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  1. 01-02-2009, 09:15 PM #1
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    Hey 2 weeks ago this friend of mine (who I liked) and I started talking, then within 2 days we both liked each other. Started getting close she just got over a boy so I was waiting patiently to hold her hand. Well we hugged blah blah blah then new years eve we held each other. And because her last boyfriend hurt her bad enough she freaked out. But she did like me alot now shes already all excited but wants friends for now. And its freaking me out because I'm afraid she wont like me in the end but its not in my hands. Should I just calm down if it happens it happens if not I will find someone. I honestly think im her first choice if i dont bother her about it to much.

    I mean she still likes me she says but is not ready. lol so should I just calm down and believe we will? HELP ALL KNOWING PEOPLES
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    Go get her, tiger!

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    yes do what the women says.
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    ;/ Tell her to stop playin' games, that she reminds you of your jeep, and ask her if there's anymore room for you in her jeans. It'll totally get her in the sack.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Greed View Post
    Carpe Diem!
    someones just finished dps in class
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    Quote Originally Posted by Q_switch_css View Post
    someones just finished dps in class
    Damage per second?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Greed View Post
    Damage per second?
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    Just kiss her and see where things go.
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    This sounds like puppy love to me . But I would suggest just telling her how you feel.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Manic View Post
    Just kiss her and see where things go.
    Lol we did thats why she freaked. She said she liked it and she really liked me but she got so scared of being hurt.

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    Ive felt puppy love this dont feel like it but never know.
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    Being the rebound boyfriend is never an easy task, and lots of times you end up ****ed over yourself.

    Date her, love her, enjoy it...but wait a few months before you let her really get under your skin. Its hard when you've been after a certain someone for a long time and then the availability comes up so suddenly like that...but girls on the rebound tend to use guys.

    Its not ALWAYS that way, but I don't wanna see a bro of mine get hurt like I did. You'll recover, but you'll be wiser. If you can hear it from me and not have to experience it that'd be great.

    Tl;dr don't get too attached too quickly.


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    well she knows u like her alot right? and she likes u well that wont go away no matter what she just broke up with her bf so shes not ready to be in another relationship u should just wait but like every once in a while bring it up and keep letting her know u like her and stuff because after a while she might think u dont like her but if u keep letting her know u like her then after a while she will ask u out or u can ask her out.tell me if that helps dude
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    Quote Originally Posted by Oisterboy View Post
    Being the rebound boyfriend is never an easy task, and lots of times you end up ****ed over yourself.

    Date her, love her, enjoy it...but wait a few months before you let her really get under your skin. Its hard when you've been after a certain someone for a long time and then the availability comes up so suddenly like that...but girls on the rebound tend to use guys.

    Its not ALWAYS that way, but I don't wanna see a bro of mine get hurt like I did. You'll recover, but you'll be wiser. If you can hear it from me and not have to experience it that'd be great.

    Tl;dr don't get too attached too quickly.
    QFT!!!!

    It's happened to me before too so don't get too attached.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Oisterboy View Post
    Being the rebound boyfriend is never an easy task, and lots of times you end up ****ed over yourself.

    Date her, love her, enjoy it...but wait a few months before you let her really get under your skin. Its hard when you've been after a certain someone for a long time and then the availability comes up so suddenly like that...but girls on the rebound tend to use guys.

    Its not ALWAYS that way, but I don't wanna see a bro of mine get hurt like I did. You'll recover, but you'll be wiser. If you can hear it from me and not have to experience it that'd be great.

    Tl;dr don't get too attached too quickly.
    Haha thanks you helped a lot she doesn't know if I was the rebound she says in a sense I was. But now she wants the next time to be when shes ready, lol thanks you helped a lot.


    @deandog2000
    Yeah she knows i tell her occasionally.
    Yeah that sounds logical thanks you helped alot to
    Thanks everyone im glad to know onrpg has so many cool people.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Oisterboy View Post
    Being the rebound boyfriend is never an easy task, and lots of times you end up ****ed over yourself.

    Date her, love her, enjoy it...but wait a few months before you let her really get under your skin. Its hard when you've been after a certain someone for a long time and then the availability comes up so suddenly like that...but girls on the rebound tend to use guys.

    Its not ALWAYS that way, but I don't wanna see a bro of mine get hurt like I did. You'll recover, but you'll be wiser. If you can hear it from me and not have to experience it that'd be great.

    Tl;dr don't get too attached too quickly.
    yeah oister boy has a good point ut its not allways the case being the rebound guy can be a good thing and a bad thng here are the scenarios. 1.shes just usiing u to get back at her boyfriend 2.she is vunerable and is using u to help out her vunerability3. it goes out well and she really likes u but shes a little cautious of getting hurt again from her previous relationship or 4.sit goes really well she likes u and u like her and she learned from her mistakes from the other relationship and now has more experience in being a bf.thats what i fhave found out on my 14 years of living lol numbers 1 and 2 have happend to my friends alot.but she might be like a number 4
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    Why can't I find any decent females to court?

    Males will do, just give me some ACTION FOR **** SAKE.
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    sounds like ur stuck in the friend zone sonny
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    The way the last relationship with her ended could happen again, but there's the possibility of it lasting a wonderfully long time. Chance, bud, take it.
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    Do what you need to with her and then broom her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Xenonight2 View Post
    Go get her, tiger!

    Life's too short.

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    Wtf? That's the worst advice ever. I'm not flaming you, but you should really get a girlfriend.

    Dude. Chill. If she says she's not ready then she's not ****ing ready. Don't hurry things up. Chill your nips and wait. Losing a boyfriend isn't easy for girls.
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