MMO with Great PvP and alot of PvE actions (Storyline with LESS grindfest)
Yet currently waiting for Wildstar to come out and kinda stuck on D3:ROS/Allods Online (33 Engie stuck due to grindfest) ... so which mmo's would keep me busy till Wildstar launches and please no Cash shop (HATE HATE spending $$ and have done it with few mmo's like SWTOR, Maplestory (over $500), TSW
Neverwinter - like the system but still same grindfest game (bores me fast)
Tera - Hello Grindfest MMO .... DCUO - Rude people kicking crappy geared players at near end game levels ....
DCUO - You'll just keep wiping with them. Honestly though, it's usually the tanks fault and the dps not knowing how to clip.
FFXIV might fit you, I hate FFXIV because it was a polished generic mmo, I barely could hit max because I'm so done with tab-target.
TERA - Since when was TERA a grind fest? You sir need to play WAKFU
You can wait for B&S for another couple of years or go with Wildstar