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haha once again thanks guys
i just talked to my dad
and he gave me details on what was weird about my mom these past days
and he gave me a hug and a kiss
and said, don't worry we'll try our best
so im gonna talk to my mom 2morrow morning
its the only thing i can think of
Kinda went through the same thing/Still am minus the fact that its impossible for me to live with my dad.
Trust me dude i know its an emotional thing but dont do stuff like sitting in the road and running off you should be old enough now to know stuff like that is silly.
i know it's silly, but i just felt like getting away from the problem just for a bit because i knew i would have to face it again soon
See? That wasn't bad? xPQuote:
Originally Posted by SahibX
My parents are still together
They fight a lot, though
Well you faced it so well done. You have more guts that i do :P Hate talking about depressing things since im never really unhappy.Quote:
Originally Posted by SahibX
Deimos what can I say I was like wtf "busting massive ollies!?" and you just put the icing on the cakeQuote:
Originally Posted by Deimos
not really, one goes one stays you still see em both if you want to, you get used to it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Norrin Radd
well, from my experience anyway.
Wait so the dads thinking of divorcing your mom because she was acting funny.........
Am I getting this right?
Happens to me all the time.
Pick mom, dads are pricks.
There should be no need for any sort of confirmation here, it's all in the first post. Here's a shocking idea - read it twice if you didn't understand it the first time.Quote:
Originally Posted by Espada1
I'm betting the parents are breaking up because of you. EVERY divorce is because of the children, if there is no children in the marriage it is because of children they saw at the supermarket or something. You should take a firm stance and say "I love whichever one of you showers me with better gifts more."
In all honesty, I wouldn't even talk to my mom about it if I was you, I'd leave that to my dad.
Well aren't you a bundle of cheerfulness...Quote:
Originally Posted by Pok
Just make them vie for your affection by having them buy you expensive gifts. Then you'll know who loves you more.
My parents divorced when I was around 10 -11 but things were never good between them for as long as I can remember. For me it wasn't pleasant at all having to deal with that and have to hear them constantly bad mouth each other and wonder who's side you should be on. In my case though, my father was the majority of the problem (though my mother had her share of blame) as well as my brother who constantly got bad grades, lied often and just caused a who lot of problems for all of us. To this day we are not on speaking terms (it's been 5 years I believe) and we never will be again. Some people are not meant to be together especially if the only way they can communicate with each other is by yelling or arguing.
It's a very complicated decision to make between two people especially when there are children in the picture. It wasn't easy for any of us. My father constantly moved and had to go on TDY often (which was one of major problems: not being around enough) sometimes every year so I ended up going to many different schools. I had to learn how to adapt to my situation by killing any emotional attachments to the people and places I lived because I would not see them again. Often it would just be my self and/or my brother looking after ourselves up until the point he started acting out and neither my mother or father would take care of him any longer so my father dropped him off at a homeless shelter. I was the "good" son so my parents had less of a problem raising me even though I was at the very least still financial burden to both of them, especially my mother who was not at the time making that much money. We were most certainly a part of the reason why our parents divorced as well as their own personal problems with each other.
The indepth version of this little story is much worse. I didn't even begin to explain all the things I experienced during or discovered later on after I became older.
I'd suggest you remember the experience well, because it should be a reminder of what not to do should you have a family of your own someday. Really make sure you are ready to handle the responsibilities of being married and having a family because most older folk will tell you, it's not easy being in a relationship or going through a divorce. Sometimes I think I'm a better person for having gone though the ordeal, but not always.
My parents divorced when i was around 7-8, didnt give a shit back then, dont give a shit now.
I dont see my father anymore tho.
I lolled uber hard XD, when I read that sentence it was funny too XDQuote:
Originally Posted by Deimos
MY parents divorced when I was 3 years old. They have both married 3 times.
At least now they found someone they will seem to stay with.
I never saw my parents together unless it was in old pictures. But who really has a family like the Brady Bunch. I think you can't come up with an idea of a normal family, because there is not one.
Okay, now I get it.Quote:
Originally Posted by IronyTaken
get what?Quote:
Originally Posted by Civil
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Originally Posted by Kyoteki
what he said but go to your mom and ask ehr whats up and go to your dad ans ask him whats up but go on like a special outting with both of em but make it seem as if theres nothing up like ask your mom to go somewheres you would usually go and your dad and see whats up.but make sure you coll down first then do so.and asses the situation accordingly.after you find out whats up talk to both of them about it calmly though and see what happenes from there also if they get divorced its still not that bad as long as you know they love you and they still parent you but like anoter poster said make sure you keep a good relationship with them.
the rational response squad strikes againQuote:
Originally Posted by Pok
shame bitterness isnt a cure for persecution complex