Help with relationship

[RedrumTri]

Hi guys, I've been with my girlfriend now for about 4 years. Its been a great ride, but she did something that totally broke my trust. I don't really want to say what she did but I will say that she really hurt me. We have talked it over and it seems like she is still down with the being with me. But How in the world am I ever going to trust her again? She also likes to go out clubbing. I know its okay to go out and party once in a while but every week to me seems too much. Epically if you are in a committed relationship. How do I get her to stop going out so much. When she does go out its not just sober going out clubbing and dancing. She pops some xenex and drinks. With the influence of the drug and alcohol, inhibitions are lowered or you get to the point were your super ****ed up and don't know what your doing.

So if you guys have any advice to offer me, that would be great. I felt like I have been a zombie for the past week. Nothing feels right to me, eating doesn't feel good. Video games seem pointless to me. I just tend to sit and stare. We agreed on sometime apart, because every time I look at her I just feel super pissed on the inside and tend to just pick fights with her.

I just don't know what to do. My friends have told me to just move on. But its so hard for me. Even before we started dating she was a very close friend to me. I feel like that if I break up with her i'll also lose a good friend. So what do you guys suggest I do?

[Vesper]

... You expect us to help you without giving details of what she did?

[MariaMariaaa]

That's sad, but it doesn't seem like she cares much about your feelings.

So why chase?

Let her go, honestly. When she realizes her stupidity she'll come running back.

[H4wkeye]

Dump her.Freakin drug whores.She aint worth your time.

[holy11]

dude i was just in your position...5 minutes ago

i was just in an argument with my EX and i was sad,i wanted to cry..

then i listened to this,i was sad,i wanted to throw a brick at her face.



listening too hardrock/major goth makes me happier (my god that cant be normal)

But i can't give advice,my girl went to washington for winter,she met a dude while she was gone and totally broke my heart,the two years i was going out with her there was this girl that asked me out,she is really cute but i said no cuase i had a GF obviously, now since that ***** (my ex) left me i got with that other chick,and my life is totally BETTER NOW

SOO what im trying to say is,if she treat you like crap she IS NOT WORTH IT.

[Magato]

dude i was just in your position...5 minutes ago

i was just in an argument with my EX and i was sad,i wanted to cry..

then i listened to this,i was sad,i wanted to throw a brick at her face.



listening too hardrock/major goth makes me happier (my god that cant be normal)

Dude if i listened that afterwards i would totally **** that biotch D:

[Q_switch_css]

****! okay im going overseas back to the mmorpg section .. sick of freakin love crap.

if youre not giving full info its hard to tell.


im a professional at drugs(i own a pharmacy behind burger king alley way... jk lol) and i sniffed bullshit when you said xanax and drinks in the same line... tahts basically toxic. and no, im not bullshitting, your girl would be sleeping without breathing



if you feel super pissed.. dump the girl


any good friend=trust... i bet she cheated on you, correct?

[V-Opolis]

Hi guys, I've been with my girlfriend now for about 4 years. Its been a great ride, but she did something that totally broke my trust. I don't really want to say what she did but I will say that she really hurt me. We have talked it over and it seems like she is still down with the being with me. But How in the world am I ever going to trust her again? She also likes to go out clubbing. I know its okay to go out and party once in a while but every week to me seems too much. Epically if you are in a committed relationship. How do I get her to stop going out so much. When she does go out its not just sober going out clubbing and dancing. She pops some xenex and drinks. With the influence of the drug and alcohol, inhibitions are lowered or you get to the point were your super ****ed up and don't know what your doing.

So if you guys have any advice to offer me, that would be great. I felt like I have been a zombie for the past week. Nothing feels right to me, eating doesn't feel good. Video games seem pointless to me. I just tend to sit and stare. We agreed on sometime apart, because every time I look at her I just feel super pissed on the inside and tend to just pick fights with her.

I just don't know what to do. My friends have told me to just move on. But its so hard for me. Even before we started dating she was a very close friend to me. I feel like that if I break up with her i'll also lose a good friend. So what do you guys suggest I do?

cant change a person for yourself, either live with it or leave it. go party with her or something, maybe she does it cuz your not being as "fun" as she wants.

and ya more details could help.cheating, selling drugs or what?

[Z0MBiE]

How do I get her to stop going out so much.

rope.

I felt like I have been a zombie for the past week.

i know the feeling.