To the people who are going to joke around in this thread you can gtfo right now.

Since some people don't get the main idea. My dad is blaming me for stuff he never asked me to do constantly. He is always threatning to send me to a foster home and one time he even threw me on the ground causing me to land directly on my left arm. Which at the time my left arm was sprained. Another time he started choking me because I was tired of listening to him repeat the same sentence 10 times.

I'm at home playing on my computer and my dog made a mess around my computer because he ripped my step brothers little bugs bunny doll. My dad comes home and says I'm only going to wash the clothes tomorrow. Note:I'm nearly out of clothes because my dad is too lazy to wash them and it's been about 1 week and a half since he washed the clothes and my brother doesn't take showers and changes clothes everyday without showering.


Then he asks if I fed the dog and I tell him I wasn't home all day because I was meeting up with some friends from my old school. So he says starting today if I don't see any food on max's *the dog* plate I'm going to tel my GF not to give you guys any food. I'm like well then I guess I have to starve because I'm barely home so I can't do it. Then I say if I don't eat I can tell DSS I haven't been eating well because of you. He says I hope they put you in a foster home.

So yea I say I DON'T CARE I'm probably better off in a foster home. Then he's like yea right you won't last one minute so I tell him I have 2 friends in foster homes. One of them is in there for being bad and another one is in there because his dad didn't want him and used drugs a lot. I told him NEITHER of them complain about their foster home they always say it isn't as bad they say. both of my friends are my age.

I'm tired of my dad threatning me with a foster home because I really don't care. He always says he doesn't have time for us but he still won't let me live with my mom. The DSS comes here and takes his side because they know if they don't my dad will start *****ing like the first few months that they came here.

I don't want to talk about my past either but this is atleast my 5th time having to handle with the DSS. 1st-3rd time is because my neighbors never liked me because I was always the kid that liked trying out new stuff and used to climb trees and start little fires and stuff. 4-5th time is because I got sued for 3 things 1. I borrowed my "friends" bike and then his mom said I stole it. 2. I ended up in a stolen car because some kid from my neighborhood asked me to go somewhere with him. 3. I got into a fight and I kicked him in the head and I had shoes.


If you don't believe me then don't but I'm tired of this DSS crap and my dad. I actually wanted to commit suicide twice because of my dad. But decided that wasn't the way to go.


Oh also I told DSS I was willing to do chores and stuff for my dad. But he never tells me to do anything he just starts yelling at me for no reason.

Kill him. It's the only way.

sorry to hear about it man sounds like your in a tough situation and have had some bad luck.....but if it was me i would really avoid a foster home that wouldn't be much of an improvement on the other hand what about your mom? is it possible for you to live with her?

I can't understand you... Too much mistakes.

Rofl XKwisite your sig makes me laugh like hell.

Kill him. It's the only way.

Please man, don't be such an douche to him. He clearly asked for no joking around here. It's a serious matter for his opinion.

Okay, it seems to be a: 'you're a responsible brother and it's up to you now,' kind of thing. What I might be able to suggest for you is to not panic. I had to deal with the same things with my parents. Mainly my mother. Eventually I got used to all the chores she had given me and it was on a day-to-day basis.

Start cleaning your room more, and look after your brother. Once you please your dad more, you will, inevitably, gain more trust from him, thus getting more "rewards."

Tell your mom and do anything possible to stay with her.

Seems a lot of people have been having problems these days...

Anyway, I'm glad you didn't choose to commit suicide. I'm still not sure what you just said, but I think I can understand the main idea.

I think you should have a nice long chat with your father about this topic instead of asking us. Just tell him how your feeling, and what's making you so frustrated. You need a have a chat with your dad. You really do. Tell him someone is bothering you, and that you would really love it if the two of you could have a conversation about how he's treating you. When you're having this conversation, don't blame everything on him. He didn't do everything. In the situation with him not being able to pick you up; you should have made a call to let him know that you were walking home. You dad was probably just worried about what had happened to you. Don't blame everything on your dad. Think back to the situations and think about what you could have done to improve things. Then just sit down and have a talk with your father.

If you and your dad can't solve the issue just by talking with one another, then ask him if he could schedule a meeting with a psychologist. Then the two of you can try yet again to resolve the issue.

Always try to resolve these types of issues with words, not actions. Your dad probably cares a lot about you, and is only threatening to send you to a Foster Home because he wants you to behave correctly. Not all parents know what to do when their child is being "disruptive". For all I know, your father might think that threatening you is the only way to get you to do things.Just have a talk with him and see if you can sort things out. If you can't, then ask a school counselor about solutions to your problem.

kill y-

this is a hard one..

why not just call your mom..? unless she doesnt care ethier?

kill y-

this is a hard one..

why not just call your mom..? unless she doesnt care ethier?


I told my mom.



Seems a lot of people have been having problems these days...

Anyway, I'm glad you didn't choose to commit suicide. I'm still not sure what you just said, but I think I can understand the main idea.

I think you should have a nice long chat with your father about this topic instead of asking us. Just tell him how your feeling, and what's making you so frustrated. You need a have a chat with your dad. You really do. Tell him someone is bothering you, and that you would really love it if the two of you could have a conversation about how he's treating you. When you're having this conversation, don't blame everything on him. He didn't do everything. In the situation with him not being able to pick you up; you should have made a call to let him know that you were walking home. You dad was probably just worried about what had happened to you. Don't blame everything on your dad. Think back to the situations and think about what you could have done to improve things. Then just sit down and have a talk with your father.

If you and your dad can't solve the issue just by talking with one another, then ask him if he could schedule a meeting with a psychologist. Then the two of you can try yet again to resolve the issue.

Always try to resolve these types of issues with words, not actions. Your dad probably cares a lot about you, and is only threatening to send you to a Foster Home because he wants you to behave correctly. Not all parents know what to do when their child is being "disruptive". For all I know, your father might think that threatening you is the only way to get you to do things.Just have a talk with him and see if you can sort things out. If you can't, then ask a school counselor about solutions to your problem.



Yea I've tried the whole talking thing. Everytime I tried it failed. He doesn't want me to do chores he wants me to feed the dog and whenever I'm home I feed the dog but I'm not home from 7AM-6 or 7 PM So I can't do any of those. My brother on the other hand is home all day but I have to do it. My room is never messy unless my dog causes it which takes less then a minute to clean up. So my dad comes home and there is no mess EVER. But yet he complains about how he has to work and stuff and he doesn't have time to deal with me. He shouldn't even be blaming me because he never asked me to do anything in the first place.

My father used to, *scoffs,* hah, he used to threaten me to send me to the police station so I can be dealt with. What ever, I think it's just because I have Russian Parents. That can be an abundance at times, but it's life. All you have to do is cope with it, again, as I stated before.

Any other close relatives you can talk to about this?

Any other close relatives you can talk to about this?

I don't even like any of my relatives unless they are from my moms side of the family which I can't see anymore or talk to.

Omg ****ing crist.
Im just sick of this.
Just because I'm in your respect list I will go easy on you.

Will you please just ****ing suck it up, I have 2 brothers who went to jail, they lived here for 20 years, 2 with their babies and their gfs. Think you have a hard time? I saw my ****ing mentaly challenged brother beaten in his room by my brother. He wastes 36k on a ****ing car but not on his daughter, and says he can't afford a baby sitter? I ****ing lived with him for 14 years, He yelled at me every ****ing day about every peice of shit. Know what I did? I sucked it up, Who cares that your dad yells at you, at least hes not ****ing beating you to death. I live in poverty with a computer as my life, my 360 doesn't even have a core or a mic. You have shit, your dad bought your computer and internet, hes providing a roof, at least he isn't ****ing your life over.

Omg ****ing crist.
Im just sick of this.
Just because I'm in your respect list I will go easy on you.

Will you please just ****ing suck it up, I have 2 brothers who went to jail, they lived here for 20 years, 2 with their babies and their gfs. Think you have a hard time? I saw my ****ing mentaly challenged brother beaten in his room by my brother. He wastes 36k on a ****ing car but not on his daughter, and says he can't afford a baby sitter? I ****ing lived with him for 14 years, He yelled at me every ****ing day about every peice of shit. Know what I did? I sucked it up, Who cares that your dad yells at you, at least hes not ****ing beating you to death. I live in poverty with a computer as my life, my 360 doesn't even have a core or a mic. You have shit, your dad bought your computer and internet, hes providing a roof, at least he isn't ****ing your life over.
winpost. ;p

oh lol yell at his *** telling hes a lazy unfair asscrack

If you feel you really can't progress further in life living under those circumstances, I say you should go for it. Who knows, without that asshole of brother and father you have, you might be much better of.

If you can drive you can come live with meh!:)

if your loli theres always my home ;/

but dont forget, your dad pays for your interwebs

He doesn't want me to do chores he wants me to feed the dog and whenever I'm home I feed the dog but I'm not home from 7AM-6 or 7 PM So I can't do any of those.
Why aren't you home most of the time to feed the dog?

Then he asks if I fed the dog and I tell him I wasn't home all day because I was meeting up with some friends from my old school.
Oh, you're hanging out with friends.

Sometimes, friends can wait when there's a crisis at home. They can especially wait when it's over an easy task like feeding a dog.

Maybe you should get your priorities straight before complaining.

Then he asks if I fed the dog and I tell him I wasn't home all day because I was meeting up with some friends from my old school.Maybe if, y'know, you went home to your responsibility (the dog, in this case) instead of going out with friends, your dad would probably ***** less.

EDIT: Lol Xeno, I didn't even know you posted that. As soon as I read his thing I hit the quick reply button.
Great minds think alike. lol

2nd EDIT: Didn't know people living in poverty could afford Xbox 360s. Things sure have changed.

How old are you? Can't you call child services and let them arrest him?

Does your dad do drugs ?

Oh your dad just seems to be acting a bit childish.

Kill him. It's the only way.

XD I'm sorry that was just too funny lol!
You should get some wire and contact aliens to probe and mess with his mind so whenever you disagree he'll get a shock everytime you press the red button =D.

Im sure someone near you is willing to help , if you actually try to look for it that is

TheRequiem shut up. My dad doesn't pay for my internet my mom does. My mom pays for all my stuff, clothes, games, internet, sometimes food. My dad doesn't do anything except complain about how his life is so hard then take it on me.

Yes your life may be worse then mine but I'm not going to just let it aside and let my dad keep hitting me and yelling at me for no reason.

Xenoknight my dad doesn't ask me to feed the dog. I don't have any chores he never gives me any and the dog DID eat that day. My dad just gives random reasons to hit me or yell at me. It was only yesterday that I was with my friends and that was only because they came to see me. I didn't even know they were coming.. All the other days I'm busy at the school which my dad knows about.