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05-09-2009, 11:45 AM
Valcry

How to get a girl to like you

there is this nice girl at my school who i'm in love with,
We have everything in common Music,Video Games everything
One question how can i tell if she likes me back and if no how to get her to like me?
Thanks,
Valcry
05-09-2009, 11:48 AM
SahibX

try asking her friends
05-09-2009, 11:55 AM
Valcry

thing is
i don't know her friends at all,

Is her telling me things she doesn't tell her closest friends a good sign?
05-09-2009, 11:56 AM
Oisterman

Or skip all the bullshit and be honest with her.

Ask her to hang out. Go to a movie or something. I'd say after you hang out with her twice, just give it a shot man. What do you REALLY have to lose in the long run? You'll never know unless you just go for it.

If you fail, try, and try again man. Just let us know, we'll help pick you back up, and then try to find another. Sucks thats how it has to work...but it is.
05-09-2009, 12:00 PM
SnOwBunZz

Quote:

Originally Posted by Oisterboy

Or skip all the bullshit and be honest with her.

Ask her to hang out. Go to a movie or something. I'd say after you hang out with her twice, just give it a shot man. What do you REALLY have to lose in the long run? You'll never know unless you just go for it.

If you fail, try, and try again man. Just let us know, we'll help pick you back up, and then try to find another. Sucks thats how it has to work...but it is.

/thread

Just hang out with her.
05-09-2009, 12:02 PM
Valcry

yeah ima ask her to the semi :3
05-09-2009, 12:05 PM
hobolord

well
become her friend and hang with her o.o
or tell her straight =p
05-09-2009, 12:25 PM
mlauzon

I myself have tried the things you're all telling him to do, never worked for me...I'll be 33 this summer and never dated, never kissed, never had -- well without a girlfriend the last thing is not possible -- and am still single. Women have just never wanted me as a friend or more. Still like women, however as of January 1st after 22 years of being turned down I've stopped actively and passively looking as it's useless.
05-09-2009, 12:38 PM
hobolord

Quote:

Originally Posted by mlauzon

I myself have tried the things you're all telling him to do, never worked for me...I'll be 33 this summer and never dated, never kissed, never had -- well without a girlfriend the last thing is not possible -- and am still single. Women have just never wanted me as a friend or more. Still like women, however as of January 1st after 22 years of being turned down I've stopped actively and passively looking as it's useless.

never give up there must be someone =S
05-09-2009, 12:48 PM
Bad Hamster

Just get to know her, and remember everything she ever told you :3 It's really usefull and such. You should be yourself to, even if you can keep up a farce, you will eventually drop it.
05-09-2009, 12:49 PM
Cereal&Milk

Quote:

Originally Posted by mlauzon

I myself have tried the things you're all telling him to do, never worked for me...I'll be 33 this summer and never dated, never kissed, never had -- well without a girlfriend the last thing is not possible -- and am still single. Women have just never wanted me as a friend or more. Still like women, however as of January 1st after 22 years of being turned down I've stopped actively and passively looking as it's useless.

Do you really want to be the 40 year old virgin? And more importantly, do you really want to give up on companionship? :-/
05-09-2009, 01:34 PM
TaikoxKashi

Quote:

Originally Posted by mlauzon

There is no one.

Man can live without sex, I am proof of that. I've got friends, granted none of them are female...and anyways I've got to many problems now to deal with having a relationship; so I'll die alone. I have no family to speak of either.

Dude, don't give up! There's gotta be a girl out there in this world for you!
05-09-2009, 01:38 PM
hotsaucexdo

Quote:

Originally Posted by Valcry

there is this nice girl at my school who i'm in love with,
We have everything in common Music,Video Games everything
One question how can i tell if she likes me back and if no how to get her to like me?
Thanks,
Valcry

Id say u cant "make" her like you by forcing it, just keep being his friend but try to get closer than that; if it doesnt work just dont push it or u will loose her friendship... =D
05-09-2009, 01:42 PM
Nogardreyals

Quote:

Originally Posted by marcipaans

We are the same man. Though i am 17 but i feel it will turn out like you :(

:( I might be like u tooo
05-09-2009, 01:44 PM
TopHat

Quote:

Originally Posted by Valcry

there is this nice girl at my school who i'm in love with,
We have everything in common Music,Video Games everything
One question how can i tell if she likes me back and if no how to get her to like me?
Thanks,
Valcry

You sound like a nice guy, and when I say that I mean a wuss. Go up to her, tell her that ya want to date her, **** yeah. I remember I was like this, and then we stopped hanging out cause I never had the balls to ask her out, ***** you do that and you do that good mmkay? Now I regret it everyday because no other girl can be like her in terms of personality and beauty.
Either way you idiots, your suppose to come up to the girl not them up to you.
05-09-2009, 01:45 PM
Bad Hamster

Quote:

Originally Posted by marcipaans

We are the same man. Though i am 17 but i feel it will turn out like you :(

In 1 year alot can change you know. When I was at high school hardly any girls looked at me, now alot of people recognize me and got tons of girls that would want to date me. That could happen to you to you know. I'm only 18 years old and this suddenly happened in just 1 year.
05-09-2009, 01:49 PM
woot

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cingal

Make out with a dude in front of her.

Girls love that.

and getting massages from other men makes you look manly too
05-09-2009, 01:58 PM
SnOwBunZz

Quote:

Originally Posted by Darksin

In 1 year alot can change you know. When I was at high school hardly any girls looked at me, now alot of people recognize me and got tons of girls that would want to date me. That could happen to you to you know. I'm only 18 years old and this suddenly happened in just 1 year.

I can recognize myself in it too a bit.

Though they don't come up to me, I keep hearing they are talking about me. =/

@mlauzon, don't worry, she'll come out of the blue one day.

This happened to the girl I love now (and she me :p). I don't date her yet but that comes due some real problems she has right now and I also don't want to put even more stress on her.
05-09-2009, 02:24 PM
bonneau_14

What i did and all my friends is just hang out with her for a while and see if anything grows, if it does, make a move. but if you are like 13 or something don't expect much, nothing is serious at that age.

BTW don't say you love her when you barely know her.

Quote:

Originally Posted by mlauzon

There is no one.

Man can live without sex, I am proof of that. I've got friends, granted none of them are female...and anyways I've got to many problems now to deal with having a relationship; so I'll die alone. I have no family to speak of either.

**** thats depressing; think of it like cocaine, once you start you ain't stopping.
05-09-2009, 02:26 PM
Jrgsubzero

I got a girlfriend a few days ago.

Yes. I did. So if I can i'm pretty sure you guys can too.

You can't get a girl to like you, unless she's a gold digger.

Just be yourself, let your personality flow. If she likes it, you'll know.
05-09-2009, 02:32 PM
Gaika

Oisty just owned this thread.

That's all the advice you need. Man-up and talk to her. Ask her to hang out, be it with friends or alone.
05-09-2009, 02:40 PM
Jammart

This is a silly thread :P. If I were in your position I'd become a really close friend of hers first, but I'm not one to hit on women (or even men to be honest :c) so I suppose I havn't any decent advice to offer. Listen to Oisty! ^.^~
05-09-2009, 02:41 PM
Gaika

Jammy, have you seen I love you man?

Watch that movie.
05-09-2009, 03:52 PM
V-Opolis

hang out with her, and be flirty, if shes responsive she likes you, if she tries to avoid it she doesnt.
05-09-2009, 03:53 PM
bonneau_14

Quote:

Originally Posted by LakeOfTears

or people will flame you with nonsense such as "we dont care" or "rl problems on this board is for losers"

*cough*600+hoursofWoW*cough*
05-09-2009, 03:53 PM
V-Opolis

Quote:

Originally Posted by TopHat

You sound like a nice guy, and when I say that I mean a wuss. Go up to her, tell her that ya want to date her, **** yeah. I remember I was like this, and then we stopped hanging out cause I never had the balls to ask her out, ***** you do that and you do that good mmkay? Now I regret it everyday because no other girl can be like her in terms of personality and beauty.
Either way you idiots, your suppose to come up to the girl not them up to you.

does it ****in matter? womens rights are here for a reason...

Quote:

Originally Posted by Darksin

In 1 year alot can change you know. When I was at high school hardly any girls looked at me, now alot of people recognize me and got tons of girls that would want to date me. That could happen to you to you know. I'm only 18 years old and this suddenly happened in just 1 year.

supposedly i have the sophomore girls wet their pants with excitement when they see me... we should get married cuz were alike.../sarcasm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jammart

This is a silly thread :P. If I were in your position I'd become a really close friend of hers first, but I'm not one to hit on women (or even men to be honest :c) so I suppose I havn't any decent advice to offer. Listen to Oisty! ^.^~

when you become close friends you get teh friend zone... you gotta do it before you become close friends... if you do it, do it in a flirty friends way, dont be the guy she goes to for problems, be the friend she goes to for fun, that way you dont get friend zoned.
05-09-2009, 04:14 PM
Wordsmith

I followeded all these eazy steps and i have 2 gurlfrends u should try it 2!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!PLZZZZZZZZZ
05-09-2009, 04:57 PM
SnOwBunZz

Quote:

Originally Posted by bonneau_14

*cough*600+hoursofWoW*cough*

Try again.

Who else thinks this thread turned into a spamthread?
05-09-2009, 05:03 PM
DemonKnight

Quote:

Originally Posted by mlauzon

I myself have tried the things you're all telling him to do, never worked for me...I'll be 33 this summer and never dated, never kissed, never had -- well without a girlfriend the last thing is not possible -- and am still single. Women have just never wanted me as a friend or more. Still like women, however as of January 1st after 22 years of being turned down I've stopped actively and passively looking as it's useless.

Wow thats gotta suck, no girl? Geez
05-09-2009, 05:11 PM
Attila

Quote:

Originally Posted by Darksin

In 1 year alot can change you know. When I was at high school hardly any girls looked at me, now alot of people recognize me and got tons of girls that would want to date me. That could happen to you to you know. I'm only 18 years old and this suddenly happened in just 1 year.

Actually nothing, or very little can happen in a year. Yes, you may become that new toy everybody wants to play with, but how long it will last is questionable. Stable and relationship filled with good things take years to develop, everything else is a date or a pathetic attempt at feeling "special".

And I'm same as mlauzon, and I no longer care. I've lost everything when I came to this damn country, might as well do what everybody does. Hoard money and be selfish.
05-09-2009, 05:45 PM
seroson

When ever i'm in love with a girl it's always because she likes the same video games and music as me.

Be a man and ask her out.
05-09-2009, 05:47 PM
Norrin Radd

Quote:

Originally Posted by Valcry

there is this nice girl at my school who i'm in love with,
We have everything in common Music,Video Games everything
One question how can i tell if she likes me back and if no how to get her to like me?
Thanks,
Valcry

You're destined to be a friend and nothing more.

Give up.

Girls don't go for guys who it'd make sense to go for.
05-09-2009, 05:51 PM
Deimos

Quote:

Originally Posted by mlauzon

I myself have tried the things you're all telling him to do, never worked for me...I'll be 33 this summer and never dated, never kissed, never had -- well without a girlfriend the last thing is not possible -- and am still single. Women have just never wanted me as a friend or more. Still like women, however as of January 1st after 22 years of being turned down I've stopped actively and passively looking as it's useless.

holy shit dude thats one of the most depressing things ive read all day.

the pitch black recesses of my heart just opened a fraction for you man.
05-09-2009, 05:55 PM
Ithian

OP - there's no way to 'get' them to like you. Just be nice, be yourself and try to have fun. If you have a fun date with them, ask for another and just slowly get to know them. Be honest, but dont' blab on about your problems. Don't just agree with what they say, but if you do agree try to add on or change it into another type of topic... keep it interesting. Don't move too fast, but if you think they want a kiss or something, just try. It's easier to say sorry than to try and make up for the missed opportunity.
05-09-2009, 06:06 PM
Gaika

Quote:

Originally Posted by Norrin Radd

You're destined to be a friend and nothing more.

Give up.

Girls don't go for guys who it'd make sense to go for.

If I recall, he was asking for help, not for negative put-downs.
05-09-2009, 06:32 PM
Gaika

I'm not targetting this at you. The whole point of my previous posts were to depict that the OP was NOT looking for negative and emotionally lowering comments.
05-09-2009, 06:49 PM
Norrin Radd

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gaika

If I recall, he was asking for help, not for negative put-downs.

Then it's mighty lucky I didn't give him a put-down, isn't it?

He asked how to get a girl to like you, and generally you can't. Let's assume the opposite, though; they have everything in common and it'd make perfect sense for them to be together it seems, so what is the most likely scenario?

Him being seen as a friend and nothing more, we both know this to be true.

If you spend too long in friendship with a girl, they stop seeing you as someone to date generally.

As for your "Never give up!" mentality, it's ridiculous. I'm all for "Give it a shot no matter what happens.", but that's a one time deal. You can be proud you tried, even if you fail (Sometimes). However, you know the saying:

Winners never quit, quitters never win, but those who never win and never quit are stupid.
05-09-2009, 10:01 PM
`doll

Tell her you like her and see if she likes you or not.
Can't force her or "get a girl to like you" so you might as well be upfront and find out if she does or not. Or you're just gonna get yourself led on.
OR you're going to try really hard to "get her to like you" then realize she always has in the first place, and you've been wasting your time.
05-09-2009, 10:04 PM
Justsin

How do i get a girl to like me?

I stop being a post ***** on OnRPG and get out of the house. I'm still waiting.

-

Just say you like her... Seriously. If you don't then you are just going to wonder for a few years.
05-09-2009, 10:05 PM
Groteske

Ask her if she's feeling you. If she says "Get out of my face!" then she doesn't feel you, but if she says "Damn boy you so fine." then wow she wants you bad.

:D You can't force a girl to like you.... But if she is a **** then perhaps act like you have money.

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