This is probably the worse idea I ever had on the internet...

But I think turning to total strangers would be a nice help, since i'll get some thoughts and reactions I might not be expecting.

Well, I'll start. I never was a trouble child, always got good grades, no drugs and even alcohol, stayed away from vices and bad ways. But apparently I'm the worse son ever. I admit, I always had this fault that I lie about my grades and situation in school, one side not to worry people one side so i'm not bothered and pressured.

I lied and still lie because since 5 years old I was pressured to get good grades. I always had to get the top grade and generally I do/did. It all started in the 5th grade, when I had a 3 out of 5 on Maths. Terrified of my mother's reaction, of dissapointment and being grounded I lied about it and said I had a 4. I got dissapointment, a beating and got grounded - No video games for weeks. And it developed from there.

This year i'm repeating 12th grade because I want to take up Law instead of Computer related sciences. I also got a few things (called modules, essentialy a block of education rather than entire periods) to finish before I get my 12th grade diploma, around 7 or so possibly a couple more. There's a couple classes I "skip" because I do the shit I need at home and finish it up faster there, instead of putting up with immature 20 year old potheads in class and I work aswell and those classes get in the way of my job. And even though i'm my own responsible party and explained her my situation and she listened and said Alright! , my ******ed head teacher decided to mail home the classes I "skipped", and boom goes the dynamite.

I'm now apparently a lier, even though I explained things, a bum, i'm not wanted at home, "school? What school? You'll never even finish don't make me laugh you'll never get to college. Get a low paying job you bum you'll never get anything better than that!" - My own mother's words. Oh and ever since I got a stable girlfriend everything got worse. She's apparently a cancer, a ****, etc etc. And instead of going to school I spend my days in her apartment, with her mother, ****ing her brains out /irony

So now i'm expecting the boot anytime now, possibly next week, I really don't mind moving out I really REALLY want that rather than being appreciated as garbage, I don't mind working a few more hours and study at the same time, i already do anyway, and pay for my own room. Problem is everything is so expensive, i'm not even in college yet... I'll need a 500 euro income evey month to make it on my own. I've got my own funds, my own money and quite a large sum of it but i'm saving it for college... I really don't want to dip into it.

I know some of you onrpgers moved out young, tl:dr I'm looking for your advices. I've got some shit, a laptop, money of my own, guitars, clothes, games and console, that sort of crap and i'm responsible and independent. Oh and i'm not exactly happy at home either, no not at all.

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Originally Posted by Darc

But I think turning to total strangers would be a nice help, since i'll get some thoughts and reactions I might not be expecting.

Well, I'll start. I never was a trouble child, always got good grades, no drugs and even alcohol, stayed away from vices and bad ways. But apparently I'm the worse son ever. I admit, I always had this fault that I lie about my grades and situation in school, one side not to worry people one side so i'm not bothered and pressured.

I lied and still lie because since 5 years old I was pressured to get good grades. I always had to get the top grade and generally I do/did. It all started in the 5th grade, when I had a 3 out of 5 on Maths. Terrified of my mother's reaction, of dissapointment and being grounded I lied about it and said I had a 4. I got dissapointment, a beating and got grounded - No video games for weeks. And it developed from there.

This year i'm repeating 12th grade because I want to take up Law instead of Computer related sciences. I also got a few things (called modules, essentialy a block of education rather than entire periods) to finish before I get my 12th grade diploma, around 7 or so possibly a couple more. There's a couple classes I "skip" because I do the shit I need at home and finish it up faster there, instead of putting up with immature 20 year old potheads in class and I work aswell and those classes get in the way of my job. And even though i'm my own responsible party and explained her my situation and she listened and said Alright! , my ******ed head teacher decided to mail home the classes I "skipped", and boom goes the dynamite.

I'm now apparently a lier, even though I explained things, a bum, i'm not wanted at home, "school? What school? You'll never even finish don't make me laugh you'll never get to college. Get a low paying job you bum you'll never get anything better than that!" - My own mother's words. Oh and ever since I got a stable girlfriend everything got worse. She's apparently a cancer, a ****, etc etc. And instead of going to school I spend my days in her apartment, with her mother, ****ing her brains out /irony

So now i'm expecting the boot anytime now, possibly next week, I really don't mind moving out I really REALLY want that rather than being appreciated as garbage, I don't mind working a few more hours and study at the same time, i already do anyway, and pay for my own room. Problem is everything is so expensive, i'm not even in college yet... I'll need a 500 euro income evey month to make it on my own. I've got my own funds, my own money and quite a large sum of it but i'm saving it for college... I really don't want to dip into it.

I know some of you onrpgers moved out young, tl:dr I'm looking for your advices. I've got some shit, a laptop, money of my own, guitars, clothes, games and console, that sort of crap and i'm responsible and independent. Oh and i'm not exactly happy at home either, no not at all.

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Moving out in america, is pretty easy for most. You can even do it on minimum wage if you work full time. College helps though, because eventually your tuition and loans can basically just pay off your living expenses, like rent since its a determined factor in attendance.

But ive been living on my own for awhile now, i moved in with my girlfriend to make things easier (and now shes preggo :l). My bro owns a car lot and I have a nice car aswell thanks to inhouse finacing. so yes it isn't all that bad.

You should take it 1 step at a time though, if u can get a full time job, and find a nice studio apartment (the cheapest) then it will be all good. You can just pay rent at your gfs house, and save up for you own place in the mean time.

Just make sure that shits not haunted though. **** haunted apartments.

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Originally Posted by Oisterboy

Get a job and do it to it man. Thats really the only thing you can do.

Do it quick, being homeless blows. I spent some time homeless when I was younger and unless you're traveling around its not very fun.

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I do have a job, even though it's 3 hours a day it helps pays the bills home. Yes that's right, I spend about 120ish euros a month on bills and i'm not even appreciated. I just get "Oh it's 3 hours! Boo hoooo!". I'm not complaining, I actually enjoy working it's good feeling my own clutch and man. I wish I had more time to do a more well paid job, i'm even considering doing 6-10 PM everyday.

Moving out, i've been looking around for a decent room, even shared, with bills and expenses it costs 200 euros a month, plus living expenses, food etc... I'd do full time but I don't want to quit studying, I love studying, I know it sounds lame but...

If I was you...

I'd get more hours and try to move out.

I'd rather move out than have someone say shit about me.

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Originally Posted by Darc

Moving out, i've been looking around for a decent room, even shared, with bills and expenses it costs 200 euros a month, plus living expenses, food etc... I'd do full time but I don't want to quit studying, I love studying, I know it sounds lame but...

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Full time isnt that bad bro, here you can only work a max of like 40 hours ish. If u worked full time, u could do like a 10 am to closing time schedule (10 - 9) that means u'll clock all ur hours in 3~ days and have 4 days to do what ever u want.

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Originally Posted by TreyTrey12

Full time isnt that bad bro, here you can only work a max of like 40 hours ish. If u worked full time, u could do like a 10 am to closing time schedule (10 - 9) that means u'll clock all ur hours in 3~ days and have 4 days to do what ever u want.

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Problem is we can't do that here, it's 9 to 5 from Monday to Friday. Period. That means no time for school and studying at night is god awful, it messes up your average and everything. 6 to 10 pm means about 350 € a month so that's pretty good. I'm looking into that.

Man Im so glad my mother is nice, I honestly feel bad for you... What kind of mother degrades their son like that over school related stuff...

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Originally Posted by jaydude

Man Im so glad my mother is nice, I honestly feel bad for you... What kind of mother degrades their son like that over school related stuff...

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Truth be told, I don't think she ever liked me very much. I've always been the black sheep, the son she didn't want from the man she hates. I'm just like a puppy, very cute when I was small and blonde, kinda nice when I was baby faced and easy to control, keep in line and easy to make me cry but now i'm all grown up i'm just a nuissance.

Want to know a fun fact? I'm an excelent cook, I enjoy cooking too and i'm not even allowed to fry an egg. I take from that fears i'm getting too independent rofl.

Bro, I read this briefly.

So forgive me, I can't give you advice on moving out, but I can tell you this... confront her.

Don't be afraid of her, just tell her... "What did I even do to you?" she wants to treat you badly? Don't worry then. Just get at her. Ask her what her problem is... do whatever, get her to admit she dislikes you for no reason, and tell her shes an idiot for hating on her own flesh and blood. ;/ All I can say.

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Originally Posted by Darc

Truth be told, I don't think she ever liked me very much. I've always been the black sheep, the son she didn't want from the man she hates. I'm just like a puppy, very cute when I was small and blonde, kinda nice when I was baby faced and easy to control, keep in line and easy to make me cry but now i'm all grown up i'm just a nuissance.

Want to know a fun fact? I'm an excelent cook, I enjoy cooking too and i'm not even allowed to fry an egg. I take from that fears i'm getting too independent rofl.

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