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10-30-2009, 04:00 PM
hotyman

Q_Q Shitty

I'm a sad boy.
After 11.5 months me and my gf broke up.

http://i671.photobucket.com/albums/v...d/100_4645.jpg
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Long story short-
There's always been shit with other guys,
lately there was the rumour that she had sex with another guy.. :'(
Which happened to be a guy she always lied about
hanging out speaking to knowing him etc etc.

First she said the story was the biggest BS, a time later she was like Ok, it all happened and I was in bra+boxers but he did not have sex with me.

So she said he abused her, tried to **** her etc.
but she didn't want to go to the police, nor could I do some shit to him.

Well I decided to forgive her and continue on the relationship,
and now there was this guy she allwayyss talked to, webcammed with, went to the movies with, hang out with,
now there came the rumour that she had her laptop in the bathroom, and didn't put cam on so he saw her shower etc.

So after a few fights we broke up.
I'm sad and I miss her, even though what happened.
What do I do?

(I know there'll be shitloads of cool story bro's but w/e)
10-30-2009, 04:06 PM
drawnzer54

Cool story bro.

But really, just get over her.
She's sleeping around (Apparently) and you don't deserve that, nobody does.
10-30-2009, 04:09 PM
Jammart

So much love drama here lately..
I'm the same way, I still want the person back despite what he had done, but it isn't going to happen and I just don't know what to do with myself.. so I empathize. I hope you find someone that is worth it and really cares for you :).
10-30-2009, 04:11 PM
V-Opolis

shes not faithful now, shell never be, cut the ties whatever way you can, shes not a good person for you to be in a relatiosnhip with if shes cheatin on you MULTIPLE times.

i woulda done the same. forgave her after the first time, but the second time is one to many bro. You gotta be linent and stern when it matters, and this is a stern moment. chose your battles.
10-30-2009, 04:12 PM
gratscorpio

Find out who is hitting it and double team then break up after calling her a *****

serious time

get the **** over it she was cheating on you tell her she a *****(the iceing on the it over for sure cake) and end it our right, you all ready gave her a second chance.

scorpio
10-30-2009, 04:13 PM
takkun88

Sounds just like this chick my friend hooked up with.

Used him for his money then left him for the next guy.
Lied about ****/abuse. Constant drug problem.

Yup, all women are bitches.
10-30-2009, 04:19 PM
H4wkeye

I know how you feel,but if she did it twice,she'll do it again bro.If it was any other problem,i'd tell you to let it cool and work things out but like this,i know its hard,but move on.Shes not worth your time.
10-30-2009, 04:27 PM
mazul

Quote:

Originally Posted by takkun88

Sounds just like this chick my friend hooked up with.

Used him for his money then left him for the next guy.
Lied about ****/abuse. Constant drug problem.

Yup, all women are bitches.

Meh, regardless of gender, both teenagers and young adults easily give in to pleasure. It takes a few years of mistakes before they finally start to mature, if ever.
10-30-2009, 04:29 PM
Orpheus

So, how old are you guys anyway?
10-30-2009, 04:31 PM
cinderboy

ditch her i guess, its only the right way.
10-30-2009, 04:58 PM
hotyman

Yeah I know everyone'll say "get over it"
but HOW?
10-30-2009, 06:25 PM
Oisterman

Sounds like it was always based on lies :(

Sorry man, mind over matter!
10-30-2009, 06:27 PM
H4wkeye

Quote:

Originally Posted by hotyman

Yeah I know everyone'll say "get over it"
but HOW?

They say time heals it all,but i say thats not totally true.I suggest you hang out with close friends as much as possible,watch tv,movies etc. keep yourself busy.It will take a while,everything will remind you of her,etc. but eventually you will go past it and find someone else.
10-30-2009, 07:58 PM
Oisterman

Quote:

Originally Posted by MageMoa

Doesn't help, you'll still feel lonely and you will keep that feeling until you meet someone else.

This is totally untrue for most people.

You should never become THAT dependent on someone...to the point where you need someone else to make you feel OK.
10-30-2009, 08:00 PM
MageMoa

Quote:

Originally Posted by Oisterboy

This is totally untrue for most people.

You should never become THAT dependent on someone...to the point where you need someone else to make you feel OK.

It's not really a fact of being dependent, I think. If you really love someone, you get attached to that person and ''moving on'' isn't really a way to fix something like this. There is no real way other than crying and eating tons of chocolate.
10-30-2009, 08:18 PM
SR-71

On to the next one, mate. She really sounded sloppy if it helps. But really don't dwell on it and keep takling to other girls.
10-30-2009, 08:30 PM
BadpcGuy

Wow you guys look alike kinda weird I would hate that. The stories she came up with is reason enough to doubt her.
10-31-2009, 01:12 AM
KidRobot

Quote:

Originally Posted by SR-71

On to the next one, mate. She really sounded sloppy if it helps. But really don't dwell on it and keep takling to other girls.

That. If she did this to you, it just shows that she didn't care all that much about you to begin with. If she started flirting with other guys, letting them see her naked while she showered, then I guess it's kind of not worth it. You can get other girls. Trust me. You're still young. I doubt you were going to get married with her. Keep strong, and don't give up.
10-31-2009, 01:29 AM
Kanaju

Quote:

Originally Posted by drawnzer54

Cool story bro.

But really, just get over her.
She's sleeping around (Apparently) and you don't deserve that, nobody does.

So much win, you deserve a rep.
10-31-2009, 02:06 AM
cinderboy

Quote:

Originally Posted by hotyman

Yeah I know everyone'll say "get over it"
but HOW?

hangout with other friends. or just remain alone. only 2 choices.
10-31-2009, 02:28 AM
Xynh

Lol why stick to a chick who's getting dicks..
rhymes ftw

Its obvious you should move on.
10-31-2009, 03:07 AM
Wicked315

I hate typing on a laptop!

But...this isn't what this is about.

Quite honestly, the best advice I can give you is: Get over it. Looks like she didn't even really like you anyways.

Judging by the pics, you aren't that old. (16?)

Your best bet is to just stay available, you'll find somebody.

Edit: How to get over it

1 ) Stay away from any memorable places.
2 ) Block your thoughts if you start thinking about the relationship, if you are lying down..quickly stand up.
3 ) Start looking again, a good way to get over it is to find another girl. Plain and simple.
4 ) Find something to do, go play with your friends. Baseball, basketball, video game sessions, anything. Have fun.
5 ) ...I...you could...always...go gay. :)
10-31-2009, 05:12 AM
TaikoxKashi

@Moa, im giving MY oersonal advice, im saying what i do to try and help, so i know that it may not do the same effect to everyone.
10-31-2009, 07:14 AM
cell59

SLUTTTTTTTTTT!....f her...move on...*****ez and shit but hoez and tricks!
10-31-2009, 07:29 AM
Tax

Quote:

Originally Posted by drawnzer54

Cool story bro.

OnRPG needs a blog section, seriously.

EMOTIONS WAH WAH WAH!

Find an new ***** to **** pl0x.
10-31-2009, 07:38 AM
Vesper

You two look related.
10-31-2009, 07:57 AM
Paladin Catling

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vesper

You two look related.

................
10-31-2009, 12:30 PM
hotyman

Quote:

Originally Posted by Oisterboy

This is totally untrue for most people.

You should never become THAT dependent on someone...to the point where you need someone else to make you feel OK.

*nananana*
I agree with Moa on that, I kinda do need someone else to feel okay,
I'm already missing the hugging, the kissing, the other stuff, having fun, just falling asleep next to a girl etc.

that makes me happy like nothing else does, I don't see that as dependant to a girl.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Wicked315

1 ) Stay away from any memorable places.
2 ) Block your thoughts if you start thinking about the relationship, if you are lying down..quickly stand up.
3 ) Start looking again, a good way to get over it is to find another girl. Plain and simple.
4 ) Find something to do, go play with your friends. Baseball, basketball, video game sessions, anything. Have fun.
5 ) ...I...you could...always...go gay. :)

yeah that's a great idea ;D (cept #5)
Thanks OnRPG, you're actually making me feel better ^^

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vesper

You two look related.

Oh seriously? I guess that's why we were together for 11.5 months, god >_>
that was the largest fail in trying to have a funny comment on a story like this, ever.
10-31-2009, 12:55 PM
Croix

Have sex with her friends. Crush her self esteem.

Impregnate her mother.
10-31-2009, 04:10 PM
Str1der

Quote:

Originally Posted by Croix

Have sex with her friends. Crush her self esteem.

Impregnate her mother.

Nah, you can still do better:

Impregnate her father.
10-31-2009, 05:40 PM
SR-71

Now there have been serious advances in medicine, that might be possible