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Shynobi22 · 07-26-2007, 04:28 PM

Alright it's been one year since my parents divorced. My dad cheated on my mom they divorced then as soon as they divorced he brings back his fcking immagrant GF to our house. Ever since she started living with us things have been going down hill. Mom threatning to bring my dad to court dad calling my mom all these things.

I don't know if I should take anyones side or if I should take one side. Dad is starting to be an assh0le all he does is annoy me. Mom just spends money with us but I don't know if she's doing it to buy our trust. So yea I'm done waiting for me to find an answer.

Maver64 · 07-26-2007, 04:31 PM

When that happened to my parents when ever I went to get water I would tell them to shut up :|

Fox Company · 07-26-2007, 04:32 PM

Go with your mom

Xenonight2 · 07-26-2007, 04:51 PM

My dad cheated on my mom four different times and they're still together. (My mom found out about all of them at the same time.)

It seems to me that people think that just because it is socially acceptable to divorce immediately after finding out about the other's unfaithfulness they should leave. Divorce, as much as it is necessary at times, shouldn't be the first thing that comes to mind when you find out about infidelity- ahh, this is a rant for another time.

God be with you man, parents fighting is Hell, and so is divorce.

Anyway, my advice is to not take sides, but simply go with the one you think would take care of you the best. Also, tell your mom you don't need to spend that money on you, and that you love her anyway... That is, assuming that you do love her.

The-Phoenix · 07-26-2007, 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Xenonight2

My dad cheated on my mom four different times and they're still together. (My mom found out about all of them at the same time.)

It seems to me that people think that just because it is socially acceptable to divorce immediately after finding out about the other's unfaithfulness they should leave. Divorce, as much as it is necessary at times, shouldn't be the first thing that comes to mind when you find out about infidelity- ahh, this is a rant for another time.

God be with you man, parents fighting is Hell, and so is divorce.

Anyway, my advice is to not take sides, but simply go with the one you think would take care of you the best. Also, tell your mom you don't need to spend that money on you, and that you love her anyway... That is, assuming that you do love her.

Sounds like your mom didn't put out. Your dad had to look elsewhere for sex Xenonight2 =[.

shadowsun50 · 07-26-2007, 06:33 PM

My parents are always arguing and almost divorced last week,so all I can say to you is good luck and I hope everything goes smoothly for you.

Vi3tElite · 07-26-2007, 06:37 PM

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Originally Posted by shadowsun50

My parents are always arguing and almost divorced last week,so all I can say to you is good luck and I hope everything goes smoothly for you.

Wow.....sounds like you live in my house.....it sucks....and happens quite frequently....

Oisterboy · 07-26-2007, 09:16 PM

It's been a really long time for me. How old are you? If you feel you can keep a neutral side of the argument, and its something really severe, I would try to help moderate. I would NOW anyway...they did it when I was 7, so, I can't even remember all the details. Its a tough ride...people with both parents don't know how tough it is, ya know?

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

Keep your head up.

Endonei · 07-27-2007, 01:45 AM

my parents are divorced mom has been married 3 times dad 3 and they already have boyfriends and girlfriends and theyve been divorced for about 3 months? lol but my sister cuts herself i have back pains mom is an alcholic dad "was" abusive our family is just alittle messed up lol so were getting through it though i guess

CabooseNation · 07-27-2007, 02:06 AM

Just hold on and savor the day you can live away from them and the mess they created...

07-26-2007, 04:31 PM	#2 (permalink)
Maver64 `Doll's Dishwasher Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Gold Shire Posts: 1,476 Reputation: 54	When that happened to my parents when ever I went to get water I would tell them to shut up :\| __________________

07-26-2007, 04:51 PM	#4 (permalink)
Xenonight2 POPOPOPGOESTHEGLOCKGLOCK Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 8,339 Reputation: 321	My dad cheated on my mom four different times and they're still together. (My mom found out about all of them at the same time.) It seems to me that people think that just because it is socially acceptable to divorce immediately after finding out about the other's unfaithfulness they should leave. Divorce, as much as it is necessary at times, shouldn't be the first thing that comes to mind when you find out about infidelity- ahh, this is a rant for another time. God be with you man, parents fighting is Hell, and so is divorce. Anyway, my advice is to not take sides, but simply go with the one you think would take care of you the best. Also, tell your mom you don't need to spend that money on you, and that you love her anyway... That is, assuming that you do love her. __________________

07-26-2007, 09:16 PM	#8 (permalink)
Oisterboy \| (• ◡•)\| (❍ᴥ❍ʋ) Join Date: May 2006 Location: Just Past Jupiter Posts: 16,564 Reputation: 644	It's been a really long time for me. How old are you? If you feel you can keep a neutral side of the argument, and its something really severe, I would try to help moderate. I would NOW anyway...they did it when I was 7, so, I can't even remember all the details. Its a tough ride...people with both parents don't know how tough it is, ya know? What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Keep your head up. __________________

07-27-2007, 01:45 AM	#9 (permalink)
Endonei Orc's Breathmint Join Date: May 2006 Location: Khaini Posts: 116 Reputation: 10	yeah my parents are divorced mom has been married 3 times dad 3 and they already have boyfriends and girlfriends and theyve been divorced for about 3 months? lol but my sister cuts herself i have back pains mom is an alcholic dad "was" abusive our family is just alittle messed up lol so were getting through it though i guess __________________ Currently Playing Guild Wars IGN:Coo Nee Chee Wah

07-27-2007, 02:06 AM	#10 (permalink)
CabooseNation 42 Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 913 Reputation: 11	Just hold on and savor the day you can live away from them and the mess they created... __________________

07-26-2007, 04:32 PM	#3 (permalink)
Fox Company Banned Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Austin,Texas Posts: 2,344 Reputation: 6	Go with your mom

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