Who ****ed Up?

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05-09-2010, 09:13 PM
blablabity

Who ****ed Up?
So, I just started dating a new girl. Yesterday we decided to go to the park and hang out together, and then go to her house. Well I went and we walked to her house. On the way there she wouldn't even let me near her, let alone hold her hand. I met her parents who were very nice. We get into her room and she tells me:
1. She doesn't believe in love.
2. She eventually gets rid of all of her friends.
3. I'm NOT her friend.
4. She doesn't like dating.
After an awkward silence I left (which was awkward because I had to go by her parents, who now probably think I am an ***) and called my friend and we hung out. Later that night I texted her asking what I did wrong. She cried about how I don't "understand" her. I told her that nobody understands her because she wouldn't let anybody get close. I also called her immature. We broke up of course. My other friend thinks I ****ed up, but I disagree. I could have been nicer but still...

Sorry for the shitty sob story, but I needed opinions.
05-09-2010, 09:14 PM
nawrasz

What the ****?

She didnt explain anything at all?

Obviously her fault, unless you did something dumb you forgot about =o
05-09-2010, 09:17 PM
RedWraithQueen

You didn't mess up. If anything, you dodged a bullet there.
If you don't "understand" her, and she's not into all that stuff, then don't go through with it.
05-09-2010, 09:33 PM
Sandman53

You are pretty well off. Any girl who is that emotionally wrecked isn't worth the time you would need to waste on her.
05-09-2010, 09:43 PM
Orpheus
Quote:
Originally Posted by blablabity

So, I just started dating a new girl.

She doesn't like dating.
I don't understand.
05-09-2010, 09:46 PM
blablabity

Quote:

Originally Posted by Orpheus

I don't understand.

Exactly my thoughts...
05-09-2010, 09:48 PM
Krivik

I don't think that you ****ed up.
05-09-2010, 09:48 PM
nawrasz

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sandman53

You are pretty well off. Any girl who is that emotionally wrecked isn't worth the time you would need to waste on her.

^

This is pretty much all the info you need.
05-09-2010, 09:48 PM
Neil

She probably just didn't like you and couldn't find a way to tell you.
05-09-2010, 09:52 PM
Orpheus

Quote:

Originally Posted by Murxidon

She probably just didn't like you and couldn't find a way to tell you.

So she decided to come up as some sort of emotional train wreck? :-/ Her plan, not so good.
05-09-2010, 09:56 PM
Neil

Quote:

Originally Posted by Orpheus

So she decided to come up as some sort of emotional train wreck? :-/ Her plan, not so good.

Sounds like something I would do to be honest.
05-09-2010, 10:00 PM
Oisterman

Some *****es be crazy.

Thats all you need to know. Be glad you got outta there when you did. If shes already playing these games with you, its destined to be a rocky road.

Run. Run like the wind.
05-09-2010, 10:23 PM
H4wkeye

It is obviously NOT your fault. It's her fault for being all *****y. That's why she doesn't get no love. If you don't want a partner, then don't seek one, not like find one and then be *****y like that. Also, she seems like a freaky lunatic, so you're better without her next to you.
05-09-2010, 10:37 PM
TaikoxKashi

*****es be crazy.

nuff said.
05-09-2010, 11:42 PM
V-Opolis
Quote:
Originally Posted by blablabity

So, I just started dating a new girl. Yesterday we decided to go to the park and hang out together, and then go to her house. Well I went and we walked to her house. On the way there she wouldn't even let me near her, let alone hold her hand. I met her parents who were very nice. We get into her room and she tells me:

She doesn't believe in love.
She eventually gets rid of all of her friends.
I'm NOT her friend.
She doesn't like dating.

After an awkward silence I left (which was awkward because I had to go by her parents, who now probably think I am an ***) and called my friend and we hung out. Later that night I texted her asking what I did wrong. She cried about how I don't "understand" her. I told her that nobody understands her because she wouldn't let anybody get close. I also called her immature. We broke up of course. My other friend thinks I ****ed up, but I disagree. I could have been nicer but still...

Sorry for the shitty sob story, but I needed opinions.
well considerin i dont have your entire side, it is her fault(from the info you gave). But you could have handled it better. it takes two to solve a problem. IF she doesnt feel you will listen then you havnt been as nice as you thought or she has a severe disorder she needs checked out. People are oblivious to themselves alot of the time. You may think you were bein nice but you could have come off as condescending or douchish.

but with throwing out the exaggerations people ALWAYS throw into situation to make themselves sound better, its not your fault.

and you guys come to conclusions way to damn fast, how do you know hes not leaving something out....
05-10-2010, 12:07 AM
blablabity

I really didn't leave anything out. Just earlier she texted me saying she was sorry, I said I was sorry, too.

Worst part? We have a class together... Awkward silences will ensue.
05-10-2010, 12:12 AM
BadpcGuy
Quote:
Originally Posted by blablabity

She doesn't believe in love.
She eventually gets rid of all of her friends.
I'm NOT her friend.
She doesn't like dating.
Translation no sex you did a great job breaking it off.
05-10-2010, 12:14 AM
Abhorsen

you were right. she sounds like a immature attention $%#@! who thinks the world revolves around her because beeing *posibly* spoiled by parrents lol

but thats just my opinion based on your post :p i dont know what else is going on so dont take me too serious and call her that lol
05-10-2010, 12:22 AM
Oisterman

Quote:

Originally Posted by blablabity

I really didn't leave anything out. Just earlier she texted me saying she was sorry, I said I was sorry, too.

Worst part? We have a class together... Awkward silences will ensue.

I hope SHE texted you first...you really had nothing to apologize for. But, it wasn't wrong to after she already had.

Anyway...maybe you could talk things out. I mean...I wouldn't bother...but if you were interested and feel its worth patching up, it sounds like maybe you could...I guess.
05-10-2010, 12:33 AM
MoonSoul

Enigma is the bread and butter of some women, and I guess she'll stay one for awhile, too.
05-10-2010, 12:54 AM
MarchoftheBlackLions

Sounds like she's a bit self-centered and wanting to stir up some "O, woe is me" drama.

Tell here that you're really a vampire.

That's what she was wanting to hear.
05-10-2010, 01:02 AM
Oisterman

Quote:

Originally Posted by MarchoftheBlackLions

Tell here that you're really a vampire.

$10 says he isn't sparkley enough to pull that off.
05-11-2010, 10:35 AM
Satio

She's obviously showing signs she wants to be emotionally stable, just at the moment shes probably going through that most teens go through. Maybe shes been hurt and shes built layers around herself and she didn't know how to express it to you, if you care about her just give it time and maybe you'll be able to peel the layers away. Try not to get attached though because you could end up hurting yourself and probably end up learning what it feels like to be her.