Rah33m, I suggest you stay away from Flash/Action Script. I suggest you learn something like Python first. The syntax is very simple, and you will be coding in it quickly. Not only that, it's fast. You will be doing much better in Python than Flash if you really want to program. There is also pyGame(I think thats the name) for Python where it makes it easier to program GUI and games.
After that I would suggest you start C or C++, and later return to Actionscript. If you learn C/C++ there is really no need to learn Java unless you want to. The other guys know a lot more about C++/C than I do so I suggest you listen to them when you want to ask about C++.
Believe me though, you will be doing a lot more better things in Python than you will in Actionscript probably. I can recommend some tutorials also if you decide to learn it. I also have an example of a simple calculator in Python to show you what code looks like and how easy it is.
http://pastebin.com/f614d0889
That should look pretty English.