Don't really care about the style but has to:

-Have parties (easily found partying)
-Be populated
-No IP blocks
-Low-Medium Grind
-Not be Trickster Online
-Some customization

Optional

-Life Skills
-3D

Shadowbane
Mabinogi
Perfect world (low grind at the start)

You know what, I'm not going to go on, there is a tonne like this.

World Of Warcraft?
I don't know I bet you could download 70 random MMORPGs and find that more than 90% have those features.

Mabinogi


I'd love to play that but there's an IP Block

And no, I think there isn't a load of games like the above criteria-most games are...mostly solo, or they have no customization and so on. If it were easy to find a game (that's half-decent) with the above features, I wouldn't be asking.

Perfect world

http://www.fallensword.com/?ref=1176970


...

And I'm not looking for a browser-based game.