Wow, first time I asked for advice on this thread.


About 3 weeks ago, my uncle moved in, and he dud what he does best, smoke,sleep, eat, and talk on the phone, everything was normal, but today he pissed me off BADLY.


This isn't the first time, when he staye dhere, he slept in my bed, causing me to sleep on the floor. Which I wanted to kill him for. But today he gave me such harsh verbal abuse.

My father died June 2007. Whiche was a pnch in the face for everyone in our family.


Today, whenhe was fixing pipes, mom was at the hospitol for an incident, the water pille dn the floor, he made water spill on the floor, told me to clean it up, saying 'I mst not have been listening to my father cause I bet all you do is nothing to help this house'. That hurt. Badly, but I showed no emotion, and said nothing.

After that, he fixe dthe pipes and stuff then I sai d'You fixed it? Without the thing that holds it' he tells me 'Yea, unlike you, I looked at my dad fixed pipes'

Then, he isults mme, and mom's cooking when he cooked today, he said ' You cook wrong without adding any grease to it, thats hwy that burger you made waas dry, an mom adds too much to hers, mine is just perfect' That made want to take those red beans he cooked, dumpe dthem in his hair, then take the frying pan and whack him unil he gets into a coma.

The last insult that I took, is when Mom was comming back, he told me to wash didhes, I washed them, nd sat back down in my room, he said ' You didn't wash them' I sai d'Yes I idd' 'I do not see what eevyropne see in you, you do absolutely nothing in this house, you help nobody;.'


So I'm here, asking on how to get rid of him from her,e he has a strike against him, I could get him out of here for allthe thigns I have told you guys, please tell me what to do.

ACT SERIOUS PLEASE ><

visit a psychologist i mean what can a couple of game nerds do about your problem ..

First of all, a question to you. What´s the reason your uncle stays at your house? Any problems or so?

Second, a way to get to him: Tell your mom and w/e you live with how he treats you/ what you think of him. Tell them you have problems with him livin in your house and that you would rather have him living somewhere else. don't go rushing things, becouse you will only make things worse.

well let me know if it works.
good luck

visit a psychologist i mean what can a couple of game nerds do about your problem ..

< <;; You kkinda have a point. But some people have lives on the fourms. o o;








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Demonkid: He says to take care of Mom, but I'm doing most of the caring. Plus the main problem is, he says his car is taken by the police. So he has no ride whatsoever.

First of: forget the PC, get out there and do SOMETHING about it, talk to someone who knows taking care of these kind of problems ( local authorities/ psycholigst), speak with you mom/other family/ friends...

Try not replying him, and just do whatever he says. The art of working without getting angry, is difficult to obtain, but none the less, it will help you later on...

Plus the main problem is, he says his car is taken by the police. So he has no ride whatsoever.

1. Why has his car been taken by the police?
2. Why would he need a car?


Just make your mom kick him out! :/

Wow, first time I asked for advice on this thread.


About 3 weeks ago, my uncle moved in, and he dud what he does best, smoke,sleep, eat, and talk on the phone, everything was normal, but today he pissed me off BADLY.


This isn't the first time, when he staye dhere, he slept in my bed, causing me to sleep on the floor. Which I wanted to kill him for. But today he gave me such harsh verbal abuse.

My father died June 2007. Whiche was a pnch in the face for everyone in our family.


Today, whenhe was fixing pipes, mom was at the hospitol for an incident, the water pille dn the floor, he made water spill on the floor, told me to clean it up, saying 'I mst not have been listening to my father cause I bet all you do is nothing to help this house'. That hurt. Badly, but I showed no emotion, and said nothing.

After that, he fixe dthe pipes and stuff then I sai d'You fixed it? Without the thing that holds it' he tells me 'Yea, unlike you, I looked at my dad fixed pipes'

Then, he isults mme, and mom's cooking when he cooked today, he said ' You cook wrong without adding any grease to it, thats hwy that burger you made waas dry, an mom adds too much to hers, mine is just perfect' That made want to take those red beans he cooked, dumpe dthem in his hair, then take the frying pan and whack him unil he gets into a coma.

The last insult that I took, is when Mom was comming back, he told me to wash didhes, I washed them, nd sat back down in my room, he said ' You didn't wash them' I sai d'Yes I idd' 'I do not see what eevyropne see in you, you do absolutely nothing in this house, you help nobody;.'


So I'm here, asking on how to get rid of him from her,e he has a strike against him, I could get him out of here for allthe thigns I have told you guys, please tell me what to do.

ACT SERIOUS PLEASE ><

man that was tough to read, whats with your spelling?

anyways, sounds like you cant do anything. you have to live with it.

1. Why has his car been taken by the police?
2. Why would he need a car?


Just make your mom kick him out! :/

If she doesnt, you leave and go out to friends or city and stuff and wait ur mom to call that hes kicked off. Works always (4 me) :-/

man that was tough to read, whats with your spelling?


I can't believe you're actually whining about that. There are far worse people here.

visit a psychologist i mean what can a couple of game nerds do about your problem ..


'Cause we give the best advice.

People in RL give the stupidest advice, eva!

Fix your spelling, then kick his ass/confront him. But of corse I would kick hiss ass, but that might not be a good choice, at all.

a lawsuit would fit perfectly in this case. He has no reason to live in with you, and i suppose he has an house of his own.
as long as you can proof you can handle all the things that happen, he is bound to leave the house.
and since it's the second time he lives with you, i suppose he leaves after some time, just keep your temper untill then. It's worth the wait...

More information
He lived in Missouri, abandoning his wife and kids, and planning to eivorce

He use to be addicted to drugs

Mom as a little favoritism to hgimf or some reason


My keyboard is broken, so for now, DEAL with the grammer errors

More information
He lived in Missouri, abandoning his wife and kids, and planning to divorce

He use to be addicted to drugs

Mom has a little favoritism to him for some reason


My keyboard is broken, so for now, DEAL with the grammer errors


>_>
Bad combination

I dont think you should let him talk to you like that stand up for yourself and if he does anything then get him and your mom together and talk about what he did.
and who cares if he doesnt have a car get some money so he can take the bus home.

No jokes, make him shit bricks.

I did the same when my aunt and uncle moved in, because they were moving.
They thought they could own the place, and sling about the fact that my dad had left my family for another family.

At the time I was about 11, can't remember exactly what I did. I think I just got everything out, shouted my tiny lil' bollocks off, castrated them with my words xD

They ended up going down my uncle's mums.

So yeah, show him that you're not some little kid he can throw about. He's doing what all bullies do, except he has an advantage - he knows your weak spot. Got anything on him? At all?

Maybe play on the fact that he's a grown man and he's living in your house?

Personally, I probably would have ran away by now or restored my mana and poisoned him. But that's me.

*cough*social services*cough*

if he jus there.. they cant do anything but if he ABUSES you in anyway.. just rat him to conselor in school



i guess where you live, theres no taxi har

*cough*social services*cough*

if he jus there.. they cant do anything but if he ABUSES you in anyway.. just rat him to conselor in school



i guess where you live, theres no taxi har

No taxy, bus, pizza survice9sob) I live in the boondocks > >;

You are a minor, right?
In that case, you wont be making your own decisions about anything in your life for quite some time.
Before you go and tell anyone what you have a problem with, I sugest you realy wait that you calm down, if its something bother you very much even wait a day ("dont hesitate from saying that you did that too"), before you talk to anyone about it. Just wait till you feel calm and able to talk about it without getting worked up.
Think a little of what to say and if you can come up with any suggestions how to make things better and how you can make people see that this is realy important to you (starting off simple as saying "this is important").

Do not start a fight about it. Do avoid getting realy worked up and if you cant, just say, that this is bothering you realy much and dont continue to try to explain it. If others get devensive towards you or start to break of a fight just ignore them if you can and keep doing your thing. If it doesnt help stop the conversation.

This is about how you behave, so that people take you serious. It might be not that easy to follow, but only going half way, is already an increase.

If all this shows no sign of effect, you can still pull the *getting realy mental* card. It wont be bad if you had the image of being mad with the situation established before already. So you wont come of as a little kid, that just yells and crys and whines all over the place, because it dint get what it wants. Youd have a much better standing as a person that has made his decisions, thougth them through, argued them, saw no change and decided that its finaly enough.

This isn't a serious problem. This is an argument. All kids have them with adults, and theres nothing you can do about it. Just ignore his ass, and do whatever you want. Fuck him.

Use him as a punching bag? I would do that atleast...

a lawsuit would fit perfectly in this case. He has no reason to live in with you, and i suppose he has an house of his own.
as long as you can proof you can handle all the things that happen, he is bound to leave the house.
and since it's the second time he lives with you, i suppose he leaves after some time, just keep your temper untill then. It's worth the wait...

You can't sue somebody for speaking to you...

Truthfully, there isn't much you can do. You can frame him, but most likely, that'll blow up in your face. You can just ignore him, your best bet, and if he gets physical tell the authorities. You can, as AtomSlap so bluntly put it, 'castrate him with words.'

There are very few choices, but as a kid, you can't do anything. You have no rights, at all. Every right that you have is indirect, and given to you by your parents, and if your mother says that your uncle is your current guardian, then he can take your rights away. Talk to your Mom about this, and tell her how it annoys you and such.

Although, I do have to agree with the person in this thread who said that you should talk to somebody else. The majority of people on these forums, and I mean no offense by this, aren't even 18 yet, and because so, aren't fully educated enough to resolve these problems on their own. In fact, even I'm not, these are just suggestions, and things I would do in such a position, so don't take them into too high of regards. Remember, never trust the words of strangers.

EDIT: As I said before, and is made apparent by the post above mine, the majority of this forum wouldn't be able to handle this situation the right way.

tell your mom everything you have told us.

Go like "bitch ill do what i WANT!" and ignore him.

dont want to sound like a jerk, but that is really funny.

but if u want him to stop, basically tell your mom, he she does nothing, then poison his food, JK!
umm call the po po?

Creep him out.

Walk around naked around the house.I'd be scared.

You could beat the shit outta him. THEN tell your mom your tired of im and he needs to gtfo of the house. DO it in any order.
Dont do it if hes on your moms side without talking to her first.But if hes on your dads side then do it.
Sorry thats what i did to my grand uncle. HEs a bum who made my room stink, ate all muh food and cursed my gramma out.

Just tell him he's a fat no-neck mother fucking drunk, and that he should get the fuck out and find his own fucking house.

Also tell him that your balls are big enough to manage any god damned house.

Yeah.

Make sure you wear some pads and a neckbrace. He might try something funny.

a lawsuit would fit perfectly in this case. He has no reason to live in with you, and i suppose he has an house of his own.
as long as you can proof you can handle all the things that happen, he is bound to leave the house.
and since it's the second time he lives with you, i suppose he leaves after some time, just keep your temper untill then. It's worth the wait...

Why the hell would a lawsuit work? Honestly, that's retarded. People like you are the reason America's lawsuit system is a giant joke. Frivolous lawsuit after frivolous lawsuit.

You're living in the South from what I can tell. You're expected to do a lot of work around the house and now that your father has died you're supposed to become the man of the house. Yeah, your uncle is probably an alcoholic like pretty much everyone from where we live (I live in the South as well), but that's just how it is, man. You just gotta get your education and get the hell out of this cesspool before you become your uncle.

Man, it's just how it is down here. There's nothing you can do about it, but work hard and get strong. Go lift a ton of weights.

tell your mom everything you have told us.

Come on, guys. Suggestions like that are useless. Obviously this guy is the man of the house right now, in the place of the dead father. His mom isn't going to be able to do shit to kick this guy out of the house, he's here to stay. Unless YOU kick him out he isn't going anywhere. You're gonna have to fight the guy or deal with him.

Come on, guys. Suggestions like that are useless. Obviously this guy is the man of the house right now, in the place of the dead father. His mom isn't going to be able to do shit to kick this guy out of the house, he's here to stay. Unless YOU kick him out he isn't going anywhere. You're gonna have to fight the guy or deal with him.

Agreed.

Also, buy a machete or a pistol. You'll need either one if he plans to threaten your life afterwards.

You can't sue somebody for speaking to you...

Truthfully, there isn't much you can do. You can frame him, but most likely, that'll blow up in your face. You can just ignore him, your best bet, and if he gets physical tell the authorities. You can, as AtomSlap so bluntly put it, 'castrate him with words.'

There are very few choices, but as a kid, you can't do anything. You have no rights, at all. Every right that you have is indirect, and given to you by your parents, and if your mother says that your uncle is your current guardian, then he can take your rights away. Talk to your Mom about this, and tell her how it annoys you and such.

Although, I do have to agree with the person in this thread who said that you should talk to somebody else. The majority of people on these forums, and I mean no offense by this, aren't even 18 yet, and because so, aren't fully educated enough to resolve these problems on their own. In fact, even I'm not, these are just suggestions, and things I would do in such a position, so don't take them into too high of regards. Remember, never trust the words of strangers.

EDIT: As I said before, and is made apparent by the post above mine, the majority of this forum wouldn't be able to handle this situation the right way.

But i have a legal guardian. I'll talk to him about the situation tomorrow.

Here's my list of options that you have:

1) Talk to your mom about getting him kicked out of the house, I doubt she likes having him around if he's as bad as you say.

2) Talk to a school counselor (or any kind of counselor, it's just that school counselors usually know a lot about kids having problems at home).

3) If he's smoking and drinking and what not, I doubt he's very strong. You could kick his ass to show him who's boss (serious). Or start working out with weights, he'll make fun of you for a while but he won't when you can kick his ass. You could also try to learn a martial art, but that could be hard.

Come on, guys. Suggestions like that are useless. Obviously this guy is the man of the house right now, in the place of the dead father. His mom isn't going to be able to do shit to kick this guy out of the house, he's here to stay. Unless YOU kick him out he isn't going anywhere. You're gonna have to fight the guy or deal with him.
Yes, and most children would fights against an adult...

Violence is only going to get you in trouble. You fight him, and not only will you get in trouble with the law, but because of your actions he will appear more trust-worthy than you. You will then become "the boy who cried wolf", if you know what I mean.

Telling him to beat him up is just plain stupid and is going to get him in deep shit.

To resolve an issue like this you need to talk to the right people.
His mother is the first one. Talk to her, tell her exactly what we have been told. If she doesn't do anything, go to the school counselor and tell them about this. They will help you with this.

Yeah, a school counselor might help, didn't think about that route. The only problem with that is I don't know how much they could help you. If the guy is only making you feel bad with his words there really isn't all that much they can do about it.

I know where you're coming from, bro, and the only solution here is going to be becoming a bigger man than he is. You've got to get tougher and bigger than him and show him who's boss. How old are you, anyway?

Threaten him and if he does anything funny, take a bat to his kneecaps.

Telling him to beat him up is just plain stupid and is going to get him in deep shit.

but this is onrpg, we are all gangstor

but this is onrpg, we are all gangstor

Silly FabianN, how could he forget that we OnRPGers only play MMORPGs for 8 hours a day, the rest of the time we're eating, sleeping, shitting, and doing drive-bys.

OffTopic: Just 100 posts away from the big 4k!

Silly FabianN, how could he forget that we OnRPGers only play MMORPGs for 8 hours a day, the rest of the time we're eating, sleeping, shitting, and doing drive-bys.

OffTopic: Just 100 posts away from the big 4k!

Lol. So true, ut I spend five hours,and I be the secret massacre at night RAWR


offtopic: Boom, look for a thread where Sandman was commenting you about a cow thingie, ti was awesome. xD

Lol. So true, ut I spend five hours,and I be the secret massacre at night RAWR


offtopic: Boom, look for a thread where Sandman was commenting you about a cow thingie, ti was awesome. xD

hmm? Was this cow comment recent?

hmm? Was this cow comment recent?

not really, around last month. But It was an epic Mod post

not really, around last month. But It was an epic Mod post

Damn, looks like I'm gonna have to find it then. *sigh* *grabs shovel* *starts digging a hole*

Damn, looks like I'm gonna have to find it then. *sigh* *grabs shovel* *starts digging a hole*

Heres a hitn: Its closed thread

A round of applause for the spam.

Now, onto your problem. I know it may seem stupid, but confronting your uncle might be a good idea. Who knows, maybe this is just a big misunderstanding. Maybe he doesn't even know he's being mean to you. Again, this sounds stupid, but there is always that possibility. Do you really want to start something big over miscommunication? Anyways, try and have a talk with your uncle. The next time he says something about you that you don't like, stand up and ask him something along the lines of "Why did you say that? Are you trying to make me feel bad? If you want me to do something, just tell me. You don't have to put me down or make fun of me." Ask your uncle why he's treating you the way he is. Ask him why he's taking advantage of your family's situation. He's a guest in your house, and you could have him tossed out if you really wanted to. Ask him why he isn't showing respect to the people who is helping him.

If he responds in a way that only makes him sound worse, it's time to talk with your mother. You might not think she's going to help, but you'll be surprised how far mothers could go to protect their children. If she doesn't believe you, get some evidence. Hide an MP3 in your pocket and record any times your uncle verbally abuses you. Get at least three of four pieces of solid proof (Which show exactly what he says to you), and show them to your mother. If she doesn't take action, have a talk with the counselors at school. Bring along the recordings, and talk to them about what your uncle has been doing. They will take care of it all. Don't be afraid to talk with the school counselors, because they are going to do everything in their power to make sure you're safe. They will know what you should do better then anyone at these forums, and they should be the people you confide in. They really will help.

I dunno, dude you're probably just gonna snap and attack him (if you haven't already). That's probably the best way to get any point across.

I dunno, dude you're probably just gonna snap and attack him (if you haven't already). That's probably the best way to get any point across.

1. If you would look at the thread, that's been suggested a couple hundred times already.

2. Why is violence always the answer with you people? -_-

This thread is now about cows.

Looks like everyone needs help nowadays.

He sounds like my crazy grandpa! XO

If that's the case, there is no such thing as making him happy.

Do what you can, and when he goes too far, inform him.
Tell him to shut his mouth. But try to stay polite at the same time.

Getting angry will probably only make him worse.

Your uncle is an obnoxious loser?