Except she was right, and she is still right regardless what your explanation is. However, I'm going to respond to this part.
It's not toxic. It's being flat out truthful. And if you can't tell and accept that yourself then you aren't going to improve. Period. There is nothing else to say at this point. Otherwise, I'd actually be taking the time to play ranked in both SC2 and League, and not ***** at why I'm not where I'm at.Throwing out the generic "you're bad and you should feel bad" repertoire of statements. is the "toxic" thing to do because it does nothing to help, and it just creates animosity instead of providing insight into a players struggles.
Nah that was just full of QQ bullshit. Sorry, I've seen so many of these posts that I frankly don't care what your reasons are why you deserve to be at higher ELO/Rank.
Here's a motto I follow: "If you ain't pro, shut the **** up and just play the god damn game."