... __________________

07-12-2007, 02:18 PM	#2 (permalink)
theultimate2004 SuperKenshin's Servent Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 1,017 Reputation: 10	She's got a boyfriend? I'ma reply. __________________ This account = DEAD New account : Leviarel

07-12-2007, 02:20 PM	#3 (permalink)
BooNeZ Norrin Radd's Nerd Rage Join Date: May 2006 Location: Sugarland, TX Posts: 1,655 Reputation: 15	She doesn't have one..but..she has some mutual understanding with someone else.. __________________

07-12-2007, 02:23 PM	#4 (permalink)
theultimate2004 SuperKenshin's Servent Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 1,017 Reputation: 10	Aww.. mutual understanding huh? As in, they called up each other and meet up frequently? Pardon me, just woke up to check out this site.. And what's your age? << Important =) __________________ This account = DEAD New account : Leviarel

07-12-2007, 02:32 PM	#6 (permalink)
Ramstien Fabio_R's Fruitcup Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 3,686 Reputation: 21	Pro tip: friends-to-boy/girl friends doesn't work. __________________

07-12-2007, 02:36 PM	#7 (permalink)
Khanstruct 500+ Posts???? Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: WI, USA Posts: 515 Reputation: 0	Sorry, that statement basically means she's not interested. However, depending on yours and her age, that statement may also mean nothing. Currently, she's not interested. However, if the two of you are young enough, that can (and most likely will) change. Teenagers are typically still in the process of learning what they want, so nothing is set in stone. Unfortunately, if you're anything like me, you'll become much too anxious, try to rush things and ruin everything. Honestly, continue to be her friend. If she has or ever will have feelings for you, that is the ONLY way she will ever realize that. If you press this issue, no matter how charming you think you're being about it, you'll push her away. I wish you more luck than I had. P.S. I'll be 30 on Saturday, so I have a little life experience to back this up. __________________ http://www.pillar4.com/ "Don't worry about people stealing an idea. If it's original, you will have to ram it down their throats." ~ Howard Aiken

07-12-2007, 02:42 PM	#8 (permalink)
Cingal The Devil's Advocate. Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Oh, you know, around. Posts: 11,701 Reputation: 301	Going from a close friend to a lover is never really a good idea, what if you two break up? You've not only lost a lover but you've also lost a good friend. It's pretty risky. Basically, by what she said, she's not interested right now, if you're really want to go to the next step, just wait and continue the way you normally do. __________________ On nights like tonight, When no one's around. I sit in the dark, with my hands on the ground. And I smile like the devil smiles. Unseen but proud.

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