This is why I hate Shy Girls

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Originally Posted by Nero666

you morons probably get nervous when a girl looks at you, that is when you go outside.

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This is why people are bashing you instead of helping you.

You aren't as cool as you think you are bro.

I think you need to **** a chick, go ahead be a full on ******.

Oh how I love always sunny xD

I'll take the milk steak, boiled over-hard, and a side of your finest jelly beans, raw.

she doesn't like you
get over it
you ain't the stud you think you are

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Originally Posted by hobosexual

I'll take the milk steak, boiled over-hard, and a side of your finest jelly beans, raw.

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Oi, Duskull I only said what I said to point something out, I got bashed before saying anything offensive, its all back to normal anyway, except that other dude saying something about shitty emo day.
You can tlel he dont go out much, living by labels.

Sorry just had to point that out.

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Originally Posted by V-Opolis

you sure WE had something, or YOU had something? figure that out and youll find an answer quick that way.

and at 3. i can almost promise you if this is a shy, timid girl and you punch this kid, she will not talk to you,ever. whores who want strong manly men who fight all the time usually arnt the shy ones.

what does it even solve? hurt someone else to make yourself feel better cuz a girl didnt pick you? thats like suicide over a girl.... please use your ****in head and think straight, i know its hard when you like a girl, but damn, try a LITTLE.

and if it makes you feel better, i got stood up Thursday night....be grateful the chick at least told you how she felt.

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We obviously had something thats how we met and the way things evolved, trust if we didn't I wouldn't even be bothered as it would of OBVIOUSLY never worked.

But its not like that, I am stuck in middle of all this drama...

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Originally Posted by hobolord

she doesn't like you
get over it
you ain't the stud you think you are

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I love your pointless comment, you dont know anything and since when did I say i ws a stud? serious

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Originally Posted by Darksin

I know how they are...
Never had a shy girl though.
I know most girls get sort of addicted to it once they had sex, I know...
One of my eyes was like this -_-' As soon she wasn't a virgin anymore with me she wanted like 2-3times a day.....

I stated my own opinion about shy girls, no need to go around saying bullshit like 'I think you might need to experience the world outside of what you see on the internet and tv/movies to understand how girls actually are.' A real shy girl won't cheat, just simple for the reason she is to shy to make the first move and most girls hate players. So there won't really be a threat of a guy around.

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I didnt mean to offend you. I am not here trying to change your opinion or say it isnt important, but not all shy girls are faithful. Shy girls may not make the first move but in most cases they will go along with something if they are interested and someone else makes the first move. If youre going out with a shy girl, she no longer has any reason to be super shy seeing as she already has a man giving her attention and she becomes use to it.The boyfriend may not be her first choice, but her "only" choice since hes the only one whose shown an interest. If somebody else who is better looking, a sweet talker, or someone she actually likes more than her current boyfriend then she WILL cheat. Ive seen it COUNTLESS times.

Hmm girls might not like "players", but players, pimps, man whores, or whatever you wanna call it DO NOT go around telling girls they are trying to get with what they do. That is not how you play the game unfortunately. In high school for instance, i had 5-8 girls on check on any given day. I did not have all the girls i use to mess around with at my school, thats how you cause problems and ruin your chances. You space the girls out and with girls who do not know any of the other girls your talking to. And just an FYI, there have been lots of girls who have been told what i do and what i have done and they didnt seem to care. As long as a girl thinks that the "player" or whatever name you want to give them isnt going to hurt them then theyll go along with it, some girls just dont care all together and want to have fun.

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Originally Posted by Nero666

We obviously had something thats how we met and the way things evolved, trust if we didn't I wouldn't even be bothered as it would of OBVIOUSLY never worked.

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This just sounds like the way you've decided it is.

It doesn't sound like there was anything there at all, and it seems like you interpreted her actions incorrectly. Things didn't "evolve" did they? You started interpreting her signals (This can be extremely hard, I'll give you that) and then she knocked you back.

She's told you outright that she doesn't like you in that way. Not JUST that she isn't ready right now, but that you are not a male she wishes to indulge in.

I could be entirely wrong, but I think you saw her attitude as alluding to something you wanted to happen, and ran with it. So obviously it doesn't make sense to YOU that she denied you, because to YOU she wanted you. To her, she didn't.

I think you just need to accept it and move on.

the story he shared is on his side... maybe if we ask the side of the girl then all of us will know the truth lol! xD

Frankly just get over with and find another one more suited for you..

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Originally Posted by Nero666

I see what your saying and your right in a sense. But Imma be as clear as I can dude

Its just lets say if she wasn't intrested right;
1. Why would this 7 second eye contact thing happen
2. her and her friends hanging outside all my classes then she waved at me etc lmao. Then carried on hanging outside for like 2 more days.
3. I got her number, twice actually
4. The more we hung out the more interaction there was
5. her and her friends say they talk about me a lot.
6. I was with her all the time, and was close to taking her out on date but then this happened.

Do you see what I mean? I mean yes she never said *I LIKE YOU*, But during the process of me trying to get the answer, I was like "Are you liking anyone at the moment then?" She said yeah this guy for 1+ year. But I thought to myself, ok well whatever, its nothing besides were getting along great.

Meaning she has liked this guy for over a year, and all of a sudden he shows intrest because last friday they were together and all. THEN thats when things started turning weird she was acting diffrent, hence the whole reason we got into argument. You see what I mean?

If she didn't like me, well she wouldn't be so open to me and tell me all the problems she had in past and get all emotional as well as the things i have said.

So thats the picture right.

She liked me, but liked this other guy more, I mean I only known her for 2 weeks, but thats whats funny how all of a sudden he is showing intrest after 1+ year.
That is why he is a douche and why I wanna smack him, I dunno wtf people in college/relationships play at these days but this aint normal.

So If she didn't like me, I got played to give her that love feeling back for this dude, or just to make him jealous?

If she does like me, she didn't want to go out with either of us because she can't decide and commit to her emotions yet, so stick as friends, so all 3 of us are single, which makes more sense!

SO THERE! THAT IS BASICALLY THE WHOLE STORY BACKGROUND EVERYTHING.
So that is the reason how I know she liked me, I mean maybe in time as its only been 2 weeks things will be diffrent, for now though I will give her time and her space because I did come on to pushy.

I actually feel better know after going through it again with myself, seems more clear.

Whatever happens, its all about moving forward with time...so yeah thats everything man.

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Those 6 things make guys think you're interested? ._.;
To 1, I accidentaly stare at people some of the time, usually when I'm zoning out in their direction. >_<
To 2, Waving is just nice to do when you see someone familiar. When I'm with my friends right after a class and I see someone I remember, I wave because I don't remember their name or something.
To 3, I don't know why everyone thinks a phone number means romantic interest. x_x I know I give my number because I want to stay in contact with you outside of class, not really that I like them that way.
4 is pretty expected.
5, Talk about you a lot, isn't always a good thing.. There are a few people I talk about to my friends, and we have a laugh about things that happen. Some good, most bad or embarrassing. ._.

Not to shoot you down or anything, it's just that you might be misinterpreting things girls do. A lot of the time I'm nicer to someone in person because I don't want to hurt any feelings or get on anyone's bad side. It's not really leading you on, just being polite. ._.

Hmmm, you got her number twice?

What a curious arrangement.

(Imagine that happened with a guy; You'd be practically married to a dude.)

Sorry on not being able to take this serious, but you shouldn't either. Nor should you waste time analyzing all these experiences, as those do not change what the explicit unambiguous outcome was, not matter from what perspective you dissect them.

First you need to understand that fact. Only after that you can go on to try to figure out what actually happened.

She probably just used you for a confidence gig, checking to make sure "she still gots it". But, she doesn't want to be finished with you so she'll keep you around. All you can do is be the best you can be and obviously look like the best option, even get her friends to agree. Until then, move on, don't get stuck in a rut.

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Originally Posted by Norrin Radd

For one thing, I'd say the fact that you counted seven seconds of eye contact suggests that you're reading way too much into it.

Furthermore, maybe she did just like you as a really close friend and loved spending time with you. Talking about you doesn't mean she was into you.



None of that really adds up to her liking you, though.

I can see why you feel it might, but to convince yourself she does is a bit odd to me. That's all. I'm not having a pop at you or anything, it's just that you seem settled on the one outcome you wanted.

Girls cry, they get emotional. I know a girl who poured out some very intimate details to me after I had known her about a week. Some girls just...do that around people the feel they can talk to.

Regardless, you'll handle it how you handle it. Good luck and all that, just don't convince yourself of things so much.

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Lol yeah your right. I guess in a way I seen things how I wanted to see them..

For once onrpg has successfully help a person with girl troubles.

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Originally Posted by Domokun

For once onrpg has successfully help a person with girl troubles.

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