Hmm , Lets see if i can explain what i'm looking for ...
I was wondering if there's any sort of game like Tibia ... I don't mean the game itself but what the game kinda does to the community. Wierd to explain but for some reason i had the best roleplaying experience ever there. Ish i remember beeing like 3/4 of the in-game time simply at depot making some runes and well...i was having fun while doing it. Like... guildie chat , threatning my rivals , preparing hunts , prepearing pks (hehe) etc.. The open pvp system + worlds with 800 ppl online are simply perfect. Big rivalities , great moments , i dunno.
I've tryed all those community based things like "Maplestory" , I mean geez the game is just going to a spot , kill 2000 mobs , go back to town to restock and do it again.

Anyways yeah now that i kinda finished writing i think i should know how to make the question... A game that will provide me some great moments , and not simply "grinding to the top" system

hmm. how about Angels Online, Flyff, << those dont got much grinding if someones helping you.
You can try Ghost since its like maplestory but u lv faster and get the chance to pvp so its not like just training
You can try Florencia when it comes out and maybe give Rappelz a try( its really easy to level up and you can mount a dragon really soon