Help with relationship

[yoyoball]

Thank you guys for the response. But here wat happened. Last saturday she went out with her friends to a club. I thought it was just girls night out. I come over the next day to her apartment. When I get inside ( her roomate let me in when she was coming home) I see her friend sleeping on her one bed, her other friend sleeping with a guy on the sofa bed, and she was sleeping with a guy on her bed. I came in and was like WTF, she got up and I saw all she had on was my really long shirt, and panties on under. I talked to the guy and he said nothing happened. But hell maybe his just trying to save his ***. I talked to her and she said nothing happened. She was just so ****ed up that she just laid on her bed to sleep and the guy was laid there too. Bullshit right? Anyways she seem really sorry for what happened and I realized when your ****ed up you really don't care were you knockout. I got over it. But the next day I was on here phone looking a vids on youtube. She get a text from this guy, the same guy. When i asked her she said her roomate was just using her phone to text the guy. Keep in mind its not just like one or two messages. There were 20 that makes it a full on conversation. So I asked her to clear it up with her roomate. She went out to talk to her roomate, and she was like hey didn't you use my phone to text this guys, and her roomate was like taken back like..."ohhh yea i did". I was like dude thats BS I caught you in a lie. I asked her why she lied to me she said that she was scared I was gonna get mad. Wouldn't telling the truth be easier, even though it hurts, its better than a lie. Then I asked her why she texted him, she said that she wanted to clear the air with him. I was like why? Its not like i yelled at the guy or kicked his ***. I just wanted to know what happened. So here we are today my friends its been a week after and I feel like shit. I wanna just punch her in her face. She has been trying to make it up to me. But everything she does now I question. It would have totally been fine if she had not contacted the guy again. But Now I can't trust her. Thats why I decided on time apart to help me get over the hurt and the anger towards her. But also to analyze our relationship. Well guys there is the whole story. Help me out here what should I do?

Aww dude. Im really sorry this happened...
Im aghast that in this relationship it was the girl who...you know "went for it" instead of the guy in the relationship. Perhaps if you were the girl, as to ask yourself, would you give him another chance? No...right? I know i wouldn't as a guy...being a girl...but im really a guy. (not trying to be funny here)

[H4wkeye]

same, better benefits to.

I totally agree.

[Magato]

Inside Q_switch's pants.

Nooooooo not yet!!!

[RedrumTri]

you dont even know 100% if she did anything...from what you tell us

yes I'm not 100% sure, but from what I saw it looked pretty bad. She and the guy said nothing happened. But my mind is on the fritz, so I don't really know what happened, and I don't believe anything she says. The only way I would believe that nothing happened if someone that was there tells me what really went down

[V-Opolis]

I totally agree.

atleast wait til college, or make it a loose relationship.

[Z0MBiE]

How do I get her to stop going out so much.

rope.

I felt like I have been a zombie for the past week.

i know the feeling.

[V-Opolis]

yes I'm not 100% sure, but from what I saw it looked pretty bad. She and the guy said nothing happened. But my mind is on the fritz, so I don't really know what happened, and I don't believe anything she says. The only way I would believe that nothing happened if someone that was there tells me what really went down

dont make a harsh decision over something you dont know 100%... and as i said people learn from making mistakes, make her go through hell, maybe this is what she needs to stop drinking(or less) or druggin up. has she done anything like this the previous 4 years?

[RedrumTri]

dont make a harsh decision over something you dont know 100%... and as i said people learn from making mistakes, make her go through hell, maybe this is what she needs to stop drinking(or less) or druggin up. has she done anything like this the previous 4 years?

No this was the first time. Well that I have known off. Thats why its hard for me cuz I don't have straight facts. And what she tells me I don't believe because she lied to me.

[airrazr7]

Thank you guys for the response. But here wat happened. Last saturday she went out with her friends to a club. I thought it was just girls night out. I come over the next day to her apartment. When I get inside ( her roomate let me in when she was coming home) I see her friend sleeping on her one bed, her other friend sleeping with a guy on the sofa bed, and she was sleeping with a guy on her bed. I came in and was like WTF, she got up and I saw all she had on was my really long shirt, and panties on under. I talked to the guy and he said nothing happened. But hell maybe his just trying to save his ***. I talked to her and she said nothing happened. She was just so ****ed up that she just laid on her bed to sleep and the guy was laid there too. Bullshit right? Anyways she seem really sorry for what happened and I realized when your ****ed up you really don't care were you knockout. I got over it. But the next day I was on here phone looking a vids on youtube. She get a text from this guy, the same guy. When i asked her she said her roomate was just using her phone to text the guy. Keep in mind its not just like one or two messages. There were 20 that makes it a full on conversation. So I asked her to clear it up with her roomate. She went out to talk to her roomate, and she was like hey didn't you use my phone to text this guys, and her roomate was like taken back like..."ohhh yea i did". I was like dude thats BS I caught you in a lie. I asked her why she lied to me she said that she was scared I was gonna get mad. Wouldn't telling the truth be easier, even though it hurts, its better than a lie. Then I asked her why she texted him, she said that she wanted to clear the air with him. I was like why? Its not like i yelled at the guy or kicked his ***. I just wanted to know what happened. So here we are today my friends its been a week after and I feel like shit. I wanna just punch her in her face. She has been trying to make it up to me. But everything she does now I question. It would have totally been fine if she had not contacted the guy again. But Now I can't trust her. Thats why I decided on time apart to help me get over the hurt and the anger towards her. But also to analyze our relationship. Well guys there is the whole story. Help me out here what should I do?

drop it like it's hot.

did my song referance to give my answer go good?

[V-Opolis]

I've been lurking the forums for awhile and just made this account to write a reply here.

If you truly love her, you would be able to see past that one mistake.
Sure she might go clubbing, sure she might've .... grinded a guy or two or gotten a step further, but she regrets taking that extra step, deep down she loves you, otherwise you wouldn't be her boyfriend, you would be one of those guys she calls when she wants a quick fling.

what he says.......

[MariaMariaaa]

I've been lurking the forums for awhile and just made this account to write a reply here.

If you truly love her, you would be able to see past that one mistake.
Sure she might go clubbing, sure she might've .... grinded a guy or two or gotten a step further, but she regrets taking that extra step, deep down she loves you, otherwise you wouldn't be her boyfriend, you would be one of those guys she calls when she wants a quick fling.

No no no, you'd be surprised as to how many girls stick around after cheating--mainly 'cause they don't want to be alone while they explore their options...

I knew a couple girls like that, you can't trust 'em.

[Cod4Sniper]

tell her what you want to do,tell her to be straight forward with you, and being straight forward will help her chances even more than lieing.. i dunno, these questions are always more personal and what you truely feel you want to do on the inside, you really shouldnt follow advise from random ppl on the interweb, but follow your heart.

/end cheesy paragraph.

Nice way to put it V-Opolis.

To the thread maker.
Tell her straight up how you feel, tell her everything that has been bothering you. Ask her how she feels about you and make sure to not leave out any details.
See how that turns out for you.
Although this might not be the best, be careful dude, be ready for some harsh twists in your little plot. (Sorry)

[H4wkeye]

No no no, you'd be surprised as to how many girls stick around after cheating--mainly 'cause they don't want to be alone while they explore their options...

I knew a couple girls like that, you can't trust 'em.

Listen to Maria.

[V-Opolis]

No no no, you'd be surprised as to how many girls stick around after cheating--mainly 'cause they don't want to be alone while they explore their options...

I knew a couple girls like that, you can't trust 'em.

or it could have been a huge mistake, we wont know.

[Cod4Sniper]

No no no, you'd be surprised as to how many girls stick around after cheating--mainly 'cause they don't want to be alone while they explore their options...

I knew a couple girls like that, you can't trust 'em.

I've had that before and just to put it out there, it sucks. I would never cheat on a girl, I'd feel guilty. I would not be able to face her, look her in the eyes and say "I love you" without having that other thought run through my head.

[H4wkeye]

I've had that before and just to put it out there, it sucks. I would never cheat on a girl, I'd feel guilty. I would not be able to face her, look her in the eyes and say "I love you" without having that other thought run through my head.

Well no offence to the female population,but thats women buddy.They'd cheat you and look you straight in the eyes and say:I love you.

[H4wkeye]

Ouch :< Bad Maria.

[yoyoball]

wow i love you, you have the greatest pics/animations for every situation

and i ask Mariaa

your source?

[Cod4Sniper]

Well no offence to the female population,but thats women buddy.They'd cheat you and look you straight in the eyes and say:I love you.

Last four girlfriends I had never cheated on me. Call me insane, call me weird, but I tested them. She told me she was going clubbing (most recent and current girlfriend) and I told her "Alright sweetie, have fun MWAH" Though what she didn't know was that I was going too. I was with a couple friends and I wore clothes that I never ever wore and styled my hair in a way I never did it just so she wouldn't recognize me. I've noticed a few guys tried to hit on her but she told em to **** off.
One test was good enough for me.

Though I guess, 4 years, I'm sure you guys developed a lot of trust for each other in those years. Just believe her and make sure it doesn't happen again.
Girls who take relationships seriously are hard to find these days.

[MariaMariaaa]

naaa ***** dont get it twisted

How many times did I tell you to stop playing with your mom's cosmetic bag.

[Q_switch_css]

Last four girlfriends I had never cheated on me. Call me insane, call me weird, but I tested them. She told me she was going clubbing (most recent and current girlfriend) and I told her "Alright sweetie, have fun MWAH" Though what she didn't know was that I was going too. I was with a couple friends and I wore clothes that I never ever wore and styled my hair in a way I never did it just so she wouldn't recognize me. I've noticed a few guys tried to hit on her but she told em to **** off.
One test was good enough for me.

Though I guess, 4 years, I'm sure you guys developed a lot of trust for each other in those years. Just believe her and make sure it doesn't happen again.
Girls who take relationships seriously are hard to find these days.

im testing my gf too.. im in her closest and tyhpiong this from ma sidekicks... o shit... i forgot to keep it on silent mode, brb ma dude

How many times did I tell you to stop playing with your mom's cosmetic bag.

its not make up its fo reals, some dude was like hey you cheating with my gf and he punched me twice and one ened up looking like a smiley

[MariaMariaaa]

and i ask Mariaa

your source?

You will never know.

[V-Opolis]

You will never know.

zomg there it is again!

[H4wkeye]

zomg there it is again!

Shes teh gif image Lord.

[Q_switch_css]

sorry guys, what did i miss?

haha yeah!

Leveling up and distributing stats are completely different.

Lrn2RPG.

goddamnit i knew i hated rpgs'