hey general forum.
how do you guys cope with broken hearts. I'm really sad, i miss him so much.
serious answers only please, i really don't feel like joking around. ='(
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hey general forum.
how do you guys cope with broken hearts. I'm really sad, i miss him so much.
serious answers only please, i really don't feel like joking around. ='(
time will heal. later on you'll realize that its not worth your time and you'll move on.
inb4trolls.
You can not just go out and find "the one" so easily. I'm sorry you had to get hurt in the end. But know that there are more guys out there. It takes time, but if you are patient, you will find the right person for you. There is someone for everyone. Keep your chin up and your heart open and love will find you, unless you find it first. Just note something very important. Everyone has their pros and cons, even your "perfect" match. Also arguing is normal, it helps fix issues within the relationship. Talking things out calmly is hard for males because they feel they must be strong and make a point. If he just argued for no reason then it was time to just move on. Otherwise arguing could of helped in the end if it is based on a good reason.
~Roh
burn it down.
any letters he gave you, pictures you have of him, his cellphone number, facebook, myspace.
burn him out of your life.
if that works you may proceed to drink yourself into stupor
Asking for serious answers is a sure fire way to not get any.
However, this is simple; time will heal. Does knowing this help you NOW? No. You will need time, you will need distance. You'll need to think, cry, laugh, think, cry and laugh again. You'll over-analyse even though you shouldn't, you'll wonder what could have been. All of this is natural. Not the best path, but natural.
That's literally all there is to it.
Don't beat yourself up, but don't cling to what won't work.
I burn everything down.
I listen to music
I drink alot
I go out and flirt a bit
There's nothing to heal it instantly, just give it time. I know how you feel, i had to break up a relationship after 3,5 years. There's nothing better than alcohol,music and friends XD
omg ur so hot u got so ballsy omg ur so tuff!!1! <3333Quote:
Originally Posted by Hardkore
xoxoxoxo
i think hardkore is a pretty cool guy. eh is a heartless cold bastard and doesn't afraid of anythingQuote:
Originally Posted by Hardkore
You can't stop yourself from falling in love =/
And so because you 'broke' your heart once you're never gonna love again.
Huh. Where would humanity be if we all stopped trying when we failed.
Yeah, all the underaged asian girls want a piece of me. I have to carry a stick to swat them away.Quote:
Originally Posted by woshiibreak
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Originally Posted by SonicCebalo
You obviously didn't get that the heartless cold bastard was sarcasm.
Yeah i can't stop myself from falling in love but i sure as hell can stay realist and enjoy my relationship day by day instead of planning the rest of my life with one girl when chances we make it that far are slim to none.
I've been with the same girl for over a year, i love her, i really do. But there is no telling if we'll still be together in 6 months.
slep with one of his friends..ok jokes over
but
seriously i usually just move on and try not to think about it, or if im feeling really bad (im gonna get flamed bad for this) i listen to cascada- lonely, dont know why but it makes me feel better.
scorpio
no actually you shouldnt get flamed for that.Quote:
Originally Posted by gratscorpio
on another note.
just keep some distance. oh and try as much as possible to keep your mind off it. once you can keep your mind off it. hang out with some friends.
like everyone said, you just have to wait because time fixes everything.
i find that completely forgetting about them works/makes it go faster... like delete their number from contacts, delete from msn/email contacts, chuck out all the sh!t the leave at yours, remove all photos from facebook or whatever.
that way you arent constantly reminded by it.
maybe thatll help if you havent done that already.
Go to a themepark (or anything alike) to cheer up and have fun for a bit.
Also try to stay busy with other things so you wouldn't think much about it.
First of all though, cry it out. It'll help for now.
I never had a relationship where I got heart broken when it ended.
But when I am angry or something, I pk lowlvls.
Thats so Badass,Quote:
Originally Posted by Paladin Catling
but yeah....time heals all wounds...so does secksy time XO
Men is men no matter which form they take.Quote:
Originally Posted by Paladin Catling
XD
I don't do anything. I never really got to the point of 'loving' someone, so I can't be hurt either :3 Also I'm the one that most of the time ditches the girl, not the other way around :-/
But we catmen are so much better! >:(Quote:
Originally Posted by Danuve
That's a lie. There are a lot of nice men, and a lot of stupid bastards.Quote:
Originally Posted by WerewolfX
It's the same thing with women; some of us are sluts and some of us are decent.
And there are also Stupid Nices guys that don't know when to stop being nice.... Like me. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Zymbaline
But yeah this has been said like 20 times now, but Time does infact heal all wounds or you can do what I did and watch funny video's and just Chill with your friends. Cuz no matter how much you cry it won't change the fact that its over so you might as well continue living your life cuz you might meet someone a long the road that is life.
I don't know about thaaat one, he's not really a videogame nerd like i am. like he's played a game with me, for a little bit, but he's sucha noob and it's adorable when when we played maplestory together and he thought that his warrior needed intelligence and iwas like "babe, why would you put int into your warrior?" "oh because everyone was typing weird and as soon as i put a bit of int people started talking more clear" and he thought that the game chat was connected to his characters int. but putting that aside, he's never lost a fight before so i don't think i could get anyone to beat him up even if i wanted to.Quote:
Originally Posted by nawrasz
oister, i think you gave me the best advice, so thanks for that even though tbh i don't even remember what you wrote due to my horrible memory.
i'm just trying to not smoke weed, he really doesn't like the fact that i smoke. that's the biggest problem between us, my smoking. but it's hard to just stop.
**** him and smoke all ya want dear, i wouldn't blame ya at all.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pinay
take up drinking and chewing gum instead.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pinay
this place is more enjoyable when PUI
The people you would hire to do such act would be able to do it with eas...there not normal people they are paid to hurt and are good at it....at least in the area where i live but who knows maybe you live in a giant city of pansies and sissies.Quote:
Originally Posted by Pinay
but of course these kind of people would probably break at least one arm/leg and do a number on him......and if caught will gladly rat you out to lessen their time...so in the end not worth it.
on a side note either he likes you for who you are or not you should not change you self to meet others expectations. (would he change anything for you?)
scorpio
I'd dump a girl for smoking weed aswell.
When my gf broke up with me, I never cried of felt sad even tough it was a good relationship
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Originally Posted by gratscorpio
Thank you for saying before I did. :D
That's why I said if you can't do that, do something about it. Crying yourself to sleep every night helps no one, especially not you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Deimos
And time does nothing by itself. If you don't have the will and strength to move on, then you can screw time and all the psychologists and therapists in the world at the same time.
Or a ****. ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Norrin Radd