What do you look for?

[Oisterman]

but sayin your not shallow cuz you dont go for looks is hypocritical. should go for both equally.

I'm talking about the people who will scope out the beauty from across the room, and try to make it with her...and leave the average looking, perfectly compatible girl they were just sitting next to feeling inadequate and sad. Thats what I meant.

can you actually go out with a friend? wouldn't that be awkward?

A lot of times, yes...but shouldn't the person your dating also be a friend? Thats what I meant. Personally, my girlfriend is also my best friend.

[V-Opolis]

I'm talking about the people who will scope out the beauty from across the room, and try to make it with her...and leave the average looking, perfectly compatible girl they were just sitting next to feeling inadequate and sad. Thats what I meant.




A lot of times, yes...but shouldn't the person your dating also be a friend? Thats what I meant. Personally, my girlfriend is also my best friend.

well someone will find them beautiful, if they didnt then they wernt meant to be. To me physical attraction is the first key, then personality seals it. you gotta have both or it prob wont work. and who your meant to be shouldnt be "average" lookin to you, they should be the most beautiful women lol.Ive thought a girl that most guys didnt think was gorgeous, was straight up beautiful.

[Jammart]

I dunno enough about this...... my gay friends don't tell me much about it, cuz when I do they do weird things and I'm not comfortable with guys touching me weird.

Anyway, that's all I know, from what I know, most gay guys usually have the same interests and personality. Observation from the people in my school supports this.

I'm sorry for breaking your bubble, but gays are no different than straight people in that respect. We aren't creatures from another planet.. we have a human brain and we act just like a human should.

What's funny is that your "observation" is probably only directed towards the stereotypical gay... the only kind you're able to point out in a crowd. In that case, they obviously have the same interests. There are probably a good few dozen gays at your school that you would imagine to be straight.

[Cingal]

eh way i look at it, without us you wouldnt have a chance to be gay... or have akid to raise or whatever. its a mutual bond.

Psst.

It's a disguise.

[V-Opolis]

Psst.

It's a disguise.

whats a disguise?

[Oisterman]

ohhhhhh ok, ya thats not how i was readin things lol. that makes sense, and no i wouldnt do that, if i felt a attraction i wouldnt dip on a girl.

Thats cool then man

So funny how you can mean something one way, and come across totally different haha.

[Attila]

I think first thing you look at in the person is their actualy sex.....Unless you're bi...I guess...

[Kashis]

Female, good personality, looks (need some sort of physical attraction). In order of importance

[Pok]

Anyone who says that looks don't matter is straight out lying.

The first thing you are attracted to (usually) is how the person looks, if that passes, then personality and intellegence are up, if either of those don't pass then you pass on them.

[V-Opolis]

Anyone who says that looks don't matter is straight out lying.

The first thing you are attracted to (usually) is how the person looks, if that passes, then personality and intellegence are up, if either of those don't pass then you pass on them.

speaks the truth.

[Shadow1094]

Anyone who says that looks don't matter is straight out lying.

The first thing you are attracted to (usually) is how the person looks, if that passes, then personality and intellegence are up, if either of those don't pass then you pass on them.

Agree, looks for me first then usually i go for personality then brains..
Personality over brains because if you can't have a good relationship with them, whats the point, including if you get bored with him/her.
Brains- average.. no blank minded person.

[Ithian]

There's not really 1 thing that i look for. Can't really choose one thing that matters the most, it's just if they 'fit' with me or not :o Don't know if that makes sense.