In the opposite sex?
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In the opposite sex?
A pulse, then it's pretty much straight forward.
Well, looks are important for the initial impression, but once contact has been made, personality and brains are much more important.
as far as looks go, I find girls like her attractive
http://fc13.deviantart.com/fs21/i/20..._johnrey54.jpg
Brown armpits?
looks first(first attracted by looks), then personality(finishes the deal). If im not attracted physically then theres no point gettin to know em.
I can honestly say personality. Then brains. Then looks. I'm not a shallow person when it comes to my women. Personality is the most important...but she can't be dumb as shit either. When I talk to her I want her to understand what I'm saying and be able to converse with me about it.
Then looks. Looks are important, don't get me wrong...but they are less important than other qualities.
Thankfully, I found a girl with all 3 :)
i hate that.... lookin at jsut personality is shallow too... some people put alot of time into their looks, as as far as im concerned people cant help their personality as much as they can help their looks.Quote:
Originally Posted by Oisterboy
Brains, then personality. I personally like people who disagree with me on everything and loves to argue with me and never give up. Then looks.
I realized how messed up I am after I typed this........
Personality
Brains
Looks
Exactly. I don't want a girl to be fake. I want her to be who she is...and if I like her enough to hang out with her, and be her friend and shes compatible with me...then she qualifies as a girlfriend.Quote:
Originally Posted by V-Opolis
but sayin your not shallow cuz you dont go for looks is hypocritical. should go for both equally.Quote:
Originally Posted by Oisterboy
All of the above.
Yeah.
can you actually go out with a friend? wouldn't that be awkward?Quote:
Originally Posted by Oisterboy
What about if you're not looking for the opposite sex...?
If they're your friend you're probably already alright with their brains and personality.Quote:
Originally Posted by Clone
Add some looks and you've got major attraction to 'em.
Then you do not count!Quote:
Originally Posted by Cingal
I kid of course <3
Post anyway! (i'll edit the OP)
Personality is a definite first.. there doesn't need to be a strong physical attraction at first because that sort of thing grows. Brains don't bother me too much... as long as the person is coherent.
Personality first. Brains second. Looks third.
Run around and try to kiss all the guys you see. If one lets you kiss them, then you found a soul mate.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cingal
I know what inspired this thread.
WHAARGARBLE!Quote:
Originally Posted by Bekk
Yeah. You would be correct, sir!
Too late. Already done that.Quote:
Originally Posted by Clone
what inspired this thread?Quote:
Originally Posted by Lick
To be honest I want looks and personality. For looks she doesn't have to be OMFG SHE SO SMOKING HOT she could just be a simple plain cute looking girl. She can be a simple plain cute looking girl with a great personality. ;)
I'll tell you right now that will get you nowhere. You simply do not know how easy that is to do.Quote:
Originally Posted by Clone
I'm talking about the people who will scope out the beauty from across the room, and try to make it with her...and leave the average looking, perfectly compatible girl they were just sitting next to feeling inadequate and sad. Thats what I meant.Quote:
Originally Posted by V-Opolis
A lot of times, yes...but shouldn't the person your dating also be a friend? Thats what I meant. Personally, my girlfriend is also my best friend.Quote:
Originally Posted by Clone
well someone will find them beautiful, if they didnt then they wernt meant to be. To me physical attraction is the first key, then personality seals it. you gotta have both or it prob wont work. and who your meant to be shouldnt be "average" lookin to you, they should be the most beautiful women lol.Ive thought a girl that most guys didnt think was gorgeous, was straight up beautiful.Quote:
Originally Posted by Oisterboy
I'm sorry for breaking your bubble, but gays are no different than straight people in that respect. We aren't creatures from another planet.. we have a human brain and we act just like a human should.Quote:
Originally Posted by Clone
What's funny is that your "observation" is probably only directed towards the stereotypical gay... the only kind you're able to point out in a crowd. In that case, they obviously have the same interests. There are probably a good few dozen gays at your school that you would imagine to be straight.
Psst.Quote:
Originally Posted by V-Opolis
It's a disguise.
whats a disguise?Quote:
Originally Posted by Cingal
Thats cool then man :)Quote:
Originally Posted by V-Opolis
So funny how you can mean something one way, and come across totally different haha.
I think first thing you look at in the person is their actualy sex.....Unless you're bi...I guess...
Female, good personality, looks (need some sort of physical attraction). In order of importance
Anyone who says that looks don't matter is straight out lying.
The first thing you are attracted to (usually) is how the person looks, if that passes, then personality and intellegence are up, if either of those don't pass then you pass on them.
speaks the truth.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pok
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Originally Posted by Pok
Agree, looks for me first then usually i go for personality then brains..
Personality over brains because if you can't have a good relationship with them, whats the point, including if you get bored with him/her.
Brains- average.. no blank minded person.
There's not really 1 thing that i look for. Can't really choose one thing that matters the most, it's just if they 'fit' with me or not :o Don't know if that makes sense.