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Ok so i just told the girl i liked for 3years that i liked her.. It's so fcking nerve racking.. So is there any advice on how she would feel inside? Oh btw there is another guy chasing her too but he told her like last year.. So any idea on how she would react?
She should have already reacted.
Uh i meant deep inside.. Anyways i just found out she hated the guy and the guy didn't chase her nymore O.O
um, okay.... -_-
No way to honestly tell how she feels inside until she tells you. If you told her that you liked her and she didn't react to you in any way, then it usually means A) Bad News b) Confusion. Now you have to wait to see how she feels or pry a bit to see how she feels which can be doomsday if too forward.
Really depends on what type of person she is... if you were really close to her then she might feel understandable and will approach it in a positive way... if you didn't know her that well as a friend, then expect the opposite approach also just hope she doesn't try to avoid you for a very long time.
And replicant is right.... she should have reacted. Were there any signs of her reaction when you told her?
woo go sashimi!
anyways she might feel shocked, awkward and confused. it really depends. u should wait a few more days and see what happens when u approach her. if nothing negative happens, talk to her more so ur relationship will grow stronger. XD
She told me that i was her favourite GUY friend.. so ya..
Aslong as you're not too ugly, i'd say you have a chance.
Then you should be alright and you have a chance. But don't give her a lot of pressure, just give her time to think about it and later on in the week or so, go for it. Thats if you're ready for that too. :pQuote:
Originally Posted by Sashimi
Well, on the positive side at least she didn't say you were like a "Brother" to her. That's the kiss of death. She also didn't straight up turn you down, so there is a glimmer of hope. However, I'd sorta play it quiet a day or two and just be social with her in hopes that she would elaborate more to you how she feels. Then I'd start asking questions, so that you don't string yourself out on a girl who simply wants to be friends.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sashimi
If all else fails, just show her your penis. That should get a reaction. (j/k)XD
Hey that worked for me!...XD Anyways, THat's just like my problem...5 years we've been close friends, then when I told her if I can court her, she said.."I don't want to lose a good friend..." ...thats ouchQuote:
Originally Posted by replicant
I don't see her nymore since we slipted up last year.. But i told her on msn. So.. mayb some day we could go out with our other friends :P
Did you tell her via voice, webcam, or text?Quote:
Originally Posted by Sashimi
tell her you are anxious to start a family, that wil get the answer out of her :D
lmaoo gud one. anyways he got a good start so thats cool.Quote:
Originally Posted by replicant
btw the friend thing reminds me of ouran high school lol. ah shattered.
In other words you're too late, or she doesn't think anything more of you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sashimi
Accept it and move on.
Despite what many of these people think, you can't always make a girl like you. Acting sincere, being nice, or being funny, doesn't always work.
truth.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ueio
plus, you told her on msn:-/ unless you and her are like 14 or 15 or something like that then aint nuthin gon happen.
i'll go with /b/Quote:
Originally Posted by replicant
well don't pressure her too fast for a answer...Quote:
Originally Posted by Sashimi
>.> i told her via text.
Lol, in text, why worry ?
If she didn't want to be with you ( in any way/means ), just say that text was made by your siblings.. not you yourself..
But if you told her in-person.. good luck.
Just text her lots of emoticons.
Like, "Hey, baby. (^'-'^) (^'-')><('-'^) (>'-')b ^_^;; (^_^) (m_ _)m >_> :p :3 :hmm:".
If she doesn't admit to liking you after that, I don't think there's anything else you can do.
Hard to gauge a reaction via text. Might be good to give her a call sometime just to see how she is. If she hasn't seen you in awhile and this came out of left field, then she probably needs some time to think it over or decide if you're joking. Good luck either way it goes.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sashimi
Quite the truth, in today's society.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ramstien
This is a quote from the philosopher Nietzsche;
Women are quite capable of entering into a friendship with a man, but to keep it going that takes a little physical antipathy as well...
Not saying i agree or disagree but i do think that slight physical antipathy must probably help to preserve a friendship between a man and woman. By friendship i mean friends and nothing else.