How to get a girl to like you

**Valcry** · 05-09-2009, 11:45 AM

there is this nice girl at my school who i'm in love with,
We have everything in common Music,Video Games everything
One question how can i tell if she likes me back and if no how to get her to like me?
Thanks,
Valcry

**SahibX** · 05-09-2009, 11:48 AM

try asking her friends

**Valcry** · 05-09-2009, 11:55 AM

thing is
i don't know her friends at all,

Is her telling me things she doesn't tell her closest friends a good sign?

**Oisterman** · 05-09-2009, 11:56 AM

Or skip all the bullshit and be honest with her.

Ask her to hang out. Go to a movie or something. I'd say after you hang out with her twice, just give it a shot man. What do you REALLY have to lose in the long run? You'll never know unless you just go for it.

If you fail, try, and try again man. Just let us know, we'll help pick you back up, and then try to find another. Sucks thats how it has to work...but it is.

**SnOwBunZz** · 05-09-2009, 12:00 PM

Originally Posted by Oisterboy

Or skip all the bullshit and be honest with her.

Ask her to hang out. Go to a movie or something. I'd say after you hang out with her twice, just give it a shot man. What do you REALLY have to lose in the long run? You'll never know unless you just go for it.

If you fail, try, and try again man. Just let us know, we'll help pick you back up, and then try to find another. Sucks thats how it has to work...but it is.

/thread

Just hang out with her.

**Valcry** · 05-09-2009, 12:02 PM

yeah ima ask her to the semi :3

**hobolord** · 05-09-2009, 12:05 PM

well
become her friend and hang with her o.o
or tell her straight =p

**mlauzon** · 05-09-2009, 12:25 PM

I myself have tried the things you're all telling him to do, never worked for me...I'll be 33 this summer and never dated, never kissed, never had -- well without a girlfriend the last thing is not possible -- and am still single. Women have just never wanted me as a friend or more. Still like women, however as of January 1st after 22 years of being turned down I've stopped actively and passively looking as it's useless.

**hobolord** · 05-09-2009, 12:38 PM

Originally Posted by mlauzon

I myself have tried the things you're all telling him to do, never worked for me...I'll be 33 this summer and never dated, never kissed, never had -- well without a girlfriend the last thing is not possible -- and am still single. Women have just never wanted me as a friend or more. Still like women, however as of January 1st after 22 years of being turned down I've stopped actively and passively looking as it's useless.

never give up there must be someone =S

**Bad Hamster** · 05-09-2009, 12:48 PM

Just get to know her, and remember everything she ever told you :3 It's really usefull and such. You should be yourself to, even if you can keep up a farce, you will eventually drop it.

**Cereal&Milk** · 05-09-2009, 12:49 PM

Originally Posted by mlauzon

I myself have tried the things you're all telling him to do, never worked for me...I'll be 33 this summer and never dated, never kissed, never had -- well without a girlfriend the last thing is not possible -- and am still single. Women have just never wanted me as a friend or more. Still like women, however as of January 1st after 22 years of being turned down I've stopped actively and passively looking as it's useless.

Do you really want to be the 40 year old virgin? And more importantly, do you really want to give up on companionship?

**TaikoxKashi** · 05-09-2009, 01:34 PM

Originally Posted by mlauzon

There is no one.

Man can live without sex, I am proof of that. I've got friends, granted none of them are female...and anyways I've got to many problems now to deal with having a relationship; so I'll die alone. I have no family to speak of either.

Dude, don't give up! There's gotta be a girl out there in this world for you!

**hotsaucexdo** · 05-09-2009, 01:38 PM

Originally Posted by Valcry

there is this nice girl at my school who i'm in love with,
We have everything in common Music,Video Games everything
One question how can i tell if she likes me back and if no how to get her to like me?
Thanks,
Valcry

Id say u cant "make" her like you by forcing it, just keep being his friend but try to get closer than that; if it doesnt work just dont push it or u will loose her friendship... =D

**Nogardreyals** · 05-09-2009, 01:42 PM

Originally Posted by marcipaans

We are the same man. Though i am 17 but i feel it will turn out like you

I might be like u tooo

**TopHat** · 05-09-2009, 01:44 PM

Originally Posted by Valcry

there is this nice girl at my school who i'm in love with,
We have everything in common Music,Video Games everything
One question how can i tell if she likes me back and if no how to get her to like me?
Thanks,
Valcry

You sound like a nice guy, and when I say that I mean a wuss. Go up to her, tell her that ya want to date her, **** yeah. I remember I was like this, and then we stopped hanging out cause I never had the balls to ask her out, ***** you do that and you do that good mmkay? Now I regret it everyday because no other girl can be like her in terms of personality and beauty.
Either way you idiots, your suppose to come up to the girl not them up to you.

**Bad Hamster** · 05-09-2009, 01:45 PM

Originally Posted by marcipaans

We are the same man. Though i am 17 but i feel it will turn out like you

In 1 year alot can change you know. When I was at high school hardly any girls looked at me, now alot of people recognize me and got tons of girls that would want to date me. That could happen to you to you know. I'm only 18 years old and this suddenly happened in just 1 year.

**woot** · 05-09-2009, 01:49 PM

Originally Posted by Cingal

Make out with a dude in front of her.

Girls love that.

and getting massages from other men makes you look manly too

**SnOwBunZz** · 05-09-2009, 01:58 PM

Originally Posted by Darksin

In 1 year alot can change you know. When I was at high school hardly any girls looked at me, now alot of people recognize me and got tons of girls that would want to date me. That could happen to you to you know. I'm only 18 years old and this suddenly happened in just 1 year.

I can recognize myself in it too a bit.

Though they don't come up to me, I keep hearing they are talking about me. =/

@mlauzon, don't worry, she'll come out of the blue one day.

This happened to the girl I love now (and she me

). I don't date her yet but that comes due some real problems she has right now and I also don't want to put even more stress on her.

**bonneau_14** · 05-09-2009, 02:24 PM

What i did and all my friends is just hang out with her for a while and see if anything grows, if it does, make a move. but if you are like 13 or something don't expect much, nothing is serious at that age.

BTW don't say you love her when you barely know her.

Originally Posted by mlauzon

There is no one.

Man can live without sex, I am proof of that. I've got friends, granted none of them are female...and anyways I've got to many problems now to deal with having a relationship; so I'll die alone. I have no family to speak of either.

**** thats depressing; think of it like cocaine, once you start you ain't stopping.

**Jrgsubzero** · 05-09-2009, 02:26 PM

I got a girlfriend a few days ago.

Yes. I did. So if I can i'm pretty sure you guys can too.

You can't get a girl to like you, unless she's a gold digger.

Just be yourself, let your personality flow. If she likes it, you'll know.

**Gaika** · 05-09-2009, 02:32 PM

Oisty just owned this thread.

That's all the advice you need. Man-up and talk to her. Ask her to hang out, be it with friends or alone.

**Jammart** · 05-09-2009, 02:40 PM

This is a silly thread :P. If I were in your position I'd become a really close friend of hers first, but I'm not one to hit on women (or even men to be honest :c) so I suppose I havn't any decent advice to offer. Listen to Oisty! ^.^~

**Gaika** · 05-09-2009, 02:41 PM

Jammy, have you seen I love you man?

Watch that movie.

V-Opolis · 05-09-2009, 03:52 PM

hang out with her, and be flirty, if shes responsive she likes you, if she tries to avoid it she doesnt.

**bonneau_14** · 05-09-2009, 03:53 PM

Originally Posted by LakeOfTears

or people will flame you with nonsense such as "we dont care" or "rl problems on this board is for losers"

*cough*600+hoursofWoW*cough*

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