isnt there clubs where they hang out ??
in the chinese community , those people would gather and play chess , sing , go on trips together , do taichi , sword dance and all sorts of slowmode kungfu . . . (if u go to chinese malls very early , u can see em exercising often (Toronto))

but back to ur idea . . .
a mmo that require strategies and skills , hmm . . .

the only English Game i can think of is Ace Online atm
if ur pap knows japanese , Fantasy Earth Zero would be another choice