Parents, Divorce, Fighting.

Alright it's been one year since my parents divorced. My dad cheated on my mom they divorced then as soon as they divorced he brings back his fcking immagrant GF to our house. Ever since she started living with us things have been going down hill. Mom threatning to bring my dad to court dad calling my mom all these things.

I don't know if I should take anyones side or if I should take one side. Dad is starting to be an assh0le all he does is annoy me. Mom just spends money with us but I don't know if she's doing it to buy our trust. So yea I'm done waiting for me to find an answer.

When that happened to my parents when ever I went to get water I would tell them to shut up :|

Go with your mom O_o

My dad cheated on my mom four different times and they're still together. (My mom found out about all of them at the same time.)

It seems to me that people think that just because it is socially acceptable to divorce immediately after finding out about the other's unfaithfulness they should leave. Divorce, as much as it is necessary at times, shouldn't be the first thing that comes to mind when you find out about infidelity- ahh, this is a rant for another time.

God be with you man, parents fighting is Hell, and so is divorce.

Anyway, my advice is to not take sides, but simply go with the one you think would take care of you the best. Also, tell your mom you don't need to spend that money on you, and that you love her anyway... That is, assuming that you do love her.

My parents are always arguing and almost divorced last week,so all I can say to you is good luck and I hope everything goes smoothly for you.

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Originally Posted by shadowsun50

My parents are always arguing and almost divorced last week,so all I can say to you is good luck and I hope everything goes smoothly for you.

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Wow.....sounds like you live in my house.....it sucks....and happens quite frequently....

It's been a really long time for me. How old are you? If you feel you can keep a neutral side of the argument, and its something really severe, I would try to help moderate. I would NOW anyway...they did it when I was 7, so, I can't even remember all the details. Its a tough ride...people with both parents don't know how tough it is, ya know?

What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.

Keep your head up.

my parents are divorced mom has been married 3 times dad 3 and they already have boyfriends and girlfriends and theyve been divorced for about 3 months? lol but my sister cuts herself i have back pains mom is an alcholic dad "was" abusive our family is just alittle messed up lol so were getting through it though i guess

My parents divorced too. I lived with my mom. I occasionally see my dad but he's remarried now.

Wait your telling me that they still live together? Do what's on your best judgement or don't take a side at all. There your parents be grateful you don't have to take the positions