If there's one thing i've learned it's be there if they need you.
If not, then try to avoid them as much as possible.
You don't need to feel like you have to grieve over a stranger. It's not your fault you didn't have much of a chance to know him.
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If there's one thing i've learned it's be there if they need you.
If not, then try to avoid them as much as possible.
You don't need to feel like you have to grieve over a stranger. It's not your fault you didn't have much of a chance to know him.
Yeah, I just tend to "hide" during stuff like that.
That, or find my cousins. They generally don't care about much at all...so at least if the family has to be pissed at someone for not being sad enough, I look better by comparison XD
I know whatcha mean though. I'll often find my grandma crying about a relative that died who I see once every few years. Its a tough thing...I rarely even can match a name to a face. Just be supportive if people talk to ya. Thats the best you can do I think :)