with my girlfriend. She isnt to happy with me.
A.K.A- someone make me feel better because i feel like shit right now :(
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with my girlfriend. She isnt to happy with me.
A.K.A- someone make me feel better because i feel like shit right now :(
depends what you did.
Don't slip your thumb up her arsehole next time. Not unless she asks.
basically called her best friend gay (which i didnt mean to(its a long story lol) and he isnt really gay) and she got mad and doesn't want my appology etc. Also the kid is kindah a stalker to her. She has known him for 4-5 years and he has asked her out like 9+ times and a few days ago he told her that he still liked he like that after the other girl he was trying to get with turned him down etc.etc.etc.
ITT: High school drama.
YupQuote:
Originally Posted by TheSkald
I guesstimate that TS is about 14, at the oldest.
I'm gonna guess you insulted him out of insecurity.
Talk to her, tell her that you're not comfortable having someone so interested in a relationship with her, being that close to her.
If she thinks everything's okay, you need to get used to it and trust her.
If she agrees, problem solved.
If you don't want my advice..
*hug* :3 A'kay bye.
BTW im 18 Atomslap, but thanks for trying you can leave now.
And i didnt mean to insult him but then again it is a long story and i don't feel like typing for ever.
Usually putting in the effort to tell your side of the story allows for you to get suggestions that will make you feel better and fix the problem.Quote:
Originally Posted by airrazr7
However i'd suggest talking to her calmly about the whole thing aka what Elegence said.
Hey, I want a hug too elegance.
Wait it out.
Shes upset. Let her cool off for a little. Then in School tomorrow or the day after approach her and apologize...
If she still rejects it...then you can either take it as that and continue to let her cool off or try and get her to keep talking...because if you can have a conversation about it, she'll realize it isn't THAT big of a deal and accept your apology.
This guy sounds pathetic. Unfortunately, women love to keep around pathetic men who are in love with them so they can toy with them and make themselves feel better when they're down.
Just keep on apologizing and let her know that you're sorry and she'll eventually come around. I know its hell knowing that ur gf is angry at you, but I'm pretty sure she won't dump you for some stupid shit like this.
Just wait it out. Say sorry like you mean it.
Get down on your knees, hold her hand, start wheeping, and tell her -
I love you and I feel insecure when he's around you because he's known you for quite some time and has asked you out several times in the past. I love you, I did not want to hurt you and I did not want to hurt him in any way but sometimes it's just that I get jealous. I don't know what else to say and I really hope you understand, I don't want to be around him when I'm with you and I don't feel comfortable with you being around him whether I am there or not. I love you and I know he might have feelings for you too. I respect you and I respect him, however if he likes you, then obviously it's more than just a friend relationship that he has for you, whether you see him as a friend or not. I apologize whether you want to hear it or not, I love you and what means most to me is you love me too and I hope you know that.
After you tell her that, get up, give her the biggest hug you've ever given her, and start crying on her shoulders.
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Originally Posted by MrTingTing
Its that damn paradox
You either try and ignore it and
A: Sends the message you don't care even though you do
B: Sets you up to get cheated if you're blindly ignoring it
Or you feel jealous and
A: **** up by being an arse, because you snapped
B: You go ahead and try to make her jealous aswell, which never ends well and ends up qualifying as ****ing up too.
*shrugs*
OP; I'm not qualified to give you advices since my love life was always unstable as napalm.
Tell her to get back into the kitchen.
Just kidding.
Have her make you a sandwitch.
XD I know, I was just being a smart *** :PQuote:
Originally Posted by MoonSoul