Im ****ing Sick of this.

[OhMawGawd]

Ok im 14 and this is probably my last post in this forums forever.

My parents are way to overprotective...

Now time to let it out.

Im ****ing sick of this, i dont like being here playing freakin videogames, im wasting my fuking life in front of a box, i wanna hang out with my friends like everyone else but i cant because of my overprotective parents.

My mom wont let me go to my friends house that is 3 houses away from mine, i asked her if i could go today because i really wanna play with someone, i hate playing by myself and she said: No but you can go outside and walk" I asked why? And she said: Is Not hanging With Friends Time"

WTF

Seriously. My dad is awesome, he is kinda strict, but in a good way. But my mom...

She drives me to my bus stop so i can ake my bus to go to the school (im 14) and SHE STAYS THERE IN THE BUS STOP WITH HER CAR, LOOKING AT ME TO SEE IF I GET ON THE BUS ALIVE.

I asked her: Why do you wait on the bus stop till i get on, and she said: In case you miss the bus, and i told her, i can just call you. So everyday single day she just stays there looking at me till i get on the bus... It makes me mad how so overprotective she is...

I CAN go out with friends, but i have to tell my mom like 5 days before, and lukily she says Yes.

I CANT go to my friends house, they can only come to mine, its ****ed up. Ive only been able to go to my other friends house like 2 times since ive been in Canada: 3 years

She dosnt let me go to the mall everyday (the mall is right in front of my school), but i go anyways, Because she thinks my friends are gonna put drugs on my pockets and get me in trouble, ive known my friends for 3 FREAKIN YHEARS....

She thinks all my friends are drugaddicts, thiefs, gangs, killers, etc... She pisses me off like ****.

She always wants me to bring all my books home even when i dont have a test, ALL MY BOOKS, and makes me study or do useless homework i dont have to do, She prints everything from the schools internet site and puts it on my binder for extra weight, wtf, in the end, my back hurts even more.

When i dont bring a book to my house, or i dont bring a binder i dont need she ****ing screams at me and gets pissed just because i didnt bring a goddam book, what the heck, i cannot handle this shit.

Also, I CANT USE MY GODDAM COMPUTER ON WEEKDAYS, SHE SAYS I HAVE TO STUDY SO I CANT USE MY ****ING COMPUTER WHICH IS MINE, Right now im sneakin on my PC while she is not looking but ***** IT IS MY PC I HAVE THE RIGHT TO USE IT WHENEVER I WANT BUT SHE WONT LET ME,

I NEED A SOCIAL LIFE, I NEED TO GO OUT WITH MY FRIENDS, SERIOUSLY IM ****ING SICK OF THIS

I'm going out with my friend this saturday to the sushi place, and a miracle happened and she said yes... But ***** i cant go to my friends house like everyweek, i only go like twice a month, i wanna go there and have fun whenever i can, i know sometimes i cant go beasue of test and stuff, but... Im sick of sitting here, freakin wasting my life on a PC and a Videogame that dosnt help me in any way....

I hope someone in this forums help me, or i will get ****ing flamed but, i dont ****ing care, this has been a bad fuking day

How do i make my mom know im not a little kid anymore, im ****ing 14, please help me... I cannot handle this anymore


PS: Dont get me wrong, i love my mom ALOT, but she pisses me off way too much..

[Bryan]

I always laugh when people post stuff like this, you have the balls to say it to us, a bunch of lousy cheap gamers/spammers, but not your own parents?

Show her this post, or at least confront her with how you feel, you're becoming a man. It's time to act like one.

[Civil]

I think you should sit down and try to talk with her. There is such thing as parents helping you, but this is rediculous.

[V-Opolis]

what grade is 14?

tell her maybe? no better way than to tell her and walk off, scare her so she will compromise, worked for me before.

[Abubakr]

what grade is 14?

tell her maybe? no better way than to tell her and walk off, scare her so she will compromise, worked for me before.

I'm 14 and I'm in Grade 9, so he's probably around there.

[Cereal&Milk]

I always laugh when people post stuff like this, you have the balls to say it to us, a bunch of lousy cheap gamers/spammers, but not your own parents?

Show her this post, or at least confront her with how you feel, you're becoming a man. It's time to act like one.

What he said.

How hard is it to ask your mother if she can release some of the safety locks?

[V-Opolis]

I'm 14 and I'm in Grade 9, so he's probably around there.

hmm, well my parents didnt let me do much til i could drive, then i went APE SHIT on everything(not destroying or anything).

[OhMawGawd]

Im scared to talk to her... Dunno why.

And most likely she will get uber mad at me saying stuff like "OH SO U DONT NEED ME ANYMORE???!!!


Im thinking of talking to my dad tho

[SimplyLuck]

I died when I read this.

Tell your mom. If she doesn't accept then just leave? Prove to her that you can handle yourself.

[Cereal&Milk]

Im scared to talk to her... Dunno why.

And most likely she will get uber mad at me saying stuff like "OH SO U DONT NEED ME ANYMORE???!!!


Im thinking of talking to my dad tho

She probably loves you considerably.

She won't stop loving you if you ask her to let you do things on your own.

Just tell her that she has to realize that you need to experience independence.

You just have to maintain yourself, or expect the parental control to come down even harder.

[OhMawGawd]

Tried a small talk right now, i told her i wanted to go hang out with my friends and she ****ing said:

"You dont have friends to hang with"

My dad told her to leave me alone afterwards...
....

This pisses me off.

I HAVE FRIENDS F*CK

IS JUST THAT YOU DONT LET ME HANG OUT WITH THEM


I wanna tell her that but i cant..

[Arri]

Im scared to talk to her... Dunno why.

And most likely she will get uber mad at me saying stuff like "OH SO U DONT NEED ME ANYMORE???!!!


Im thinking of talking to my dad tho

sometimes, it's best to tell the truth, even when you think it'll be worse than lieing.


Talk to your mom, if she gets all pissy like "OMG U DONT NEED ME ANYMORE SO GTFO" tell her that she's overreacting, tell her that a 14 year old like you NEEDS to be able to hang out with friends REGULARLY, not just once every 2 months. Tell her the world isn't full of gangsters, murderers, rapists, etc around every cornor, that people can actually be nice. Ask about what she did when she was a kid, if her parents were as strict as she is, or if they let her go out with friends. If there was something in her life thats causing her to be like this, talk to her about that, you need to understand her and she needs to understand you so you can continue to live happily.

And no, don't talk to her with a demanding tone, don't make threats, don't curse her out, don't yell, just tell her calmly that you need a -little- more freedom, and continue talking with a calm tone. You don't need to yell or anything.

Same with your dad.


If they ground you or whatever, just hope they think things over. It may seem bad right then and there, but in the long run hopefully it works out.

[Ne0n]

I live with my Step mom and shes a *****.

[Ronin]

Lol, I walked to school, since I was 5, on my own.

No comment on how I turned out, but I am alive.

Parents these days...

[Cereal&Milk]

Tried a small talk right now, i told her i wanted to go hang out with my friends and she ****ing said:

"You dont have friends to hang with"

My dad told her to leave me alone afterwards...
....

This pisses me off.

I HAVE FRIENDS F*CK

IS JUST THAT YOU DONT LET ME HANG OUT WITH THEM


I wanna tell her that but i cant..

Tell her.

Just don't do it in such a harsh way.

@Ronin, Lol, started when I was 8. My parents had nothing better to do but drop me off up until that point.

lol

[OhMawGawd]

sometimes, it's best to tell the truth, even when you think it'll be worse than lieing.


Talk to your mom, if she gets all pissy like "OMG U DONT NEED ME ANYMORE SO GTFO" tell her that she's overreacting, tell her that a 14 year old like you NEEDS to be able to hang out with friends REGULARLY, not just once every 2 months. Tell her the world isn't full of gangsters, murderers, rapists, etc around every cornor, that people can actually be nice. Ask about what she did when she was a kid, if her parents were as strict as she is, or if they let her go out with friends. If there was something in her life thats causing her to be like this, talk to her about that, you need to understand her and she needs to understand you so you can continue to live happily.

And no, don't talk to her with a demanding tone, don't make threats, don't curse her out, don't yell, just tell her calmly that you need a -little- more freedom, and continue talking with a calm tone. You don't need to yell or anything.

Same with your dad.


If they ground you or whatever, just hope they think things over. It may seem bad right then and there, but in the long run hopefully it works out.

I wanna try this, but something on my head is telling me not to...

[Gath]

Just tell her that you want to be able to do it more. Explain it to her and try and convince her that your okay on your own. She doesn't want to hurt you she just cares for you a lot.

[Ne0n]

Lol, I walked to school, since I was 5, on my own.

No comment on how I turned out, but I am alive.

Parents these days...

OMG me too. ^___^

[hian]

Your mother sounds like she suffers from paranoid delusions. You should bring put a hammer to her head before she kills you in your sleep to protect you from a new day filled with dangers.

Just in case, you should jam all the exits from your house/appartment from the outside and put it to the torch. Remember to bring out any valuables before proceeding with this.

[Oisterman]

Hey dude, its times like these you've gotta keep your head on straight.

I know you feel like going off on her, but just try to talk with her. If your lucky, shes not mentally ****ing insane like my mother, and can listen to more than 3 words without screaming at you. MAYBE you can even get your point across in one talking session.

Try to keep everything down. If she starts yelling at you, talk in a normal tone and remain calm. I know its hard.

But shit like this has to be expressed. Maybe she doesn't even know you feel this way. Talk it over with her. I've had friends with the same problem, then they told their parents about it. Their parents blew up on them ASAP, but after thinking for a bit they were allowed to do normal kid stuff.

Its all part of growing up man. Just don't fist fight with her.

[Arri]

I wanna try this, but something on my head is telling me not to...

it's called doubt. Sometimes its right, and sometimes its wrong.

you can keep thinking "omg I want more freedom omg my mom is too strict omg omg omg" and keep worrying about it because you don't want to tell her, or tell her.

[raikun09]

some people's mom and dad are dead or they are alive and dont give a **** about them



be greatful

[Vesper]

Huh? Have a blast, we'll see you back in a week or two.

[power_gamer_6]

Dude, you're 14. You ARE still a kid. Your social life would be virtually nonexistant at that age anyway.