well, congrats on being together for 2 years :]
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well, congrats on being together for 2 years :]
wheres my 40gb of hentai :(
and yea congrats lady you are very sweet
At first I was like "awww, this is sweet, lucky guy"
then I read the porn part and just found myself laughing to much to finish reading.
Then I was able to read the rest, and lost it again at the eroges.
Anyways, serious note back to your question regarding emotional and mental age. The first thing you have to ask yourself is are you happy with him?
My sister was in a similar situation, her previous boyfriend was mentally and emotionally inferior to her in every possible way. She was with him for 8 years, but when she finally ended after she found out he had begun cheating on her she realized how much she hated those 8 years. He was so bad she honestly had to dumb down her speech when talking to him because he always took anything he did not understand right away as a personal attack. She always felt she could never have an adult conversation with him because he would not understand it, and 9/10 times she was right.
I will certainly say that no, you are not wrong for worrying about it, as it's is a very valid concern in relationship.
Congratulations! My gf and I passed the 3 year mark a few days ago, actually. How long have you two been long distance?
Nice! congratulations you too.
On a side note..
40 gigs of porn?! As Yoda would say "Main arm strong in one , yes"
http://sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net/hphoto...23543100_n.jpg
Lol no he will probably never mature to your level. At least I can say so anecdotally in every similar situation I've seen in my nearly 23 years on this earth.
Oh i'm very happy. Don't get me wrong, he's very intelligent. Just that when it comes to relationships he's not in the same phase as me mentally and emotionally... well thats how i feel xDQuote:
Originally Posted by Akeras
We've been long distance after being together for 3-4 months. He'd be gone for 6-7 months, come home to me for a couple of weeks like 2-3 weeks then he's off again to a military base.Quote:
Originally Posted by Xenonight2
40gb of porn is not that much :)) and yes i did get him eroges, i got him 3 actually. Sono Habira 6 and 8 and Tomoyo After its a wonderful life was it? dun remember heh XD
Should have just sent him some condoms. ;D
I kid. He's not cheating.
actually, i did send him some along with a c0ckring when i sent him a fleshlight.Quote:
Originally Posted by .c64
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Originally Posted by Mary Herrin
http://i.imgur.com/QrscZ.gif Oh my goodness.. oh my damn
Sounds like the time apart is making you question/doubt things in your relationship(it happens), however any of your doubts/worries/thoughts matter as long as you are both happy when you are together.
Congratulations on your milestone!
You really sure about the porn thing? Hahaha. But great gifts to give nonetheless. More power to you 2. :3
You need to talk to him about it. He's the one you're concerned about so it should be him that you discuss it with. Regardless of whether or not he's mature enough to handle the conversation, you'll have your answer because of it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mary Herrin
I honestly don't know anything about the guy or what you're looking for exactly from him, but there's no way he's going to know what you want if unless you talk to him about it, instead of just kinda expecting it from him based on how many times the world has spun around since he's been alive.
That is a nice idea!
Seriously though, dont go with the pillow bullshit, I think it's scary as hell :PQuote:
Originally Posted by Mary Herrin
As for the problem you're facing whether or not you think you two are meant for each other. I have seen you saying that you can barely have a good talk with him when you want to because hes either too busy or hes out drinking with his friends. And because you are both far away from each other, you should really consider whether or not you are the person that want to spend the rest of your life in this kind of relationship. You also said that you are not sure if you are selfish, and you aren't at all. Im not a relationship guru, heck I dont even have a girlfriend at all, but if i'd had one and I was in the Marines, you bet your *** that I was going to visit her as much as possible, and talk to her as much as possible. I'm not saying that I wouldn't go out drinking and what not like him, but I would atleast spend some time with the girl if I had the free time anyway, sure drinking is fun, but if you're in a relationship youre committed to something, and if you think the same as me, then you should have a serious talk with him because that feeling will only get worse and worse. Going in the Marines is a big step, but being the girlfriend/wive of one is even bigger, I'm not sure what people advise in your country, but I was thinking of joining them in Holland, and I always got advised not to get a girlfriend because well, they either drag you down, or you miss out on all the good stuff. Not to scare you but yeah, I think that you should definitely consider whether or not you like the current relationship and you can bare with it for atleast 5-10 more years. But since you have these feelings anyway whether or not you think you're selfish, a good talk will never hurt with your boyfriend doesnt it ;)
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