Is there any way to fall OUT of love?

**Deselin** · 10-30-2008, 02:23 AM

I have two best friends who just broke up with their girlfriends to go out with two other girls. I'm friends with both of their ex-girlfriends, and both of them still love my best friends. They feel like shit, that they still have feelings for their ex-boyfriends, but they can't stop loving them. They want to fall OUT of love.

Now, I've sat here thinking as hard as I could, and I can't come up with a way to do it. Does OnRPG have any ideas?

Also, this is genuine love as far as I'm concerned, not just high school fling bullshit.

**power_gamer_6** · 10-30-2008, 02:24 AM

Much as there is no way to fall IN love, there isn't really any way to fall OUT of love.
It MAY just come with time, if the person is willing to let go.

**Domokun** · 10-30-2008, 02:26 AM

Have them go about their day or take them somewhere fun so they can take it out their mind.

**Deselin** · 10-30-2008, 02:26 AM

Originally Posted by power_gamer_6

It MAY just come with time, if the person is willing to let go.

That's the only way I can think of, but they want it to be now, or else they're threatening suicide.

Fun. >_>

**Greed** · 10-30-2008, 02:28 AM

Man, they whine too much.

**Cereal&Milk** · 10-30-2008, 02:29 AM

Tell them to either shut the **** up and wait, or go find someone that actually likes them to fall in love with.

**TheJIVE** · 10-30-2008, 02:29 AM

Lots of booze, cigarettes, X, raves, clubbing and..

You can just go

V-Opolis · 10-30-2008, 02:30 AM

the most powerful remedy is....

TIME

**Deselin** · 10-30-2008, 02:30 AM

Wow, nice suggestions guys. Next time I feel the need to ask, I'll just tell them to go kill themselves.

**TheJIVE** · 10-30-2008, 02:32 AM

Just take them out to a nice club, order them some light drinks until they've eased up and bring out the mother****ing hypnotiq, redbull, ketamine shit.

And then when they wake up, their boyfriends should be the least of their worries.

**Vesper** · 10-30-2008, 02:32 AM

Love is like a trap, you can fall in it or you can climb out.

**Deselin** · 10-30-2008, 02:32 AM

Originally Posted by TheJIVE

Just take them out to a nice club, order them some light drinks until they've eased up and bring out the mother****ing hypnotiq, redbull, ketamine shit.

And then when they wake up, their boyfriends should be the least of their worries.

Because I could totally go to a bar.

And rubbing salt in the wound wouldn't make anything better, dipshit.

**TheJIVE** · 10-30-2008, 02:35 AM

Originally Posted by Deselin

And rubbing salt in the wound wouldn't make anything better, dipshit.

No, but it would clean it.

**Deselin** · 10-30-2008, 02:37 AM

Originally Posted by TheJIVE

No, but it would clean it.

I'm not going to make things worse. That's not my nature, and I could never imagine doing something like that to people I care about. If that's how you treat your friends, that's your business, but I'm asking for a solution to a problem here, not a complication.

**Norrin Radd** · 10-30-2008, 02:38 AM

No, there's no way you can make yourself fall out of love.

No matter what kind of shit happens, if it's there...it's there. Trust me.

**Xynh** · 10-30-2008, 02:39 AM

Tell them to think logically.
Why love a dude that doesn't love you?

If that doesn't work, go in depth with it.
And if they choose to backfire every single advice you try to give them, then they're just bullshitting and its just lust.

**Norrin Radd** · 10-30-2008, 02:41 AM

Originally Posted by Xynh

Tell them to think logically.
Why love a dude that doesn't love you?

If that doesn't work, go in depth with it.
And if they choose to backfire every single advice you try to give them, then they're just bullshitting and its just lust.

Logic actually ****s off out the window when love is involved.

**TheJIVE** · 10-30-2008, 02:42 AM

Originally Posted by Norrin Radd

Logic actually ****s off out the window when love is involved.

I usually **** off out the window when I see something I could love too.

**Deselin** · 10-30-2008, 02:43 AM

Originally Posted by Xynh

Tell them to think logically.
Why love a dude that doesn't love you?

If that doesn't work, go in depth with it.
And if they choose to backfire every single advice you try to give them, then they're just bullshitting and its just lust.

Look, I'm not saying it is love or not. That's not my jurisdiction and it's not what I'm trying to find out. Even if it is lust, they're still only high school girls, they don't know what love is, and they're tricking themselves into liking these guys.

Yeah, their exes treat them like shit, but they can't let go, that's their problem.

EDIT: @Norrin: Yeah, I agree.

**hksmrchan** · 10-30-2008, 03:05 AM

Falling out a hole lol

**Cereal&Milk** · 10-30-2008, 03:23 AM

Originally Posted by Deselin

Wow, nice suggestions guys. Next time I feel the need to ask, I'll just tell them to go kill themselves.

Might as well. If she doesn't understand how to wait it out, then she's an imbecile. If she threatens to kill herself for it, she's probably better off dead because she's treating life like crap.

There are 6 billion people in the world. I'm sure she could find someone else to care about. Building your whole life around someone that's not dedicated to you is the dumbest thing you could possibly do. If she can't comprehend that, then it would be best to let her fend for herself.

If anything, you tried your best. It's just that your best wasn't good enough.

Originally Posted by TheJIVE

Just take them out to a nice club, order them some light drinks until they've eased up and bring out the mother****ing hypnotiq, redbull, ketamine shit.

And then when they wake up, their boyfriends should be the least of their worries.

What? And make her an alcoholic? That only trains you to get drunk every time a bump in the road occurs.

**Raiyne** · 10-30-2008, 05:24 AM

Get married.

**rambler** · 10-30-2008, 05:35 AM

maybe you can make them fall in love with you.they probly want you anyways.

**Ronin** · 10-30-2008, 05:46 AM

Originally Posted by rambler

maybe you can make them fall in love with you.they probly want you anyways.

He either already thought of that or he ain't enough a stud for it;
That makes this kind of advice kinda unnecessary.

@topic:
It's feelings for a reason, if we could just turn it on and of, it wouldn't be working out.

**Jacksterson** · 10-30-2008, 05:46 AM

Originally Posted by Deselin

I have two best friends who just broke up with their girlfriends to go out with two other girls. I'm friends with both of their ex-girlfriends, and both of them still love my best friends. They feel like shit, that they still have feelings for their ex-boyfriends, but they can't stop loving them. They want to fall OUT of love.

Now, I've sat here thinking as hard as I could, and I can't come up with a way to do it. Does OnRPG have any ideas?

Also, this is genuine love as far as I'm concerned, not just high school fling bullshit.

This is something that I've tried to do myself... after years... I mean it, years.

I thought and the only thing I could come up with, is if you utterly convinced yourself you hated them. You don't want anything to do with them. So much so, you just stop all thoughts of them. Hating them and raging about them will only make you think of them more, you need to hate them coldly. Without the passion of rage.

But its impossible, unless you have an iron will.

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