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So last night I get a call around 11 : 30 that my friend Zach had passed away. He was driving home and hit a patch of ice, fishtailed, flipped two times into a river and drowned. This really ****ing sucks, me and this kid did everything together. I need all the support I can get for now so any would be appreciated guys.:(:(
I'm sorry, Xente. But, man, you can't let life get you down. Your friend wouldn't want you to be moping. He's want you to keep on doing what you do for him. Smoke some hash in honor. That's how Zach would want to be remembered. He wouldn't want you to mope.
My friend died from a drug overdose, it sucks.
=(
Try to get through it dude
your friend wouldn't want you to be sad like this, he'd want you to enjoy life.
C'mon!
That's horrible Xente...
@ Bekk; the way you talk makes you look really mean, you know.
Didn't mean for it to come out that way. I'm trying to be positive. Moping is silly in my opinion. Smiling is better.Quote:
Originally Posted by MageMoa
Stay strong homie. It sucks, I know :(
Just keep your head up.
And what Bekk said is true man. Try to keep going, I'm sure your buddy would want you to be as happy as possible dude.
yeh ;/ what Oisterboy said. When people that you like die, it sucks. You'll get over it eventually.Quote:
Originally Posted by Oisterboy
thing is, hes been pushing for me to quit smoking weed and for some reason i feel that because i didnt, hes dead now
thanks for all the support
You not stopping has nothing to do with it. You cant blame yourself for these sort of things.Quote:
Originally Posted by Xente
If this was the other way around, you wouldnt want him to feel like it was his fault. So dont blame yourself.
These things happen. When my mom died i felt alone. Like her mass in my heart was gone, and it left an empty void in my life. But thats how i was supposed to feel. (Thats Life) These things aren't supposed to feel good. You will cry. You will morn. But you will survive.
Take some time off to celebrate his life. If you believe, you can still talk to him. You can still say your goodbyes.
It helped me alot. So i hope it helps you
I done alot of dumb shit was my mom died. Which lead to me just being in worst situations. Dont do anything dumb. Know that he loves you just as you loved him. And he still does, as you still do.
Stay smiling.
This will happen to everyone eventually, it's good to learn to accept it early on. Moping is fine, don't listen to anyone who says otherwise. It's perfectly natural to be upset and to show it, and everyone that was friends with him will do it. Be sad, mope, get it over with because if you ignore it know it'll only come back later. It's just a natural reaction to cope with things like this. It will help you out.
at first i thought it said he crashed into a patch of fish
Its very, very common to think deaths are your fault, because if anyone did one thing diffrently that day, it might have kept him alive. But its not your fault, and IMO I would stop smoking weed, because thats what he really wanted, it seems.Quote:
Originally Posted by Xente
EDIT: I'm not trying to sound mean, but this is something that happens a lot when people die.
First:Im sorry about you friend.Secondly,quit smoking weed,it will make you feel better cuz he wanted that,so make it happen plus weed is bad,it'll destroy you.And well there's not much i can really say to help you.Its up to you.Also dont think its your fault,cuz its not.
Edit:I forgot just recently a friend of mine killed himself,i knew him since elementary school,but well gotta move on,if you stay and grief it'll just be worse.
People destroy themselves, drugs don't destroy anything, especially weed.
Alcohol is actually worse. Why do people STILL, in 2009, refuse to accept that?
**** dude, sucks about your friend. I'm really sorry. This is kinda scary too cause I was driving around last night too and, like, ****. That sucks dude.
On topic of course, just try your best to start appreciating what you have.
This is why you never press Z or R twice
on a nicer note:
Don't remember him as what he is now, but what he was when he was alive.
I don't go to funerals because I don't enjoy seeing a dead person every time I try to remember them.
Turn that frown upside down. D:
I'm sorry about your friend.
keep strong ;)
That's a silly assumption mate.Quote:
Originally Posted by Xente
Doesn't this want to make you quit weed smoking out of repect? I know this might sound mean, but he's dead now. Pull yourself through it and enjoy YOUR life. Your freind would've wanted as much/
Its always tough when someone dies dude...sorry.
Maybe like go buy like a huge *** sunda or milkshape with a bunch of friends might cheer you up a little bit? I it might make you feel a little better(still down but like I guess the digestion might make your stomach better?)
im quite content at the moment.
knowing that boxxy is finally dead
Sucks someone from my school died yesterday too. I don't really care though because I didn't know him. Sucks though.
very odd that another death makes you feel better about a different death.Quote:
Originally Posted by Xente
But whatever floats your boat! Just happy to see your doing better.
its not a literal death its a virtual death lolQuote:
Originally Posted by Shard_Luck
I kno how u feel man i too lost a friend a year ago to a dirt bike accident he hit a car hit the ground head first a few days later he passed away every year i go to his grave on his birthday i burst into tears that day is the worst thing that can happen and till this day i cant believe thats how real life is.
lol ok ya i just read your thread, watched a few of her videos...and ya thanks god.Quote:
Originally Posted by Xente
sorry for the lost
get better okay
damn...im sorry to hear that dude. feel better soon =\
I'm sorry dude.
i am sorry bout your lose but, yea, it happens, people die that's they way it is, my friend died 3 weeks ago, sure i miss him but i didn't make a thread asking for peoples sympathy.
Don't mean to sound insensitive, but its true.
yeah but this kid weve been best friends ever since i could remember (before 5th grade)Quote:
Originally Posted by dannylamb
its like theres a hole in my heart right now =\