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kcool · 10-14-2007, 02:11 PM

Well im shyy and i want to know if theres a way to overcome it or do you just have to live with it or something?

Jakuza · 10-14-2007, 02:31 PM

I use to be very shy, until a year (or so) ago.

I got out more, talked to people, and started to know/trust/love myself.

First of all, you gotta know yourself.
Trust and love yourself, most important things.
Then, you gotta start mingling (in real life) with people.
Open up to conversations..
Bring up stuff that you would like to talk about..
Etc..
Do this, and your self-confidence will get better as time comes.

kcool · 10-14-2007, 02:33 PM

o cause this girl likes me nd i liek her nd i was to ask her out friday nd idk what to do now i think she hates me =/

Oisterboy · 10-14-2007, 02:36 PM

Beer, and lots of it.

No, but seriously, Jakuza was on to something for sure. You've gotta be comfortable with yourself before you can look to put trust in others. Don't trust anyone too quick, and make sure you only trust a few. After one person breaks your trust, it will hurt. You'll bounce back, a new and better person. Just be prepared for it.

Jakuza · 10-14-2007, 02:37 PM

Why would she hate you?

kcool · 10-14-2007, 02:44 PM

cause my frend made her cut class and we went to brooklyn college toochill by the pond and so she was next to me nd talked a lilttle and they wher like GO ASK HER OUT mad loud and ther like do it bfor u lose ur chacne this nd tht and they were makin me nervous and after that i didnt so she didnt talk to me...=/

hksmrchan · 10-14-2007, 02:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kcool

cause my frend made her cut class and we went to brooklyn college toochill by the pond and so she was next to me nd talked a lilttle and they wher like GO ASK HER OUT mad loud and ther like do it bfor u lose ur chacne this nd tht and they were makin me nervous and after that i didnt so she didnt talk to me...=/

happened, shes just shy herself.

according to the books or manga, boys arent possed to be shy, i dont know whats worng with me ;/

Jakuza · 10-14-2007, 02:53 PM

Heh, that happened to me once.

Cept, my story was a bit different.

It was the first time me seeing this girl in real life. I talked to her for awhile online. She was sitting on a friend's porch, and I came outside. I sat on the stairs and ain't say one word to her (WRONG MOVE). It was like that for the next 15 minutes. I was just talking to my cousin (ANOTHER WRONG MOVE). Then outta nowhere she screamed at me "I'M RIGHT HERE, YOU KNOW!!?". At first, I didn't know what the hell she was talking about. I just gave her a blank stare. Like this..

Then like.. later on she left. The next day, she I.Ms me on AIM saying that I'm shy and shit. She was sure pissed. But luckily, after explaining myself, she forgave me.

kcool · 10-14-2007, 02:53 PM

broo u tellin me she not shy at all she had bfs bfor i think and she used to come up to me hug me say ilu to mee bfor i knew she liekd me this nd tht

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jakuza

Heh, that happened to me once.

Cept, my story was a bit different.

It was the first time me seeing this girl in real life. I talked to her for awhile online. She was sitting on a friend's porch, and I came outside. I sat on the stairs and ain't say one word to her (WRONG MOVE). It was like that for the next 15 minutes. I was just talking to my cousin (ANOTHER WRONG MOVE). Then outta nowhere she screamed at me "I'M RIGHT HERE, YOU KNOW!!?". At first, I didn't know what the hell she was talking about. I just gave her a blank stare. Like this..

Then like.. later on she left. The next day, she I.Ms me on AIM saying that I'm shy and shit. She was sure pissed. But luckily, after explaining myself, she forgave me.

Yeahh nd i was wit my frend on the bench he was on the left she was on the right i was in the middle and my other friendd was on the other bench wit his gf doing stuff and so i was talkin to my frend nd not her she sed im bored i wnna go bak to skewlthis nd tht after 15 mins nd she also asked me to walk around which i didnt bigg mistakee so yeh it endedup real bad

Neros · 10-14-2007, 02:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kcool

broo u tellin me she not shy at all she had bfs bfor i think and she used to come up to me hug me say ilu to mee bfor i knew she liekd me this nd tht

I'd like to help you, but I dont really understand what you are saying.

10-14-2007, 02:11 PM	#1 (permalink)
kcool 42 Join Date: May 2006 Location: IT DOESNT MATTER WHERE I LIVE! Posts: 913 Reputation: 10	Shyness Well im shyy and i want to know if theres a way to overcome it or do you just have to live with it or something? __________________

10-14-2007, 02:31 PM	#2 (permalink)
Jakuza OnRPG Elite Member! Join Date: May 2006 Location: Flower City, NY. Posts: 10,737 Reputation: 152	I use to be very shy, until a year (or so) ago. I got out more, talked to people, and started to know/trust/love myself. First of all, you gotta know yourself. Trust and love yourself, most important things. Then, you gotta start mingling (in real life) with people. Open up to conversations.. Bring up stuff that you would like to talk about.. Etc.. Do this, and your self-confidence will get better as time comes. __________________

10-14-2007, 02:33 PM	#3 (permalink)
kcool 42 Join Date: May 2006 Location: IT DOESNT MATTER WHERE I LIVE! Posts: 913 Reputation: 10	o cause this girl likes me nd i liek her nd i was to ask her out friday nd idk what to do now i think she hates me =/ __________________

10-14-2007, 02:36 PM	#4 (permalink)
Oisterboy \| (• ◡•)\| (❍ᴥ❍ʋ) Join Date: May 2006 Location: Just Past Jupiter Posts: 16,564 Reputation: 644	Beer, and lots of it. No, but seriously, Jakuza was on to something for sure. You've gotta be comfortable with yourself before you can look to put trust in others. Don't trust anyone too quick, and make sure you only trust a few. After one person breaks your trust, it will hurt. You'll bounce back, a new and better person. Just be prepared for it. __________________

10-14-2007, 02:37 PM	#5 (permalink)
Jakuza OnRPG Elite Member! Join Date: May 2006 Location: Flower City, NY. Posts: 10,737 Reputation: 152	Why would she hate you? __________________

10-14-2007, 02:44 PM	#6 (permalink)
kcool 42 Join Date: May 2006 Location: IT DOESNT MATTER WHERE I LIVE! Posts: 913 Reputation: 10	cause my frend made her cut class and we went to brooklyn college toochill by the pond and so she was next to me nd talked a lilttle and they wher like GO ASK HER OUT mad loud and ther like do it bfor u lose ur chacne this nd tht and they were makin me nervous and after that i didnt so she didnt talk to me...=/ __________________

10-14-2007, 02:53 PM	#8 (permalink)
Jakuza OnRPG Elite Member! Join Date: May 2006 Location: Flower City, NY. Posts: 10,737 Reputation: 152	Heh, that happened to me once. Cept, my story was a bit different. It was the first time me seeing this girl in real life. I talked to her for awhile online. She was sitting on a friend's porch, and I came outside. I sat on the stairs and ain't say one word to her (WRONG MOVE). It was like that for the next 15 minutes. I was just talking to my cousin (ANOTHER WRONG MOVE). Then outta nowhere she screamed at me "I'M RIGHT HERE, YOU KNOW!!?". At first, I didn't know what the hell she was talking about. I just gave her a blank stare. Like this.. Then like.. later on she left. The next day, she I.Ms me on AIM saying that I'm shy and shit. She was sure pissed. But luckily, after explaining myself, she forgave me. __________________

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