TheWiseGuy

its not true......when the chemistry is gone all it means is that shes tired of the relationship........but what you dont realize is the only reason shes tired of it is because shes experiencing the same over and over.....so what do you have to do to bring back the chemistry...change up.....do something different that youve never done before but something that shed like....think as hard as you can find something shed love and you havent done and itll bring back a spark.....not the whole chemistry....but remember rome wasnt built in day

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Ithian

Ah but that's also what i was asking when I made this post, what are some ways to change it up. What's some things you guys did (remember: pretending it's long distance). Lets say I can't see her for 2 months straight. What are some things to do to change it up a little and keep her interested until I can see her?

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Lefos

What this man(?) says is beyond true.

Anyways, get creative. Poems are always good, as are songs and the like(provided you have that talent). Simply letting her know you like/love her is horribly obvious, but a lot of people forget to do it.

And, despite how much you may not wish to do it, talk with her. If you try and spend less time with her without letting her know why, she's gonna start to get the wrong idea(s). The last thing you want is for her to think you just don't like her anymore or something along those lines.

Thats really the best advice I can give, though its probably not the best you can get.

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Ithian

Hmm I'm good at poems, and have always loved that semester in english. They're fruity / emo / whatever-you-want-to-call them but you can't deny that you can truely express yourself in those few lines. I think I would need to work to make this relationship more serious before a love poem could be not really akward since we both are the kind of people that are playful. I think that could also be a problem, perhaps we aren't serious enough. We talk about the future sometimes but we don't think about it a lot together ( i personally do, but she doesn't suprisingly ) I think if I were to kinda push towards taking it more serious and then bring out a heart felt love poem it would kinda pull the bond b/w us even tighter. I <3 you guys :P

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TheWiseGuy

lol aww were loved........you owe me 5 dollars now
well back to reality you said she doesnt mention your future together......ive experienced that before honestly when that happened to me the girl ended up telling me about a month later that she never meant to go far with me that she was just with me because iw as fun to be around....so try to clarify that with her a bit to make sure thats not what shes after as well

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Ithian

Well she is the one that brought up living together so she obviously thinks about it and wanted to know where I stood on it and was happy when I said I would gladly live together with her... so I don't think it's the same circumstance as yours there. She also said she feels empty when she isn't talking with me so the whole thing about spending somewhat less time with her might be hard... Oh well school keeps us apart long enough it's just spring break right now and so I think I've got too much time to think =/

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TheWiseGuy

oh ok i see......hmm honestly atm i cant think of anything better to tell you sry i cant help much but once i can ill let you know

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Ithian

Eh I guess ill just do my workout routine (gets my mind busy and lets me relax) and then get some sleep. 4am already O.O doesn't feel like it at all

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Deimos

why do you think she is losing interest? maybe you are just making a big deal out of nothing and panicking for no reason

have you tried talking to her about it yet?

you are probably just overthinking everything

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burnsie

i can understand your problem, i had the same problem with a few girl before. but now with my girl atm, for some reason we never grow tired of saying any thing, and if we do we just lay on the bed. but we never run out of stuff to talk about. and i see her every day 2-3 times.
i don't know but that is what i think real love you know. you aren't trying to keep each other satisfied,you just act you.

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