I've noticed that some of the skills for job 2 require stats that i wouldnt really put on the type of character. For example, the cleric needs i think 12 dex for her buff. I was wonderin if u could use accessories to get the stats required or if u actually needed to put stat poitns into them. If u can't use accs then its gonna be pretty hard to get all the skills since i alredy put all my stat points into intel for my healer... lol

You get to reset stats when you reach job chg stage. I'm not entirely sure if there's even enough +4 dex accs on the in-game market nowadays to cover the 12 dex though. If I were you, I wouldn't mind sacrifing stats for 12 dex,since kids are prone to inflate or overprice accs. Hunting or looking for those specifically would mean more micro management on your part.

you can't use an accessory to get it, it has to be pure base, but you can manage to get only two skills though. you'll have 34 statpoints (you get three statpoints a level after 31)