Argh, break up.

[Samhain]

I'm not the type to post my problems over forums, especially since most people hate it here, but I need some help.

My girlfriend broke up with me yesterday because she said she doesn't see us in long term relationship.

Now, I thought everyone was going great because we had a great time whenever we were together, and just everything was perfect. We were having a conversation via text when she literally pulls a 360 and tells me this isn't going to work and goes into this whole smeal about how she doesn't think we don't mesh well, which I didn't quite get. And then she went on to say that she thinks I'm too good for her and I'm too nice.

She told me that she still really likes me, and I still really liker her.

What do I tell her to make her sure I'm capable of producing a long term relationship with her? I really like her and I'm at a loss as to what to do so I turn to you OnRPG.

I apologize if anyone gets mad at me posting this but I'm feeling very depressed at the moment and this seems harmless so yeah =\

[Q_switch_css]

because we are montel and dr phils minions, we will be able to help! ha cha! Please also make a blog, you under a blanket

If your heart is broken, glue it back together

[Attila]

We don't really hate personal problems per se.....We just tend to turn them in either a joke, trolling, flaming, mental and psychological discussions which lead nowhere, and so on...

Anyways, as for your little problem here, being "too good" for someone isn't a valid reason to break up with someone. So there's an alternate reason she broke up with you so I suggest you first look into that. Be annoying until she snaps, then you'll get your answer.

[Norrin Radd]

Anyone who uses the "You're too good." argument doesn't deserve anybody.

Most idiotic, cowardly argument.

[Drinko]

If it came as a 360 then shes definately pimpin around.

[Croix]

If she really liked you that much she wouldn't be doing that. You want to show her? Go into a long term relationship with someone else.

[Raiyne]

Ask her what she wants, then if it doesn't sound ridiculous, do whatever it takes.

because goddamit i am so sick of people confusing loose and lose on the internet. it p*sses me off twenty times more than "retarted" and a hundred more times than "so i said wich way to the store, is it over their? and than we went home". my advice is to learn to spell properly, then to make less assumptions about fellow internet patrons. then you wouldnt be a forum stereotype and probley get laid.

lool u r retarted.

[Lick]

Easy.

She's too good for you. Maybe in looks, maybe in stature at school, maybe in brains. Who knows?

The point is: your subconscious mind already knew that, so you tried to be as nice as possible so that you wouldn't lose her, but by being so nice, you gave her the impression that that's all you are. Again, subconsciously, girls want a guy who is sensitive but will still be able to protect them or play his masculine role (which not allot of guys do these days because it seems that 95% of guys today are more feminine than the girls that drool over them). Anyway, you can either cut your loss and go find some hoodrat to bone for a week or two, or you can try being a semi-asshole. No, that's not being a douche-bag to her. It's being strong and hard.

This might be confusing to you, but it's right.

Also, if it IS confusing to you, I can blame myself because I'm too lazy to read it over and fix spelling / grammatical errors.

[Gaika]

^Owned. :P

[Attila]

Again, subconsciously, girls want a guy who is sensitive but will still be able to protect them or play his masculine role (which not allot of guys do these days because it seems that 95% of guys today are more feminine than the girls that drool over them).

Wait, are you serious? Where do you live? Or are you just talking about onrpg?

[Vesper]

She's banging someone else.

[Cereal&Milk]

She's banging someone else's chick.

[Q_switch_css]

She's banging someone else's chick.

rofl, very true 1+

[`doll]

Give her space, maybe she doesn't want to be suffocated with a serious relationship. If she likes you she'll realize how good you two were and come crawling back.

Oh and I once dumped a boy for being too nice so maybe something about your guy's relationship makes it uncomfortable for her to think about a long term thing.
Think about anything you might've done to make her think twice.

[Zymbaline]

She broke up with you for a reason, maybe she found somebody else and is afraid to tell the truth so she tries to be as nice as possible, or something?

Just don't fool yourself.
If she really liked you and wanted to be with you, she wouldn't have broken up with you. So just deal with the situation. I know it hurts and you seem to really like her, but shit happens - that's life.

You'll find someboy better.
TAKE CARE! =D

[Cod4Sniper]

She broke up with you for a reason, maybe she found somebody else and is afraid to tell the truth so she tries to be as nice as possible, or something?

Just don't fool yourself.
If she really liked you and wanted to be with you, she wouldn't have broken up with you. So just deal with the situation. I know it hurts and you seem to really like her, but shit happens - that's life.

You'll find someboy better.
TAKE CARE! =D

I was going to say that.
She found some other guy and she sucks with breaking up.
Really. If she still "REALLY LIKES YOU" and you guys "HAVE A GOOD TIME WHENEVER YOU HANG OUT" ... i'm sure she just found another guy and is lying to you.


I'm sorry dude. It's hard to get over girls.
Stuff happens in life, but you have to try and get over her as quickly as possible. Sulking and moping won't get her back.

I am seriously willing to bet this is a high school relationship.

Highschool relationships generally does not last. Wow.. breaking up over a text message is just fail.

Oh yeah, THEY DONT LAST AT ALL.
Shut up you little wanker and stop following everyone elses opinions as they previously stated them in the other thread.

There are tons of relationships that do work out if you don't act fake.
People try to merge into cliques in middle school too. Not just highschool.

Let's see.
Oister made it through highschool.
Hmmph?
I would've if I didn't ignore the girl i'm currently with. (We broke up last year, but together again)