Argh, break up.

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03-01-2009, 07:52 PM
Samhain

Argh, break up.

I'm not the type to post my problems over forums, especially since most people hate it here, but I need some help.

My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday because she said she doesn't see us in long term relationship.

Now, I thought everyone was going great because we had a great time whenever we were together, and just everything was perfect. We were having a conversation via text when she literally pulls a 360 and tells me this isn't going to work and goes into this whole smeal about how she doesn't think we don't mesh well, which I didn't quite get. And then she went on to say that she thinks I'm too good for her and I'm too nice.

She told me that she still really likes me, and I still really liker her.

What do I tell her to make her sure I'm capable of producing a long term relationship with her? I really like her and I'm at a loss as to what to do so I turn to you OnRPG.

I apologize if anyone gets mad at me posting this but I'm feeling very depressed at the moment and this seems harmless so yeah =\
03-01-2009, 07:54 PM
Q_switch_css

because we are montel and dr phils minions, we will be able to help! ha cha! Please also make a blog, you under a blanket :)

If your heart is broken, glue it back together
03-01-2009, 07:54 PM
Vesper

She's banging someone else.
03-01-2009, 07:56 PM
Cereal&Milk

She's banging someone else's chick.
03-01-2009, 07:56 PM
Zymbaline

She broke up with you for a reason, maybe she found somebody else and is afraid to tell the truth so she tries to be as nice as possible, or something?

Just don't fool yourself.
If she really liked you and wanted to be with you, she wouldn't have broken up with you. So just deal with the situation. I know it hurts and you seem to really like her, but shit happens - that's life.

You'll find someboy better.
TAKE CARE! =D
03-01-2009, 07:56 PM
`doll

Give her space, maybe she doesn't want to be suffocated with a serious relationship. If she likes you she'll realize how good you two were and come crawling back.

Oh and I once dumped a boy for being too nice so maybe something about your guy's relationship makes it uncomfortable for her to think about a long term thing.
Think about anything you might've done to make her think twice.
03-01-2009, 07:56 PM
Q_switch_css

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cereal&Milk

She's banging someone else's chick.

rofl, very true 1+
03-01-2009, 07:57 PM
Attila

We don't really hate personal problems per se.....We just tend to turn them in either a joke, trolling, flaming, mental and psychological discussions which lead nowhere, and so on...

Anyways, as for your little problem here, being "too good" for someone isn't a valid reason to break up with someone. So there's an alternate reason she broke up with you so I suggest you first look into that. Be annoying until she snaps, then you'll get your answer.
03-01-2009, 08:00 PM
Norrin Radd

Anyone who uses the "You're too good." argument doesn't deserve anybody.

Most idiotic, cowardly argument.
03-01-2009, 08:10 PM
Drinko

If it came as a 360 then shes definately pimpin around.
03-01-2009, 08:13 PM
Croix

If she really liked you that much she wouldn't be doing that. You want to show her? Go into a long term relationship with someone else.
03-01-2009, 08:15 PM
Lick

Easy.

She's too good for you. Maybe in looks, maybe in stature at school, maybe in brains. Who knows?

The point is: your subconscious mind already knew that, so you tried to be as nice as possible so that you wouldn't lose her, but by being so nice, you gave her the impression that that's all you are. Again, subconsciously, girls want a guy who is sensitive but will still be able to protect them or play his masculine role (which not allot of guys do these days because it seems that 95% of guys today are more feminine than the girls that drool over them). Anyway, you can either cut your loss and go find some hoodrat to bone for a week or two, or you can try being a semi-asshole. No, that's not being a douche-bag to her. It's being strong and hard.

This might be confusing to you, but it's right.

Also, if it IS confusing to you, I can blame myself because I'm too lazy to read it over and fix spelling / grammatical errors.
03-01-2009, 08:22 PM
Gaika

^Owned. :P
03-01-2009, 08:23 PM
Attila

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lick

Again, subconsciously, girls want a guy who is sensitive but will still be able to protect them or play his masculine role (which not allot of guys do these days because it seems that 95% of guys today are more feminine than the girls that drool over them).

Wait, are you serious? Where do you live? Or are you just talking about onrpg? :D
03-01-2009, 08:26 PM
Lick

Quote:

Originally Posted by Attila

Wait, are you serious? Where do you live? Or are you just talking about onrpg? :D

No, I mean everyone.

Guys wearing girls jeans, using hair products and wearing makeup?

**** sakes.
03-01-2009, 08:27 PM
Cereal&Milk

I do none of that. :O
Call me just old-fashioned. :-/
03-01-2009, 08:29 PM
Attila

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lick

No, I mean everyone.

Guys wearing girls jeans, using hair products and wearing makeup?

**** sakes.

Well, I don't think OP is really like that.......He's more of a "I'll do anything for you" type of guy. Unfortunately, most women today want Herculeses walking around. Well, good luck with that.
03-01-2009, 08:29 PM
Q_switch_css

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lick

No, I mean everyone.

Guys wearing girls jeans, using hair products and wearing makeup?

**** sakes.

nah thats some homo shit.. 95%? nowaii
03-01-2009, 08:34 PM
Cereal&Milk

Quote:

Originally Posted by Attila

Well, I don't think OP is really like that.......He's more of a "I'll do anything for you" type of guy. Unfortunately, most women today want Herculeses walking around. Well, good luck with that.

No; a woman's taste can diversify. It's the girls that say they want so and so, but really don't know shit about what they want. :-/
03-01-2009, 08:38 PM
Zymbaline

Hey, not all females are the same.
03-01-2009, 08:52 PM
Attila

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zymbaline

Hey, not all females are the same.

Eh, we know. <3
If we had millions of Zymbalines walking around there wouldn't even be onrpg. :3

*This comment can be translated in hundreds of ways*
03-01-2009, 08:53 PM
Q_switch_css

Quote:

Originally Posted by Attila

Eh, we know. <3
If we had millions of Zymbalines walking around there wouldn't even be onrpg. :3

*This comment can be translated in millions of ways*

i wouldnt like that one bit..
03-01-2009, 08:55 PM
Demure

Quote:

Originally Posted by Zymbaline

Hey, not all females are the same.

You sure about that? ;)
03-01-2009, 08:56 PM
witness

Quote:

Originally Posted by Q_switch_css

nah thats some homo shit.. 95%? nowaii

Welcome to the internet where people make up their facts.
03-01-2009, 08:57 PM
Zymbaline

Quote:

Originally Posted by Attila

Eh, we know. <3
If we had millions of Zymbalines walking around there wouldn't even be onrpg. :3

*This comment can be translated in hundreds of ways*

=D
I'm gonna go ahead and take this as a compliment, because I know we're buddies. THANKZ pal. *hug*

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