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High School Relationships
Just curious. What do relationships during high school mean to you?
A preparation for college and the future girls you will meet?
A sex fest?
A blind love?
What? Your ideas OnRPG.
I currently have BS going on during my high school relationship crisis.
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sex and only sex.
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Everyone says they don't last, but that's just cause people change so much in high school.
Or cause they're total whores.
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Mine lasted almost 4 years so far, so I can't say anything bad about it really.
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Frankly, i'll leave "serious" relationships for later.
Life's too short to limit it too much right now.
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This is what I find. (Now I'm talking about what I find Generally. This might not apply to everyone.)
There are generally two types of people. The kind who think high school relationships mean nothing, and that they just wanna have fun at this point in their life. They don't want anything serious to happen now.
Then there are the kind who take relationships seriously. They sorta have the whole, "How is this a waste of my time? The least I get out of this is a life lesson".
Some relationships can go longer than just high school, heck, some people get married from a high school relationship- However, the majority doesn't really see it that way.
I see it as a preparation for the future. Definitely not a sex-fest. At least not at my age now. >_<
Maybe if I stayed with the person long enough.. a few years, 3 at least.. maybe then. ;x
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Originally Posted by Kamilla
Oh, the hypocrisy.
As for me, I'll wait til I'm at least a sophomore, maybe junior, to get involved. There's a lot going on right now, plus I don't think their parents even let her date yet :x
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I think the people who are serious & hoping for a real relationship out of it
= major cute.:3 Like one of my teachers married his high school sweetheart.
Shows they really want to be with one another and are willing to try to be.
~I also met my boy freshman year, his junior year.
Things are rough and I'm still in high school but I really want it to last.
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It's just a freakin' relationship. Why's it gotta mean more than that?
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I dated my GF from HS for about 6 years.
The first 4 years were absolutely nothing but sex.
The later 2 years were basically the same, but more inventive type shit.
The stuff we did makes porn look like cotton candy.
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The f*ck's a relationship?
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Cause relationships can be more than that.
Relationships are what you yourself make of them.
If you want it to just be a normal relationship.
I dont see any reason for it being anything more.
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People think that if your not past HS then it's impossible to build a good relationship..
or its not scientifically possible to be in real "love"
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Sex,Sex, and more Sex i mean i kno friends from high school that have been with the same girl sense then so is not all sex.
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My buddy's parents have been together since they were 13. They're in their 50's now..That's serious buisness.
Btw did I mention they no longer share a bed?
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SO MANY, SO ****ING MANY TIMES.
but yeah, they dont "last" because people change to fit in during highschool.
It's brutal.
I changed for the better, my girlfriend is still the same person.
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They means nothing
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it bothers me why ever single pics of you has a skii mask? not cool at all..People think that if your not past HS then it's impossible to build a good relationship
or its not scientifically possible to be in real "love"
are you covering your vaginal mouth?
TOPIC: Noone is saying its scientifically wrong.. It's just most of the time it's only puppy love and lead to breakups
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I don't really know how to say it... well
What high-school relationships are... they are just relationships used for status reasons usually. Also to occupy / give the person a thing to look forward to everyday. Sex...(experimentation).
What high-school relationships were for me... heartbreaking terror, drama, pain, stressful, and luving. One guy I dated for nearly a year, we even lived together for about 6 months. We were only 16/17. Young... highschool... yeah. Anyways, word of advice... **** around and become careless (in a sense), it's the only way to survive a world like this. Anywhoo, I don't feel like talking about that anymore...
Highschool relationships = PHAIL ... Kawaii...but PHAIL
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puppy love. its all puppy love. it wont actually last that long when you guys find and meet other people along the way.
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95% of the replies in this thread will be negative and not for relationships.
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Nothing really.
I keep a few "friends" just so people don't think I'm too creepy.
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College is a huge factor for any relationship man.
New jobs, new place to live. Anything that causes new people to be in someones life can ruin relationships.
Maybe not true for people who grow up or grew up in a large city.
But Small town folk, like myself. Means bad voodoo son, badbad bad bad
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i mostly found people at highschool to be whiny and childish and slightly backstabbing. people who stay with the first person they ever dated from hischool and stay together like almost forever until they are about thirty or forty are ******ed. i mean variety is good you know and how can you know when you are about 16 that this is what you want for the rest of your life, especially if you have almost nothing to compare it to. plus if the relationship lasts fifteen years then fails then your next relationship will be really tough since youll be so used to that other person, used to their moods and personality and what they do and dont like having done to them, or you might be stuck in a routine that you didnt realise you picked up and your next partner might be all like "hmmm this is a bit stale and clinical".
i dont know. i wouldnt buy a car at 16 and keep that same car for ages without trying out driving any other cars to see what suits my needs better. all that love at first sight stuff and "the one" kinda stuff is for the movies and the romance section at the bookstore. i dont think it works that way in real life, although everyone always seems to know a friend of a friend who stayed in the same relationship for fifty years and stayed happy. i say, good for you and enjoy your crappy ford fiesta.
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