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Ok, first, I am using Icy's account cause I was too lazy to make another account just to shoot my anger out. I'm her Brother. nice to meet you and I doubt anyone would care about this anyway.
Here's my situtation.
It's been around 2-3 weeks I confessed to a girl knowing the anwser is definitely a rejection. So yeah, i got my rejection but I had no problem with it. Tehn the following days or weeks, I tried to ask her out on her own free time which never suceeded due of Busy, busy and busy with science works, etc. It's still fine. Here's the glitch. According to her, she never fell in love. ( Wooo ) and just 2 hours ago, I get to know she's going out with another guy for a few days already. I didnt get to know until now. ARGGG. I feel like killing someone since she didnt tell me direcly....
Teach me how to release the desire to kill someone in 10mins.
Cereal&Milk
04-05-2007, 04:05 AM
Ok, first, I am using Icy's account cause I was too lazy to make another account just to shoot my anger out. I'm her Brother. nice to meet you and I doubt anyone would care about this anyway.
Here's my situtation.
It's been around 2-3 weeks I confessed to a girl knowing the anwser is definitely a rejection. So yeah, i got my rejection but I had no problem with it. Tehn the following days or weeks, I tried to ask her out on her own free time which never suceeded due of Busy, busy and busy with science works, etc. It's still fine. Here's the glitch. According to her, she never fell in love. ( Wooo ) and just 2 hours ago, I get to know she's going out with another guy for a few days already. I didnt get to know until now. ARGGG. I feel like killing someone since she didnt tell me direcly....
Teach me how to release the desire to kill someone in 10mins.
...Your English is so much better than Icy's. xP
But yeah. The best way to release anger, is to charge ur lazr.
...Your English is so much better than Icy's. xP
But yeah. The best way to release anger, is to charge ur lazr.
You see, typing with frustration is like typing like a 10 years old.
Lazer? Oh yeah, now it's at max, what to do? release it on the wall?
Croix
04-05-2007, 04:18 AM
O.o
So...you're saying she owes it to you to tell you what she does and when she does it?
I think that she probably told you that to spare your feelings.
Associated
04-05-2007, 04:19 AM
Ok, this is what I do to get rid of stress.
1. Punching bag. I know it sounds typical, but man, does it work.
2. Play some kind of sport. Once I got really pissed and then went off to play hockey with my friends, then came back and felt absolutly fine.
3. School, study, work. It will all get your mind off of the problem.
4. Stress ball. Once again, typical, but it works. Jusy lying in your bed squezzing a stressball, it's relaxing ^_^
Jebus
04-05-2007, 04:21 AM
GET A NEW ONE HOMES! U CAN DO IT U PLAYER/PIMP
WAX ON(GIRL), WAX OFF(DUMP IT!)
on the more serious note: http://www.eharmony.com
there
O.o
So...you're saying she owes it to you to tell you what she does and when she does it?
I think that she probably told you that to spare your feelings.
The alternate thoughts would be feeling being toyed.
Jebus, if you're not helping, better shut up and leave this thread since you're worsening my temper.
Cereal&Milk
04-05-2007, 04:35 AM
You see, typing with frustration is like typing like a 10 years old.
Lazer? Oh yeah, now it's at max, what to do? release it on the wall?
If you're into that kind of stuff. Just don't look to me to explain to your parents why semen is all over your wall. =/
laughingman112
04-05-2007, 04:37 AM
Ok, first, I am using Icy's account cause I was too lazy to make another account just to shoot my anger out. I'm her Brother. nice to meet you and I doubt anyone would care about this anyway.
Here's my situtation.
It's been around 2-3 weeks I confessed to a girl knowing the anwser is definitely a rejection. So yeah, i got my rejection but I had no problem with it. Tehn the following days or weeks, I tried to ask her out on her own free time which never suceeded due of Busy, busy and busy with science works, etc. It's still fine. Here's the glitch. According to her, she never fell in love. ( Wooo ) and just 2 hours ago, I get to know she's going out with another guy for a few days already. I didnt get to know until now. ARGGG. I feel like killing someone since she didnt tell me direcly....
Teach me how to release the desire to kill someone in 10mins.
Gaia online will be the best place to post your emo problems.
Jebus
04-05-2007, 04:43 AM
Gaia online will be the best place to post your emo problems.
that's even better than eharmony!
on the serious, serious, serious note
try to let time pass between the two, most likely it'll be a puppy love thing that'll last the most-2 weeks if not 3, for the meanwhile build friendship with those around her so getting into you parties or w/e would be a snap. Patience is of the essence my friend, most of all BE YOURSELF! i'm sure you'll enjoy being someone u really aren't for the rest of your life.
Ramstien
04-05-2007, 04:44 AM
Show the ***** the meaning of equal rights.
laughingman112
04-05-2007, 06:19 AM
that's even better than eharmony!
on the serious, serious, serious note
try to let time pass between the two, most likely it'll be a puppy love thing that'll last the most-2 weeks if not 3, for the meanwhile build friendship with those around her so getting into you parties or w/e would be a snap. Patience is of the essence my friend, most of all BE YOURSELF! i'm sure you'll enjoy being someone u really aren't for the rest of your life.
I heard that childrens can't sign up for Eharmony.
Matter of fact, screw this. Tonite, I dont know if she did it on purpose or he did it on purpose. They were like " HEY WE'RE A COUPLE!!" all around the birthday party of my friend. On top of that, they have to hang out around my table while theirs is 3-4 table AWAY. Hey great stuff. Plus, the keep trying to get attentions.....Oh great, I'm not there! I'm invisible. Yesh! Screw this, Single FTW
Sashimi
04-06-2007, 06:59 AM
Here's what i would do. Tell her she's a slut and she deserves to burn in hell. Then ignore for the rest of HER life.
nzrock
04-06-2007, 07:12 AM
If your not Icy, then where is Icy?
If your really someone else, you should be able to make a account now since it's already been over a day since you started the topic...
FabianN
04-06-2007, 07:17 AM
Go to 4chan, fap a bit, rest, repeat.
Serious about the fapping though.
Releases stress like you wouldn't believe.
And it's good for your prostate, so hey.
"Don't knock masturbation. It's sex with someone I love."
nzrock
04-06-2007, 07:27 AM
Go to 4chan, fap a bit, rest, repeat.
Serious about the fapping though.
Releases stress like you wouldn't believe.
And it's good for your prostate, so hey.
"Don't knock masturbation. It's sex with someone I love."
<3 /b/'s way
xkittyxlicksx
04-06-2007, 02:43 PM
Well, as I see it, to her.. you are just a boy who asked her out. You two did not have any previous relationship (seriously), so she really doesn't have to tell you anything.
Girls are quite perceptive, she probably realized you would get angry, or react in some equally negative way... so what incentive did she have to tell you? none.
(see FabianN's post to elaborate on stress-releasing activities)
Attila
04-06-2007, 03:15 PM
Never ask someone out for second time. That's when you'll see if someone likes you or not. They'll come begging to have you back. If they don't get off her case....
Now...What I would do and what I always do is just ignore everbody around me.....I just stare straight and have a little smile on my face with eyes half closed....That way, people will know I'm in my happy place or just a freak and they'll piss off...
Just work on that anger. Keep it inside and just...chillll.
Jakuza
04-06-2007, 03:19 PM
Bottling up anger and sorrow isn't a good thing.
When its released...make sure noone is around.:eye: :eye:
Slade
04-06-2007, 03:25 PM
I don't want to sound like a dick, but it could be that its paranoia, trust me on this, i thought my friends were ditching me after a while but it was just me being paranoid to the max. And i mean you're being paranoid about how they hang out in front of you.
Hehehehe...i love 4chan. Except /d/, im scarred for life because of that place.
SURVIVALsp1
04-06-2007, 08:56 PM
My methods may be very humiliating at some times, but they are good at relieving stress.
1. Go outside and scream really really loud until you are tired. If doesn't really matter if there are people outside, just do it. If this doesn't work, then go back inside and use method 2.
2. Take a pillow and imagine it has the head of something that you hate so badly that you want to punch. The head could be Icy's or it can be one of your teacher's, it doesn't matter. Just punch it, kick it, do whatever you want to do with it. When you become exhausted, try and take a nap. If this doesn't work, go onto method 3.
3. Finally, confess your problems to someone that really knows you. It could be Icy, it could be your teacher, it could be your parents, it does not matter. It might feel a bit embarrassing, but it will benefit you. Instead of coming to us who now know you for a few hours, go to someone that knows you like the back of your hand. Is it not muhc more wiser to talk to someone that has know you for a good amount of their life rather than people that you met just recently through a forum. If this doens't help you, then I don't anything can, because you this doesn't help you, you're probably at a level where most people are frustrated with Bush.
I know well enough that It's probably just me that's paranoid on them. Like giving them extra attentions since she's the one I like and since she's hanging out with another guy, jealous kicks in.
Actually, in my head, " Asking someone out" doesnt mean I like them. When I like, I say it. I asked he rout on several time is try to get some chances to talk to her but anyway, average westerners only see "going out" as relationship. I'm chinese here.
Some of you are right. She didnt have to tell me she got a boyfriend. However, does that give her the right to lie? I doubt. If she simply told me or simply be honest, I wouldnt be as frustrated as I was last night.
As I said, having a relationship is her thing, I dont mind however, if you were to lie to me although I was a 5-6 years old friend of yours. Then, I'm sorry, I might reconsider on my definition of "trust" and "friend" again.
So again, I pretty much got over it. One or two more days, I'll ask to lock this thread. So thanks for giving me advices. Keep it coming. Until i totally calm down, I appreciate advices.
Attila
04-06-2007, 09:56 PM
I think both of you are wrong....For one, YOU didn't have to know why she dumped you....These things work like this. I got dumped few years ago and the girl didn't tell me why(nor did I want to know), but my best friend later told me she relied on materialistic things too much. I was happy and I didn't care if she told me why she didn't accept. Neither should you.
Now for HER. I don't know what else to say other than that she's a *****.....I mean who thehell rubs her bfin someone else's face especially the one who asked her out. Shed oesn't have the right to do that. In situations like these, I ignore the person when they talk to me and I know how bad they are gonna feel. That would be good enough for me. If she apologizes, accept it(but only if she doesn't have a boyfriend anymore).
TheJESTERJ
04-06-2007, 10:48 PM
The answer is obvious.
Become an hero.
Take a leaf out of 300's book.
Yell: "THIS IS SPARTA!" and dropkick her in the face. That would so rule.
KCBlack
04-07-2007, 01:17 AM
If you're into that kind of stuff. Just don't look to me to explain to your parents why semen is all over your wall. =/Lmao. When I'm pissed, I usually wind up breaking something, i.e. my PSP, a pencil, etc. Or I beat up a pillow. If I'm not in a violent mood, I usually either draw or do some digital artwork, play a video game (a fighting video game with the difficulty set all the way down is great; hammer the shit outta someone, of course I guess that falls under "violent" XP), talk to a friend, or something along those lines.
Cereal&Milk
04-07-2007, 01:25 AM
Lmao. When I'm pissed, I usually wind up breaking something, i.e. my PSP, a pencil, etc. Or I beat up a pillow. If I'm not in a violent mood, I usually either draw or do some digital artwork, play a video game (a fighting video game with the difficulty set all the way down is great; hammer the shit outta someone, of course I guess that falls under "violent" XP), talk to a friend, or something along those lines.
Ah, man. If I'm angry, and play one of the many racing games I suck at, I might just get in an even heavier mood and put another dent in my fridge. =/
KCBlack
04-07-2007, 01:42 AM
Ah, man. If I'm angry, and play one of the many racing games I suck at, I might just get in an even heavier mood and put another dent in my fridge. =/
Lol, I know the feeling. It's like GTA, which made me throw my PSP at the floor because I couldn't get a mission done. That was last year. Broken ever since. XO
Cocopuffs
04-07-2007, 01:51 AM
Umm ICY's bro.. whats her name?
I know a girl who is like that in everyway. it would be interesting to find
out we are talking about the same girl.
I'll give my honest opinion which might upset you.
Ok first, this girl is no good. Not the type of girl you would want to spend your life with.
Second, she is probably cunning/conniving. She might be the type that will break your heart and feel no remorse. But will keep you hanging for backup. So will "act" like she cares.
Lastly, if all i said is true then the main thing you should understand is that she isn't worth it. Your pain is not worth it for her. Its hard to tell now, but after when your eyes are wide open you will understand her more clearly.
btw i might be completey wrong. XD
Attila
04-07-2007, 02:29 AM
Take a leaf out of 300's book.
Yell: "THIS IS SPARTA!" and dropkick her in the face. That would so rule.
Oh man, if I was there when that happened I would yell " HOOOAAAHHH!!!!".
ZeroBlade
04-07-2007, 02:43 AM
Take a leaf out of 300's book.
Yell: "THIS IS SPARTA!" and dropkick her in the face. That would so rule.
Gonna have to make a bottomless pit first...and somehow make her
stand in front of it though. >.>
But yes, that would rule....if she WASN'T A FEMALE >:l
Anywho, suck it up and move on.
Just remember what you learnt and of course, treat her like she doesn't exist.
Girls think with emotions, we (men...young men) think with a cold,rational mindset.
The two don't mix....EVER.
nzrock
04-07-2007, 03:25 AM
Funny...."Icy" still hasn't answer me where Icy is.
Funny...."Icy" still hasn't answer me where Icy is.
To your informations, it's auto-login whenever I open this page. So I dont need to ask for a password ot logon her account. She's currently off to Toronto since we are in our easter holidays now. She wont be back for a few more days probably. Not until monday at the least.
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I think both of you are wrong....For one, YOU didn't have to know why she dumped you....These things work like this. I got dumped few years ago and the girl didn't tell me why(nor did I want to know), but my best friend later told me she relied on materialistic things too much. I was happy and I didn't care if she told me why she didn't accept. Neither should you.
Nah, we didnt even get together so It's more I got rejected. Ouch? o_o
Now for HER. I don't know what else to say other than that she's a *****.....I mean who thehell rubs her bfin someone else's face especially the one who asked her out. Shed oesn't have the right to do that. In situations like these, I ignore the person when they talk to me and I know how bad they are gonna feel. That would be good enough for me. If she apologizes, accept it(but only if she doesn't have a boyfriend anymore).
Hum...it might be really just me giving too much attentions to them. Like some1 said, paranoia. Anywya, they have the right to express their relationship publicly, jealousi jsut got the better of me. Actually, I dont care about it anymore. I got over it ^- ^. Now let's say that I'm over this frustration sequence and I'm over her. o_o Probably I sitll like her a bit but I doubt I'll be so nice to her anymore. -sigh- 5 -6 years of friendship.....disappeared just like this... Love is evillll
So bah, tonite, I'll ask a mod to lock this so thanks guys. Give me one last advice or comments and if I happen to have problems again, I'll make a real account and label myself " EMO " . XD
xkittyxlicksx
04-07-2007, 03:31 PM
Take a leaf out of 300's book.
Yell: "THIS IS SPARTA!" and dropkick her in the face. That would so rule.
uh, no.. Spartans actually respected women. ;)
Jebus
04-07-2007, 07:00 PM
Take a leaf out of 300's book.
Yell: "THIS IS SPARTA!" and dropkick her in the face. That would so rule.
Spartans always get the ladies going
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