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    Don't feel bad about it.
    You don't think about things, so you might offend people. Its just bad judgment.

    If you apologize and people hate you for it, there's nothing you can do except try to make them realize it was a joke, or just a stupid moment.

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    Sounds like you just have poor judgment. Just take a deep breath and wait a few seconds before doing something, and usually you won't make stupid moves.

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    think before you act.

    something most people don't do. Try it.

    don't worry, your not the only one whose like that.
    whenever your about to do something, just step back and go whoa. What am i doing.

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    Or if u dont really care about urself try to think how it would affect those people. Wat pain it will cause emotionally or physical. Also try to find humility? mkay

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    Wow, way to act on instinct xD
    What they said: Think before you act.

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    well there isnt much point in saying sorry if you dont really mean it

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    Quote Originally Posted by xXTraitorXx View Post
    I always seem to find myself saying sorry to people because of the dumb thing I do over and over. Like now I didn't realize this kids grandma just died and I commented on his picture does she have a bf. Two nights ago I kicked in a kids front door and got him to hate me. I just don't know why I keep doing these things is it just a lack or thought or what. Does anyone have any idea on how I could help my problem?
    It's called douchebaggery, and with a case as serious as yours, there is no cure.

    Seriously man, it takes some level of class to make of a guys dead grandma, who JUST died. Jesus christ.

    In response to your question, self-control. I swear to god it is so easy to just think over what you're about to do before you do it.

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    Haha. I have the same problem. Or well, I keep apologizing even though I haven't done anything.

    Not really the same thing, but still...
    As somebody else said: Think before you act.
    ... Which I'm not and will never be able to do, tehe.

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    If you cant think before you act, dont do anything, seriously.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Slade View Post
    It's called douchebaggery, and with a case as serious as yours, there is no cure.

    Seriously man, it takes some level of class to make of a guys dead grandma, who JUST died. Jesus christ.

    In response to your question, self-control. I swear to god it is so easy to just think over what you're about to do before you do it.
    You should try it to.

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    It sounds like your just being dumb. If you think first, you'll be fine.

    Just be glad your not clumsy like me. Thats worse than being dumb about stuff...because you never do anything on purpose.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bekk View Post
    Develop forethought. It can be practiced through meditation.
    Win answer. Imma buddihst so I do b4. Kinda like the answer to depression anger and unwanted involuntary actions which is natural

    and silly or evil thoughts when you are being polite to someone or greeting people for eg.<----- that side of the mind is Phycotic. Heard from many ppl and thats just mad

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    Quote Originally Posted by xXTraitorXx View Post
    I always seem to find myself saying sorry to people because of the dumb thing I do over and over. Like now I didn't realize this kids grandma just died and I commented on his picture does she have a bf. Two nights ago I kicked in a kids front door and got him to hate me. I just don't know why I keep doing these things is it just a lack or thought or what. Does anyone have any idea on how I could help my problem?
    Lol you kicked in a kids front door xD.Haha.Weird shit.Why'd you do it

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    Think before you act.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xXTraitorXx View Post
    I always seem to find myself saying sorry to people because of the dumb thing I do over and over. Like now I didn't realize this kids grandma just died and I commented on his picture does she have a bf. Two nights ago I kicked in a kids front door and got him to hate me. I just don't know why I keep doing these things is it just a lack or thought or what. Does anyone have any idea on how I could help my problem?
    sounds like another braindead victim of our fast-food media hyped quick hit binge culture.

    you are lucky you dont live in a country where the consequences for being a dick are getting your hands cut off.

    be glad people tolerate you. very glad.

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    Lol i be doing shit like that but honestly i dont give a **** if you dont like it fight me.

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    that post of mine was a satirical dig at modern instant-gratification culture

    Quote Originally Posted by xXTraitorXx View Post
    Is this constructive?
    is your behaviour constructive?

    ooooh hypocrisy.

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    reminds me of a time I pulled a mean joke and the person said his mom was dead... then my friend kicked in and said that she'll respawn so don't worry

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