Is this a good thing or a bad thing? (girl problems ololol)

Okay, so there's this girl that I really like, and I know she used to like me. And then we became "just friends," and now she's starting to like me again. We've known each other for about...4 and a half months. She's the person I talk to the most, and she told me that she talks to me more than she talks to her best friends.

Anyways, last semester, we were in lunch and one class together at the end of the day. But now in 2nd semester (started Tuesday), we're in no classes together, so I never see her now. ): At first, I thought this was a bad thing, but now I'm starting to think that it might be a good thing. So because she doesn't see me anymore, she starts missing me, blah blah blah. So whenever I do see her, it's a little more special. And I don't mean the ******ed kind of special. I mean the :3 kind of special. And I remember her saying in the past that she's never had any classes together with any boyfriend she's ever had. Her last boyfriend even went to another school.

Now you're probably wondering, "Hey, jackass, why don't you just hang out with her after school?" Well that's because she babysits every weekday from the time school gets out until around 7:00 or a little later. We are planning on hanging out this weekend though.

So my question is: Is it a good thing or a bad thing that I don't have any classes with her during school now?

It has no effect on anything.

Touching story tho.

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Originally Posted by Justlikeheaven

Touching story tho.

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I hope you're being sarcastic.

Making yourself available at any time for a few months, then pretty much stop contact with that person is a good way for them to want to hang out with you. That is of course if they even like you in the first place.

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I hope you're being sarcastic.

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Kinda.

But seriously, It won't change anything. I dropped out of school and well.. It didn't change any of my relationships with friends, or girls. And all you're doing is getting a new elective (I'm guessing). The only difference there might be is she will say "I miss you." sometimes.

Doing that will lead to her moving on. Especially if your still in high school. Keep contact, but since you don't see her in school as often, use that as an excuse to go out more!

"Hey, i haven't seen you in a week and talked maybe once this week, lets go out to dinner!"

or call her sometimes, and if she asks why, just be like "just to chat".

theres a million things you can do in this situation! be creative.

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btdubz, i'm guessing you want to date her.

Don't believe Heaven.

Making yourself less available makes the women want you more. It's the truth. When you're available too much, you make yourself seem too easy and they'll get bored of you quick.

Just like a man who likes a challenging women, a woman likes a challenging man.

The easier it is to get something you want, the less you'll want it.
The harder it is to get what you want, the more you'll want it.

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Originally Posted by Justlikeheaven

It has no effect on anything.

Touching story tho.

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You look like some kid I've seen at the skatepark.

Ontopic: no thats not really a bad thing.

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Originally Posted by maoc389

don't listen to vesper Lol.

Doing that will lead to her moving on. Especially if your still in high school. Keep contact, but since you don't see her in school as often, use that as an excuse to go out more!

"Hey, i haven't seen you in a week and talked maybe once this week, lets go out to dinner!"

or call her sometimes, and if she asks why, just be like "just to chat".

theres a million things you can do in this situation! be creative.

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btdubz, i'm guessing you want to date her.

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Are you a virgin?

I sorta had this except the other way around. Then she somehow got my gmail acc and wouldn't stop bugging me.



So I blocked her =/

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Originally Posted by Jakuza

Don't believe Heaven.

Making yourself less available makes the women want you more. It's the truth. When you're available too much, you make yourself seem too easy and they'll get bored of you quick.

Just like a man who likes a challenging women, a woman likes a challenging man.

The easier it is to get something you want, the less you'll want it.
The harder it is to get what you want, the more you'll want it.

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Thats the truth, but women also like to be paid attention to. if you ignore them for too long, they lose interest and move on to the next guy. If you don't talk to them atleast once a week, unless their completely socially inept, they'll lose interest. These two seem like they were attached at the hip at one point, so some distance is good. Too much isn't.


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Vesper: My bad, i thought it said "don't make yourself available for months at a time".

and no, i'm not a virgin.

Yeah, I'm not saying to completely ignore the girl, but don't make yourself too available.

Here's a good example: My sister had a boyfriend who came over like every day, and she got tired with him in less than 2 months.

not really it doesent matter its not good or bad its just whatever lol

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Originally Posted by Nichons

Okay, so there's this girl that I really like, and I know she used to like me. And then we became "just friends," and now she's starting to like me again. We've known each other for about...4 and a half months. She's the person I talk to the most, and she told me that she talks to me more than she talks to her best friends.

Anyways, last semester, we were in lunch and one class together at the end of the day. But now in 2nd semester (started Tuesday), we're in no classes together, so I never see her now. ): At first, I thought this was a bad thing, but now I'm starting to think that it might be a good thing. So because she doesn't see me anymore, she starts missing me, blah blah blah. So whenever I do see her, it's a little more special. And I don't mean the ******ed kind of special. I mean the :3 kind of special. And I remember her saying in the past that she's never had any classes together with any boyfriend she's ever had. Her last boyfriend even went to another school.

Now you're probably wondering, "Hey, jackass, why don't you just hang out with her after school?" Well that's because she babysits every weekday from the time school gets out until around 7:00 or a little later. We are planning on hanging out this weekend though.

So my question is: Is it a good thing or a bad thing that I don't have any classes with her during school now?

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Cool story bro.

Gonna sound gay, but it adds the "mystery" quality to you.

I have a friend who just started dating a girl, and he said hes working the "mystery" thing. He doesn't talk much, or show much emotion, or speak much about his past. He said when he does, the girl just melts because he opened up to her.

Very lame IMO, not the approach I'd take, but its working for him.

Depends on you mostly.

Make the best of it.

Tell her you have something awsome to show her, then take her to your basement and tie her up.

She'll never leave you.

Works for me every time. My girlfriend's been with me (ie: in my cellar) for almost a year now.

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Originally Posted by BGLamb

Tell her you have something awsome to show her, then take her to your basement and tie her up.

She'll never leave you.

Works for me every time. My girlfriend's been with me (ie: in my cellar) for almost a year now.

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QFT, ive used this method on all my gfs and it works out great.
Sex anytime you want it and if you just put some duck tape on her mouth you won't even have to hear her talk/scream. :D

depends on the girl i think my friends girlfriend is with him like 24/7 really ==

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Originally Posted by Q_switch_css

try 9 months

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i meant since she hasn't been fed

u will die in 9 days